TMI thread. Discussion of sensitive ADULT issues/triggers. Enter with awareness!

[CreepingDeath]

Dude, I swear I've seen you too. Wasn't your hair blond & curly a few years back?


My hair as been blond in the past, but never curly. And I swear on all that is holy (Stevie) I have never posted a picture of myself online. Not just the Ledge, but any message board.

Maybe you saw me at a concert. I would have been high school age, though...

[cristochango]

yeah thats why I was making the point to show the "general" differences... haha... which would you rather have? More PC-ness equals less friendly? A bit silly really.

I remember when we moved from Texas to Tennessee in 1992... the kids in TN thought we were from "New Yaw-rk" because of the way we spoke. We had moved around so much as kids that, our accents were really muddled. I remember find that really funny even as a teen... that coming from Texas (such a country state) and moving to the other most well known country state and getting accused of being new yorkers. *shakes head* :lol:

I grew up in Vermont, where everyone speaks with a Northeastern accent.

Today I was doing a debate on the legalization of prostitution in my argument class. Well, I referenced Nevada.

Everyone in my class, with their Pa accent's thought it was hilarious the way I said.

Na, Vaa, Da instead of how they say it Ne, Va, Da. :p

It's like that with Aunt too. I say Aunt, while everyone else within this area say "Ant."

[HejiraNYC]

From what I see of your un-shadowed picture, you're not ugly.

I don't think I'm anything to look at, but ya know what? It's all I've got, and life is short. And I don't plan on wasting another minute of my life....

Loving yourself, is the first step. Because once you do, most of the world will love you, too. And the ones who don't, are a waste of your time and energy, anyway!

OMG, THAT'S NOT ME!!! No, no, no, no... I just used a random image from Google to underscore the Facepalm-worthy comment. Ugh.

[ontheEdgeof17]

Maybe you saw me at a concert. I would have been high school age, though...

I've met you. :wavey:

It seems I have met all the Secret Ledgies.

[CreepingDeath]

You sound so hot. Trade hair, please?!

Thank you. Where were you when I was in school? I was teased mercilessly for being too shy, having no friends, etc. I know it shouldn't, but it bothers me to this day.

BTW- You may have my hair. When I get a haircut, I'll send you the clippings. :p

[HejiraNYC]

Dude, you have. I think you were at an event - a parade or something? Seriously, it was you with another person or group of people. I had no idea you were an Asian male until I saw it. Maybe another board?


^^Proof that I did not post a picture. HejiraNYC does not do parades or groups or other boards. And as far as I'm aware, I did not get snapped by the paparazzi at the B&N signing. If I sense a snapping camera in my midst, I will duck or run. I'm just not a fan of photography at all.

[CreepingDeath]

I've met you. :wavey:

It seems I have met all the Secret Ledgies.

And I looked like total, and complete sh*t that night. I wasn't too fun, either. I left early because I'm a pathetic addict and didn't want to be around friends that were drinking/having a good time, and be a Debbie downer. My excuse for leaving early was, I had to work the next morning. :sorry:

[HejiraNYC]

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy? :mad:

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[mylittledemon]

Hejira, seriously all these years I thought you were a woman. :rolleyes: :lol:

[HejiraNYC]

Hejira, seriously all these years I thought you were a woman. :rolleyes: :lol:

I'm told that often. :lol: I guess it's my girlish figure.

[markolas]

I'm told that often. :lol: I guess it's my girlish figure.

You look pretty damn male to me. And seriously, you're a good-looking guy, so stop with the self-deprecation. :)

[mylittledemon]

Yeah he's a handsome fella!

[CreepingDeath]

Hejira, seriously all these years I thought you were a woman. :rolleyes: :lol:

For a little while, when he first joined, I used to think dissention was a woman. :o

[louielouie2000]

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy? :mad:

You are neither old, nor ugly! I feel misled... I want my money back!! :p :lol: I wish my chest and arms looked like yours! It's great to finally put a face to your name after all these years. :wavey:

[BTFLCHLD]

wow i find you beautiful. hope ok to say so.

[HomerMcvie]

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy? :mad:

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/142/328626472_a958629b06_m.jpg

You're a good looking guy! Stop worrying!

[HomerMcvie]

haha as Jerry Seinfeld said... "How can it be racist, if I like their race?" :lol: I've never heard anyone say "Orientals" in a derogatory way but I do suppose it's mostly older people that say it. I still hear "Japs" occasionally and I find it more humorous than anything, but of course I would never say it. It's a little too close to that line for me.



Lol! That's funny because generalization because in the south, northerners are viewed as having less manners & being less friendly.
You're the ONLY person I've ever known, who quotes Seinfeld, more than I.

And the north/south thing is true, for the most part.
I'm a Yankee, but spend a LOT of time down in TN. The people there, are SO MUCH more friendly there, than they are here. They've told me that they hate Yankees, because we're rude, impatient, and self-absorbed. I agree.

My friend moved here from Chicago....she says the difference in just friendliness, from there to here in IN, is huge. The difference from Chicago to the South, must be astronomical. 70yo women, greet you on a city street, down there. That would rarely happen, here.

[daniellaaarisen]

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy? :mad:

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Why the HELL do you think you are ugly?

[fringed n fab]

I agree with everyone else, Hejira seemed worried all this time for nothing. What a surprise to finally see a pic and he's good looking too. Thanks for posting a pic. It's nice to put a face to a screen name on here. You were shy over nothing Hej :)

[markolas]

The difference from Chicago to the South, must be astronomical. 70yo women, greet you on a city street, down there. That would rarely happen, here.

I was raised in the South and have lived here all my life, but I'm extremely introverted, and as a kid it was absolute hell. I don't like talking to people I don't know well, and will go out of my way to avoid it. I don't do small talk, and generally don't make eye contact with people on the street. I prefer to be kind of anonymous, fade into the wallpaper, and not call attention to myself as much as possible.

Because of all that, my mother (don't get me started on her) thought I was autistic, and I could never get it through the school secretary's head that I was not in Special Ed. :mad:

Sometimes I wonder if I would've had an easier time in the North.

[mylittledemon]

You're the ONLY person I've ever known, who quotes Seinfeld, more than I.


haha, it's an every day thing for me Homer... :laugh:

[vivfox]

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy? :mad:
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/142/328626472_a958629b06_m.jpg

Umm, can I just say, 'major hottie!' I would totally "do you."

I learned something tonight from all of you. I learned that the term Oriental is politicly incorrect. I honestly had no idea that Asian is the correct term, so I thank all of you for being my teachers.

[markolas]

I'm terribly unphotogenic, and getting a good picture out of me is a huge, annoying hassle. I wish I had a dollar for every time someone's told me "You look much better than your picture!" :rolleyes:

[louielouie2000]

I'm terribly unphotogenic, and getting a good picture out of me is a huge, annoying hassle. I wish I had a dollar for every time someone's told me "You look much better than your picture!" :rolleyes:

I used to get that a lot back in the days when I was single and meeting people from online. Another one of my favs comments? "You're so good looking for a redhead!" I STILL don't know whether to feel insulted or flattered by that one. :rolleyes:

Speaking of hard to get good personal pics... "x" pics are the worst about this. :lol:

[holidayroad]

And the north/south thing is true, for the most part.
I'm a Yankee, but spend a LOT of time down in TN. The people there, are SO MUCH more friendly there, than they are here. They've told me that they hate Yankees, because we're rude, impatient, and self-absorbed. I agree.


For a lot of years, I lived in Northern KY, a bridge away from Ohio. I moved South (Georgia, Alabama) because my husband is from here. Let me tell you, Southerns may be 'friendly', but only if you are 'like them'. I've met a lot of people here that are just not good people at all.

[HejiraNYC]

I used to get that a lot back in the days when I was single and meeting people from online. Another one of my favs comments? "You're so good looking for a redhead!" I STILL don't know whether to feel insulted or flattered by that one. :rolleyes:

Speaking of hard to get good personal pics... "x" pics are the worst about this. :lol:

First off, thanks y'all for the kind words. Again, I just want to emphasize that I am not insecure. I just preferred to stay under the radar.

I get these backhanded compliments all the time. You are so ______ for an Asian. I'm like, wha....? Am I supposed to be flattered by that? It just makes me nauseous thinking about the popularly-held preconceived notions about Asian people. I mean, admittedly... there is a little grain of truth to some of it. But it's not a compliment when you are slamming an entire segment of the population at the same time. :rolleyes:

[HejiraNYC]

Umm, can I just say, 'major hottie!' I would totally "do you."

I learned something tonight from all of you. I learned that the term Oriental is politicly incorrect. I honestly had no idea that Asian is the correct term, so I thank all of you for being my teachers.

Thanks Viv! :xoxo: It's been a pleasure "learnin' ya." But please note that "oriental" is still perfectly fine when it comes to objects- rugs, furniture, cuisine, etc.

[GODDESS6]

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy? :mad:

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after ALL these years!!!~ it's awesome to see you:thumbsup:~

[jannieC]

But please note that "oriental" is still perfectly fine when it comes to objects- rugs, furniture, cuisine, etc.

Hee- this made me chuckle. :lol: It *is* nice to put a face to the words/name. Glad to see you!

[camchristo]

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy? :mad:

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I've definitely seen a picture of you and I know I've never met you. The picture you posted was exactly how I remembered you looking in the picture.

[skcin]

^ I'm with Cammie. Maybe it a shot of you before a Stevie or Mac show? With another fan? Did they post it? I know I've seen you before & we've never met.

We grew up five minutes away from each other, and I just have to chime in that I think our "tolerance" is not necessarily a good thing. When you teach a child to be tolerant of someone else, you're teaching that child that someone's race and sexuality are something that you have to accept. The wording makes it seem like their differences are a problem, but like the good little white people we are, it's a problem we can pride ourselves on overcoming. I will be such a happy woman when we stop being satisfied with being tolerant and aim towards acting like decent human beings to other decent human beings.

Good points.

My hair as been blond in the past, but never curly. And I swear on all that is holy (Stevie) I have never posted a picture of myself online. Not just the Ledge, but any message board.

Maybe you saw me at a concert. I would have been high school age, though...

Nope. I must have you confused with someone else. :sorry:

OMG, THAT'S NOT ME!!! No, no, no, no... I just used a random image from Google to underscore the Facepalm-worthy comment. Ugh.


Hahaha. :lol:

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy? :mad:

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/142/328626472_a958629b06_m.jpg

Yup, that's you alright. :p

For a little while, when he first joined, I used to think dissention was a woman. :o

I still think he's a woman. :cool:

For a lot of years, I lived in Northern KY, a bridge away from Ohio. I moved South (Georgia, Alabama) because my husband is from here. Let me tell you, Southerns may be 'friendly', but only if you are 'like them'. I've met a lot of people here that are just not good people at all.


Ever hear Miranda Lambert's "I'm Just Like, You....only pretty." ? :nod:






Let's get back to TMI! :thumbsup: Favorite sexual position?

[fumidesigns]

Let's get back to TMI! :thumbsup: Favorite sexual position?

doggy. God didn't give me this butt for nothing. :lol:

[markolas]

Whether I'm giving or getting: penetratee on his back with his legs on the penetrator's shoulders. I'm also a fan of rubbing schlongs in kind of a lesbian scissoring position. F*#$ing in that position is also good, but it can get uncomfortable after a while.

[skcin]

doggy. God didn't give me this butt for nothing. :lol:


HA! :thumbsup:

Whether I'm giving or getting: penetratee on his back with his legs on the penetrator's shoulders. I'm also a fan of rubbing schlongs in kind of a lesbian scissoring position. F*#$ing in that position is also good, but it can get uncomfortable after a while.

Apparently, The Amazing Butterfly? :p I don't read cosmo, btw, but I'm on lunch @ work & didn't want to risk clicking on a porn site, so this is the best list I could find at the moment.
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/the-amazing-butterfly-sex-position

My husband's a fan of that as well - with me; not with dudes. :lol: This one's good too, but on a couch: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/hot-tub-hug-sex-position



Reach For The Heavens is good, with woman on back OR stomach. Sounds like it wouldn't work, but it does - really well. Esp. for chicks who can't come in other positions. ;)
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/reach-for-the-heavens-sex-position

[fumidesigns]

HA! :thumbsup:



Apparently, The Amazing Butterfly? :p I don't read cosmo, btw, but I'm on lunch @ work & didn't want to risk clicking on a porn site, so this is the best list I could find at the moment.
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/the-amazing-butterfly-sex-position

My husband's a fan of that as well - with me; not with dudes. :lol: This one's good too, but on a couch: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/hot-tub-hug-sex-position


Reach For The Heavens is good, with woman on back OR stomach. Sounds like it wouldn't work, but it does - really well. Esp. for chicks who can't come in other positions. ;)
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/reach-for-the-heavens-sex-position

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm a must try!!!!!!

[Christopher]

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy? :mad:

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Yes, very happy!:wavey: It's great to see you, I always look forward to your posts and insight on this board. For me, you add much needed well thought out, balanced perspective from the running with scissors mob mentality that can crop up ever so often.:lol: So whether I agree or not, you come across as a wealth of knowledge that is valued. And I must say, also being a person of color, it's so nice to see (here) and in the "Post A Picture of Yourself" thread, that The Ledge has so much diversity, in ethnicity, in demographic, in sexual orientation, etc. etc., Not exactly a revelation! But refreshing nevertheless. :angel:

[HomerMcvie]

For a lot of years, I lived in Northern KY, a bridge away from Ohio. I moved South (Georgia, Alabama) because my husband is from here. Let me tell you, Southerns may be 'friendly', but only if you are 'like them'. I've met a lot of people here that are just not good people at all.
Yeah, I can see that. Fortunately for me, I have the gift on "blend". Country club or hillbilly honkytonk, rich or poor folk,.....I don't recall ever not being accepted...:o(I am embarrassed typing that, but it's true)

[HomerMcvie]

Face to face, whether that's missionary, or knees on the headboard(is that technically still missionary?). I like to see who I'm doing.....plus, as the world's biggest kissing lover, doggy doesn't really allow for that.

If it's a marathon, I might finally opt for lying on my back....let them do all the work!:lol:

[CreepingDeath]

Should I be seeing these things? :eek: :laugh:

My mother sent me to Catholic school, even though we weren't Catholic. She said I needed the discipline that only the nuns could provide. :shocked:

There's still part of that blushing school girl in me, I guess. I'm not a total prude, though. You know what they say about the quiet ones...

[ButterCookie]

Should I be seeing these things? :eek: :laugh:

My mother sent me to Catholic school, even though we weren't Catholic. She said I needed the discipline that only the nuns could provide. :shocked:

There's still part of that blushing school girl in me, I guess. I'm not a total prude, though. You know what they say about the quiet ones...

I was sent to Catholic school, too. It turned me into a loud mouthed little jezebel! :laugh:

[louielouie2000]

I was sent to Catholic school, too. It turned me into a loud mouthed little jezebel! :laugh:

I went to a Southern Baptist/Pentecostal school, and it had the same effect on me too :D

[daniellaaarisen]

Whether I'm giving or getting: penetratee on his back with his legs on the penetrator's shoulders.

Definitely, DEFINITELY my favorite too.




Reach For The Heavens is good, with woman on back OR stomach. Sounds like it wouldn't work, but it does - really well. Esp. for chicks who can't come in other positions. ;)
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/reach-for-the-heavens-sex-position

I am trying this as soon as effing possible.


Should I be seeing these things? :eek: :laugh:

My mother sent me to Catholic school, even though we weren't Catholic. She said I needed the discipline that only the nuns could provide. :shocked:

There's still part of that blushing school girl in me, I guess. I'm not a total prude, though. You know what they say about the quiet ones...

Catholic school made me the horny scandalous little sh*t that I am today.

[daniellaaarisen]

Going bra/panties/LINGERIE shopping in 10 minutes..... I'm so excited.

[Dodfather]

Whoa! I'm away from The Ledge for a few days and this thread goes in all sorts of weird and wonderful directions! Well done guys!

Ok - where do I start with the constant poleing...

Fave sexual position totally depends on if it's a quick "God I gotta have you right NOW and I don't care where we are" f**k or a long, slow session of lovemaking.
For the former, doggy works well whereas the latter gives you time to move around and change it up.. it's all good!

[CreepingDeath]

I was sent to Catholic school, too. It turned me into a loud mouthed little jezebel! :laugh:

It turned me into a foul mouthed smartass. Not so much of a jezebel, though. I've been with my boyfriend since I was 17 (I'm 26 now). Faithfully, too. And living/working in Las Vegas there's temptation all around, and you constantly get hit on. I should be given some kind of a reward for that. :nod:

[LittleCharmer]

Going bra/panties/LINGERIE shopping in 10 minutes..... I'm so excited.

The worst thing about being in debt is not being able to buy gorgeous underwear :( I love lingerie shopping

I don't really have a favourite sexual position. Depends on the person, the situation, the environment, etc. I like to go with the flow :thumbsup:

[vivfox]

It turned me into a foul mouthed smartass. Not so much of a jezebel, though. I've been with my boyfriend since I was 17 (I'm 26 now). Faithfully, too. And living/working in Las Vegas there's temptation all around, and you constantly get hit on. I should be given some kind of a reward for that. :nod:



Yes you should be given an award. I am so proud of you!!! It is rare to hear about two people who stay together and don't cheat on one another.

[vivfox]

I don't really have a favourite sexual position. Depends on the person


I've seen your pictures. You're too young and pretty to be having sex. Save yourself for a hottie like christochango or baboles.

[LittleCharmer]

I've seen your pictures. You're too young and pretty to be having sex. Save yourself for a hottie like christochango or baboles.

Thank you for saying so, but surely I'm too young and pretty NOT to be having sex? :laugh: I don't really believe in this 'saving yourself' business. Fair play to those who do so because it makes them happy, but I think sex is a wonderful thing and a exciting human experience which deserves to be explored and enjoyed.

[CreepingDeath]

Yes you should be given an award. I am so proud of you!!! It is rare to hear about two people who stay together and don't cheat on one another.

Cheers. Our relationship can be kind of love/hate . We have some pretty epic fights, but cheating is something I would never put up with.

[LikeAWillow]

Reach For The Heavens is good, with woman on back OR stomach. Sounds like it wouldn't work, but it does - really well. Esp. for chicks who can't come in other positions. ;)
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/reach-for-the-heavens-sex-position

Dude. Thank you. I'm a huge missionary fan. Some things are classics for a reason. I can't wait to try this out (hopefully this weekend!)

[daniellaaarisen]

Thank you for saying so, but surely I'm too young and pretty NOT to be having sex? :laugh: I don't really believe in this 'saving yourself' business. Fair play to those who do so because it makes them happy, but I think sex is a wonderful thing and a exciting human experience which deserves to be explored and enjoyed.

Sooooooo true, all of this.

[fumidesigns]

Going bra/panties/LINGERIE shopping in 10 minutes..... I'm so excited.

sale!!? whatcha get! any cute sets?

i need to go shopping too. i want to wait till i lose another 10lbs before i buy any mo bras tho. the cup doesn't change but i should be going down in my number....hopefully a 34 soon.

i hate panties. they're so in the way.

[skcin]

^ Really? I never go without underwear. And I'm like the only woman in the world who won't wear a thong. :shrug: I don't like them - they're not comfortable & IMO they don't look good unless you have a model-perfect ass. I buy "no pantyline" underwear & they do just fine.

Cheers. Our relationship can be kind of love/hate . We have some pretty epic fights, but cheating is something I would never put up with.

Me neither.


Dude. Thank you. I'm a huge missionary fan. Some things are classics for a reason. I can't wait to try this out (hopefully this weekend!)

Have fun! :laugh: It's a bit awkward at first & takes a bit of time to coordinate movements & such.

[fumidesigns]

^ Really? I never go without underwear. And I'm like the only woman in the world who won't wear a thong. :shrug: I don't like them - they're not comfortable & IMO they don't look good unless you have a model-perfect ass. I buy "no pantyline" underwear & they do just fine.



i hate thongs. they're only good for show. when ever i'm wearing a thong i am taking it off soon! lol!

for me........commando is the way to go. panties work my last nerve. ESPECIALLY when i work out! i hate diggin panties out my ass when i'm working out. it's so damn annoying.

[LikeAWillow]

i hate thongs. they're only good for show. when ever i'm wearing a thong i am taking it off soon! lol!



Really? I think they're so much more comfortable than anything else. I like the freedom :laugh:

[fumidesigns]

Really? I think they're so much more comfortable than anything else. I like the freedom :laugh:

mmmmmmmmmmmmm not for me! floss in the crack of my ass doesn't excite me at all! lmao!

[Heartboy]

mmmmmmmmmmmmm not for me! floss in the crack of my ass doesn't excite me at all! lmao! *LMFAO*:eek: I bet whips & chains do!! :D

[fumidesigns]

*LMFAO*:eek: I bet whips & chains do!! :D

have we met?! *raised eyebrow*

lmaoooooooooooooooo

[cristochango]

*LMFAO*:eek: I bet whips & chains do!! :D

hahaha, I got it. :wavey:

[fumidesigns]

hahaha, I got it. :wavey:

awwwwwwwwww sookie! freak n da hizouse!!!!

[fumidesigns]

on another note..........



i have gas. i'm about to poot in another department and come back to my own lmao!

[cristochango]

awwwwwwwwww sookie! freak n da hizouse!!!!

Where did you come from? hahaha I've never seen you on here before. But you're awesome :D

[fumidesigns]

Where did you come from? hahaha I've never seen you on here before. But you're awesome :D

I'M A OLD HEAD! i used to be here in like 2001-2004 and then i fell back. i'm back now tho baby! let the fukcery commence! lol! j/k...............but not really lmao!

you're pretty awesome yourself boo!

[HomerMcvie]

Dear Ledgie sexter,
You've got email! Check it!!!:eek:


:lol::thumbsup::angel::wavey:

[mylittledemon]

:eek: Everyone just settle down!

[HomerMcvie]

:eek: Everyone just settle down!

But I received some very special pics yesterday, and I wanted to return the flavor!!!:lol:

[camchristo]

for me........commando is the way to go. panties work my last nerve.

I'm with you 100%. I can't stand them. Clothes are so much more comfortable without them.

[michelle2677]

I'm with you 100%. I can't stand them. Clothes are so much more comfortable without them.


but don't jeans, idk, irritate the vadge? i just feel that they would, so that's why i've never tried.

[fumidesigns]

I'm with you 100%. I can't stand them. Clothes are so much more comfortable without them.

i hate clothes too. when i get home, i strip immediately. i can't stand wear clothes most time. weird that i'm a fashion designer huh?! lmao!!!

one of the reasons y i love the hot weather is that i wear less.

[camchristo]

but don't jeans, idk, irritate the vadge? i just feel that they would, so that's why i've never tried.

Nope, not at all. I mean, once in a while I'll get a rogue seam but I just adjust. I feel that underwear are far more uncomfortable. They squish my fat and just aren't flattering, in my opinion. No matter what the style. I mean, obviously, they're flattering on some people. But I don't think they are on me. It's a lot easier to wear low rise pants without having to worry about underwear.

[fumidesigns]

i hate low rise jeans and i don't wear them. i have a high ass so they never fit! urgh lol!

i'm so glad waist jeans are back in style.

[michelle2677]

Nope, not at all. I mean, once in a while I'll get a rogue seam but I just adjust. I feel that underwear are far more uncomfortable. They squish my fat and just aren't flattering, in my opinion. No matter what the style. I mean, obviously, they're flattering on some people. But I don't think they are on me. It's a lot easier to wear low rise pants without having to worry about underwear.

i believe you! i remember once not believing when you told me a solid shampoo from lush would lather and now i love that stuff. i may try it, but i'll start easier with scrubs :lol:

[camchristo]

i believe you! i remember once not believing when you told me a solid shampoo from lush would lather and now i love that stuff. i may try it, but i'll start easier with scrubs :lol:

Hahahaha! See, don't doubt. Scrubs would be a breeze. Literally.

[chiliD]

one of the reasons y i love the hot weather is that i wear less.

And, how does Les feel about THAT? :shrug:






:lol: (I crack myself up)

[jannieC]

i hate clothes too. when i get home, i strip immediately. i can't stand wear clothes most time. weird that i'm a fashion designer huh?! lmao!!!

one of the reasons y i love the hot weather is that i wear less.

I've always been kind of curious about people who walk around their homes naked. I do it if I need to grab something before I get in the shower, or something like that. But just to *hang out* naked would feel so weird. I also don't like to sleep naked, though I know a lot of people do.

[daniellaaarisen]

sale!!? whatcha get! any cute sets?

i need to go shopping too. i want to wait till i lose another 10lbs before i buy any mo bras tho. the cup doesn't change but i should be going down in my number....hopefully a 34 soon.

i hate panties. they're so in the way.

MY BOOBS ARE TOO BIG FOR VICTORIA'S SECRET. THEY PRETTY MUCH DON'T CARRY DDs ANYMORE. WHAT THE **** IS THIS.

[HomerMcvie]

I've always been kind of curious about people who walk around their homes naked. I do it if I need to grab something before I get in the shower, or something like that. But just to *hang out* naked would feel so weird. I also don't like to sleep naked, though I know a lot of people do.

In the winter, I'm pretty cheap with the thermostat, so I'm always bundled up. But when it's 80 out, lookout! Let's just say I have very, very, very, faint tan lines, during the summer! The beauty of working nights, and living in the country, with a pool. A couple glasses of wine, while floating around, letting the sun bake me. I can't wait to open the pool. 30 days and counting........:thumbsup:

[daniellaaarisen]

Really? I think they're so much more comfortable than anything else. I like the freedom :laugh:

110% agreed. "Normal" underwear is really uncomfortable to me... I can wear "hot" panties and I'm more comfortable that way-- I've got a win/win situation. :thumbsup:

[fumidesigns]

And, how does Les feel about THAT? :shrug:






:lol: (I crack myself up)

lmaoooooooooooo silly as hell!

[fumidesigns]

I've always been kind of curious about people who walk around their homes naked. I do it if I need to grab something before I get in the shower, or something like that. But just to *hang out* naked would feel so weird. I also don't like to sleep naked, though I know a lot of people do.

oh i GOTTA sleep naked. not because there's someone next to me either. it's just that i don't like sleeping in clothes! ionno.....maybe i'm just a nudest!

i love walking around naked! it's a great feeling. i mean...........it's my nakedness.......so y not lol

[fumidesigns]

MY BOOBS ARE TOO BIG FOR VICTORIA'S SECRET. THEY PRETTY MUCH DON'T CARRY DDs ANYMORE. WHAT THE **** IS THIS.

omg! i HATE vsecret! i do fredricks cause i'ma dd too! i haven't shopped at vs in like 10 years +

[fumidesigns]

yeah so i was in the lindsey room and someone did the worst thing every and posted the pic of him in his swimming pants! urgh! now all i can think about how big he may be! dammit!

oh and that damn pool/guitar pic didn't help either. damn that man was foine back in the day. he still is handsome n all but ...............DAMN!

[mylittledemon]

I've always been kind of curious about people who walk around their homes naked. I do it if I need to grab something before I get in the shower, or something like that. But just to *hang out* naked would feel so weird. I also don't like to sleep naked, though I know a lot of people do.


My mother used to walk around naked. I thought it was WEIIIIIRD. I mean, not all the time, but after she had a shower and stuff... to the laundry room and back, that sort of stuff.

I CANNOT SLEEP naked. Ever. I do take showers before i go to bed... but something about my arse right on the sheets makes me uncomfortable. Like I'm dirtying them up. I dunno.

[fumidesigns]

My mother used to walk around naked. I thought it was WEIIIIIRD. I mean, not all the time, but after she had a shower and stuff... to the laundry room and back, that sort of stuff.

I CANNOT SLEEP naked. Ever. I do take showers before i go to bed... but something about my arse right on the sheets makes me uncomfortable. Like I'm dirtying them up. I dunno.

WHOA................:shocked:

[bluefox4000]

The only times you will find me naked is when i shower or have sex.......that's it. Otherwise I'm clothed.

Mick

[mylittledemon]

WHOA................:shocked:

yeah pretty weird eh. One time she got out of the shower and was standing in the kitchen with nothing but a towel on her head. The mail man was at the back door to deliver something and saw her! hahaha She grew up in a household of women only, so I guess thats just what they did back then? I dunno. Every time I saw her naked it was like walking in on your parents f*cking... you know that "AWWW NO!! MY EYES!!" kinda thing. It made her laugh.

[fumidesigns]

yeah pretty weird eh. One time she got out of the shower and was standing in the kitchen with nothing but a towel on her head. The mail man was at the back door to deliver something and saw her! hahaha She grew up in a household of women only, so I guess thats just what they did back then? I dunno. Every time I saw her naked it was like walking in on your parents f*cking... you know that "AWWW NO!! MY EYES!!" kinda thing. It made her laugh.

that's prob how my mom would feel when i'd walk around naked. lol! i just hate clothes.

i have an ex that thought i was weird cuz of it. you'd think he'd get turned on and wanna bang me out but his square ass felt uncomfortable.

[mylittledemon]

i have an ex that thought i was weird cuz of it. you'd think he'd get turned on and wanna bang me out but his square ass felt uncomfortable.

HAHAHA, I'd be the exact same way, but still slightly turned on.

[fumidesigns]

HAHAHA, I'd be the exact same way, but still slightly turned on.

WHAT!? uncomfortable for what!? ya girl is buttass.............take her down! lol!

[fringed n fab]

I sleep with clothes on too. It can get cool with the ceiling fan on and air turned down during sleep.

[daniellaaarisen]

WHAT!? uncomfortable for what!? ya girl is buttass.............take her down! lol!

You are so my new favorite Ledgie. This place was in desperate need of some serious sass.

[fumidesigns]

You are so my new favorite Ledgie. This place was in desperate need of some serious sass.

*does happy dance* thanks mama!!!

[LittleCharmer]

You are so my new favorite Ledgie. This place was in desperate need of some serious sass.

I completely agree, you make me fall about laughing with every post! Especially this one:

you'd think he'd get turned on and wanna bang me out but his square ass felt uncomfortable.

On the topic of casual nudity: I don't at all mind being naked when I'm on my own (i.e. before/after a shower) or with somebody I'm in a relationship with.. But I don't walk around naked. I enjoy clothes too much :laugh: I love texture and I like to feel covered in something. I don't like sleeping naked when I'm alone and I'm obsessed with my duvet. Perhaps I have some issues :lol:

[Heartboy]

The only times you will find me naked is when i shower or have sex.......that's it. Otherwise I'm clothed.

Mick

I'm the same way but it's to bad I don't get enough of the sex part!:shocked::lol::D

I'm good with a whip!

Interested?;)

[fumidesigns]

I'm the same way but it's to bad I don't get enough of the sex part!:shocked::lol::D

I'm good with a whip!

Interested?;)

oh my..............

[mylittledemon]

WHAT!? uncomfortable for what!? ya girl is buttass.............take her down! lol!

:lol:

Ever see that Seinfeld episode where there's good naked and bad naked?

[daniellaaarisen]

Regarding nakedness: I love sleeping naked but any other time, I'm not a fan. If I'm in my bed, under the covers, I'm great. But being in the open air kinda weirds me out. I especially don't like walking around naked, even if in my own bedroom.

[louielouie2000]

My mother used to walk around naked. I thought it was WEIIIIIRD. I mean, not all the time, but after she had a shower and stuff... to the laundry room and back, that sort of stuff.

My parents were forever naked around me when I was a kid. We'd always end up at the nude beach across the lake from our house every weekend, too. As a kid, I *HATED* the whole nudity thing. As an adult, I realize it was probably not a bad thing. I'm extremely comfortable in my own skin and with my body. I may have a weird name, be freakishly tall, have red hair, and totally lack pigment... but I rock what I got! :D

I CANNOT SLEEP naked. Ever. I do take showers before i go to bed... but something about my arse right on the sheets makes me uncomfortable. Like I'm dirtying them up. I dunno.

Me EITHER! It's too distracting. I can go to nude beaches and not get aroused, but I can't do the same in a bed... even if I'm alone.

[fumidesigns]

:lol:

Ever see that Seinfeld episode where there's good naked and bad naked?

NOPE........... lol

[mylittledemon]

haha, it's true... there's good and bad naked...

[Dodfather]

I can't sleep naked, it's uncomfortable for me. I'm usually in a t-shirt and boxers. When it gets hot in the summer it's just boxers.

I'll be happier walking around naked once the gym starts paying off. That said, I'm very happy with what I got too - never any complaints! Haha.

[ButterCookie]

Eugh, I hate thongs, too. I don't like the feeling of having dental floss up my bum! It's boxers for me or briefs, as long as they cover me properly. I hate the feeling of my butt hanging out when it's meant to be panted :laugh:

Sleeping naked is my favourite thing EVER. I have really soft sheets so it's just GUH. I sleep in pyjamas in winter or when I'm staying at a friend's, in a hotel or have a friend over.

[fumidesigns]

haha, it's true... there's good and bad naked...

i don't doubt that at all. OMGEEEEEEEEE...........

*closes blinds*

[HomerMcvie]

Sleeping naked is my favourite thing EVER. I have really soft sheets so it's just GUH. I sleep in pyjamas in winter or when I'm staying at a friend's, in a hotel or have a friend over.

Me too! I use flannel sheets, year round, and love being naked between them. I've worn sweats to bed, this entire, seemingly neverending:mad:, fukcing winter. I should hopefully be able to embrace my nude sleep habits, here in a week or two!:D

[louielouie2000]

Me too! I use flannel sheets, year round, and love being naked between them. I've worn sweats to bed, this entire, seemingly neverending:mad:, fukcing winter. I should hopefully be able to embrace my nude sleep habits, here in a week or two!:D

I love flannel sheets!! I used them year round in the Carolinas, but it's just too darned hot down here. Our weather started hitting 90 degrees weeks ago. But that just means that nudie beach season is ON!!! :thumbsup:

[vivfox]

I've worn sweats to bed, this entire, seemingly neverending:mad:, fukcing winter.


LOL I hear ya!

[fumidesigns]

well i guess i'm just a freak then lol! ya'll make me feel soooooooooo pornoish lol!

[HomerMcvie]

I love flannel sheets!! I used them year round in the Carolinas, but it's just too darned hot down here. Our weather started hitting 90 degrees weeks ago. But that just means that nudie beach season is ON!!! :thumbsup:

I'm to where I can't stand the feel of regular sheets, now. I used to use regular ones during the death weeks of summer, but no longer....I just feel lost without my flannel!

I'd love to go to a nude beach, where I knew no one!:lol:

[mylittledemon]

I'd love to go to a nude beach, where I knew no one!:lol:

Exactly... I would do it as long as there wasn't anyone i knew. Well, maybe some close friends... :laugh:

[HomerMcvie]

Exactly... I would do it as long as there wasn't anyone i knew. Well, maybe some close friends... :laugh:

There's always the risk of significant shrinkage!!!:D

[mylittledemon]

I Was In The Pool!!!!

[DefDumbandBlond]

I can never walk around/sleep naked. First because the majority of the time I'm always cold so sleeping naked would be out of the question even if I was into it, and second of all I'm too much of a fashion freak to be nude all day. :laugh:

[louielouie2000]

There's always the risk of significant shrinkage!!!:D

Ugh, this is the biggest problem with going to Barton Springs here in Austin. The spring water is a constant 68 degrees year round, which is pretty damned nippy. I mean, I seriously get the worst shrinkage of my life swimming there. :o To make matters far worse, the changing rooms are open air Roman style baths... so there is NO hiding your shrinkage when you change out of your bathing suit to go home. I freaking HATE that!! :laugh:

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a382/louielouie2000/Picture1-1.jpg

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a382/louielouie2000/BartonSpringsPool4.jpg

[CastleWalls]

I just want every guy who is here that is gay to proclaim it.

[louielouie2000]

I just want every guy who is here that is gay to proclaim it.

Why's that? :shrug:

[CastleWalls]

Why's that? :shrug:

I think it's a necessary function.

[PenguinHead]

I think it's a necessary function.

conjunction conjunction what's your function?

[CastleWalls]

conjunction conjunction what's your function?

Hooking up phrases and clauses that balance like.....

[fringed n fab]

Ugh, this is the biggest problem with going to Barton Springs here in Austin. The spring water is a constant 68 degrees year round, which is pretty damned nippy. I mean, I seriously get the worst shrinkage of my life swimming there. :o To make matters far worse, the changing rooms are open air Roman style baths... so there is NO hiding your shrinkage when you change out of your bathing suit to go home. I freaking HATE that!! :laugh:

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a382/louielouie2000/Picture1-1.jpg

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a382/louielouie2000/BartonSpringsPool4.jpg

Warm Mineral Springs in North Port a few minutes below Sarasota is a popular gathering spot for older people who come from all over the country to bask in the constant 87 degree water year round. I've never been there but have passed by it a 1000 times. I haven't been to any of the natural springs around here and I've lived here for a year and a half now. I guess when I want water I just think of the Gulf. :cool:

http://i1229.photobucket.com/albums/ee466/fringedNfab/warm_mineral_springs.jpg

[cristochango]

Warm Mineral Springs in North Port a few minutes below Sarasota is a popular gathering spot for older people who come from all over the country to bask in the constant 87 degree water year round. I've never been there but have passed by it a 1000 times. I haven't been to any of the natural springs around here and I've lived here for a year and a half now. I guess when I want water I just think of the Gulf. :cool:

http://i1229.photobucket.com/albums/ee466/fringedNfab/warm_mineral_springs.jpg

whoa whoa whoa shane, thats a little TMI right there ;)

...sarcasm... :D

[fringed n fab]

whoa whoa whoa shane, thats a little TMI right there ;)

...sarcasm... :D

Well it's right off Tamiami Trail (US 41) that runs all down the coast, so you can't miss it.


Excerpt:

http://i1229.photobucket.com/albums/ee466/fringedNfab/WarmMinSprings.gif

Warm Mineral Springs

The Springs is the only warm mineral spring in Florida. It's water has the highest mineral content of any warm springs in the world, even more than the famous spas in Vichy and Aix les Bains in France, Baden Baden in Germany and the Hot Springs in Arkansas.

Warm Mineral Springs is a water-filled, hourglass shaped sinkhole. It is about 80 yards in diameter and 230 feet deep where warm, heavily mineralized water enters from regions far below. Years ago it was developed into a spa. Now, visitors come from around the world to soak in its rejuvenating water.

The Spring's 87 degree water can provide relief for muscular problems, arthritis and rheumatism. A curiosity of The Springs is the the water contains no dissolved oxygen, except at a layer 15 or 20 feet thick at the surface, where some garfish and a few minnows manage to live.

Anything organic that gets into The Springs will stay as is it for an exceedingly long time, or until some human researcher finds it.

Some say The Springs was the spot Ponce de Leon searched for, fought for and died for, believing that here, indeed, was the Fountain of Youth.

[HomerMcvie]

Ugh, this is the biggest problem with going to Barton Springs here in Austin. The spring water is a constant 68 degrees year round, which is pretty damned nippy. I mean, I seriously get the worst shrinkage of my life swimming there. :o To make matters far worse, the changing rooms are open air Roman style baths... so there is NO hiding your shrinkage when you change out of your bathing suit to go home. I freaking HATE that!! :laugh:


Fukc that 68!!!!!!!!!
I won't even think about getting in my pool, unless it's at least 78(and that's the minimum). I'm too cold natured. That sweltering summer we had last year, was PERFEKT! I kept my pool at about 95, for pretty much the entire summer. It's really crucial, if you want 30 naked hotties in there, at 5AM.:eek::thumbsup:

[HomerMcvie]

I Was In The Pool!!!!

Rachel, see this shirt? It shrank. See, that's what water does. It shrinks things.



That episode was on TBS, yesterday!:lol:

[mylittledemon]

Rachel, see this shirt? It shrank. See, that's what water does. It shrinks things.

That episode was on TBS, yesterday!:lol:


hahaha... Oh that's just Jane driving back to new york in the middle of the night...

[HomerMcvie]

hahaha... Oh that's just Jane driving back to new york in the middle of the night...

OMG.
I've finally met my Seinfeldian match.:wavey:
I do Kramer pratfalls at work, and make the little "yet det det det det" noises. And use "giddyup", constantly.

[Dodfather]

You get no sympathy here from someone in the UK where's it's never hot enough to have a pool!

[mylittledemon]

OMG.
I've finally met my Seinfeldian match.:wavey:
I do Kramer pratfalls at work, and make the little "yet det det det det" noises. And use "giddyup", constantly.

haha can you do Kramer's "tick" sound that he makes with his tongue? :lol:

[HomerMcvie]

You get no sympathy here from someone in the UK where's it's never hot enough to have a pool!

I open mine on May 1st, and usually leave it open until Oct 1st. But it's usually only warm enough to swim(I'm cold natured, and I like it HOT - my friends joke that I have the world's biggest hot tub, because I keep it that warm), at least for me, from the end of May, until mid-September.

I really am going to try to not have 30 people a night, at my house. Last year's parties were rock star out of control. And NO ONE under 21, this year, either(no, I never invited them, but I'm too nice to throw people out).
Lord, if you'd seen how much booze we went through. Sometimes 2-3 1.75 litres of vodka and whiskey, a night!

It was so hot last summer, and I had ~the~ place to be, nearly every night. Pics from my pool, were on FB, of nearly everyone in my town. And while I'm generally a modest person, after 8 whiskey cokes, and someone yells, "suits off!!!", I just go with the flow. We did all observe the rule of, "no penetration in the pool".:lol: Seriously. It was close to that a few times, and we all decided that that was crossing the line, even though we were all drunk and naked.
Take the pool sex, to the pool table!:wavey:
TMIJTIS

[Dodfather]

I open mine on May 1st, and usually leave it open until Oct 1st. But it's usually only warm enough to swim(I'm cold natured, and I like it HOT - my friends joke that I have the world's biggest hot tub, because I keep it that warm), at least for me, from the end of May, until mid-September.

I really am going to try to not have 30 people a night, at my house. Last year's parties were rock star out of control. And NO ONE under 21, this year, either(no, I never invited them, but I'm too nice to throw people out).
Lord, if you'd seen how much booze we went through. Sometimes 2-3 1.75 litres of vodka and whiskey, a night!

It was so hot last summer, and I had ~the~ place to be, nearly every night. Pics from my pool, were on FB, of nearly everyone in my town. And while I'm generally a modest person, after 8 whiskey cokes, and someone yells, "suits off!!!", I just go with the flow. We did all observe the rule of, "no penetration in the pool".:lol: Seriously. It was close to that a few times, and we all decided that that was crossing the line, even though we were all drunk and naked.
Take the pool sex, to the pool table!:wavey:
TMIJTIS

Can I come to one of your parties this year?! Sounds likme so much fun. I'm always up for a party and place to crash if I'm in the US! Also,the Scottish accent is always popular in the US... last time I had a LOT of fun because of it, hehe. I hardly had to say anything, Wish it was as easy here!

[HomerMcvie]

haha can you do Kramer's "tick" sound that he makes with his tongue? :lol:

No. I've tried, and can't do it.
Literally half of my response at work, to nearly any query, is "yet det det det det", with my arm stretched out, Kramer style.:wavey:

I'm.a.fukcing.clown.:o

[HomerMcvie]

Can I come to one of your parties this year?! Sounds likme so much fun. I'm always up for a party and place to crash if I'm in the US! Also,the Scottish accent is always popular in the US... last time I had a LOT of fun because of it, hehe. I hardly had to say anything, Wish it was as easy here!

Sure. Although they were never planned. Rarely, anyway. We'd all be out clubbing, and a couple of friends would ask if they could come swimming, and of course I'd say okay. They'd ask a couple of friends, who'd ask another couple of friends, and it just snowballed out of control.
Finally, at the tail end, some booze was stolen, and I sort of put the clamps down a little. And then an orgy of sorts happened, and the summer ended less than ideally.

It was really strange, because I wasn't me. I'm not the most social person, and I'd never see myself having "rock star" parties, but I metamorphosed, into this Mick Fleetwood character. Really. When the dust settled, I CRAVED having those 30 people at my house every night. It took me a couple of months, to become the old me, again. My girlfriend from high school was asking me about the parties, after seeing the pictures on my FB, and she's the one who said, "it's like you're a rock star, now, with these awesome parties". And it sort of felt like that, too....

I feel very anxious now. Both eager with anticipation, and apprehensive with worry, about how far things might go, this summer.:shocked:

[daniellaaarisen]

I haven't seen my guy in two weeks. He's coming home tomorrow from a long business trip and I'm sooo excited to see him and sooo excited for "welcome home" sex. I want to do something special.... I have some ideas but I want to hear from some straight men!

[Dodfather]

Homer - If you're anxious about it then it's maybe not the best thing. We all have crazy periods and they wre what they are and they're very much of a time. I hope you don't feel pressure to repeat them. If you don;t wanna do it then just chill in whatever way you want.

[SapphireSister]

I haven't seen my guy in two weeks. He's coming home tomorrow from a long business trip and I'm sooo excited to see him and sooo excited for "welcome home" sex. I want to do something special.... I have some ideas but I want to hear from some straight men!

Good luck with that on this board ;).

[Dodfather]

I haven't seen my guy in two weeks. He's coming home tomorrow from a long business trip and I'm sooo excited to see him and sooo excited for "welcome home" sex. I want to do something special.... I have some ideas but I want to hear from some straight men!

Ok Dani - go on...

[HomerMcvie]

Homer - If you're anxious about it then it's maybe not the best thing. We all have crazy periods and they wre what they are and they're very much of a time. I hope you don't feel pressure to repeat them. If you don;t wanna do it then just chill in whatever way you want.
Other than just flat out saying "no", I don't know how I could stop it. I mean, I'm still good friends with the ones who started it all. They love me, and of course they will want to start it up again. I think maybe I should make a few rules.
#1 - NO ONE under 21.
#2 - Limit of 10-12 people.
#3 - You must KNOW me, to come(there were nights, where I wouldn't know 10 people, who were in and out of my house, while I'm in the pool, entertaining. That, is scary. Although I kept my music room, and my bedroom, locked at all times).
#4 - BYOB!!!

[HomerMcvie]

Ok Dani - go on...

Yes, what do you have in mind?:woohoo:

[daniellaaarisen]

Good luck with that on this board ;).

I know.... there's definitely a few though! :lol: Any ideas from girls are much appreciated too-- anything you've done that went over well.

[daniellaaarisen]

Yes, what do you have in mind?:woohoo:

Well there are all the obvious choices. Lingerie, bring my new toy over, saying something really dirty while at dinner to up the anticipation, the classic no panties/skirt thing.... I don't even know. I just need something good.

GIVE ME IDEAS!

[HomerMcvie]

Well there are all the obvious choices. Lingerie, bring my new toy over, saying something really dirty while at dinner to up the anticipation, the classic no panties/skirt thing.... I don't even know. I just need something good.

GIVE ME IDEAS!

"Sling" comes to mind, for some reason!:wavey:


I mean, nothing says "I missed you" like being in a sling, when he walks through the door, right?:lol:

Just sayin'.....

[daniellaaarisen]

Sling? What do you mean?

[HomerMcvie]

Sling? What do you mean?

Isn't that what they're called? Suspended from the ceiling(or a stand), and you're hanging there in it?

[LittleCharmer]

Isn't that what they're called? Suspended from the ceiling(or a stand), and you're hanging there in it?

Like a sex swing? Hahahaha.

You'll have to report back to the thread Dani, and tell us how your night went! (Living vicariously through the TMI thread right now)

[louielouie2000]

Sling? What do you mean?

You've never heard of a sling?! I'm sooo disappointed in you!! :p

[SapphireSister]

I know.... there's definitely a few though! :lol: Any ideas from girls are much appreciated too-- anything you've done that went over well.

Ha ha well I know this thread is a discussion of adult issues but that one's gonna have to settle for a PM'd response ;).

[LittleCharmer]

Ha ha well I know this thread is a discussion of adult issues but that one's gonna have to settle for a PM'd response ;).

I object! :laugh:

[daniellaaarisen]

Ha ha well I know this thread is a discussion of adult issues but that one's gonna have to settle for a PM'd response ;).

Lindsay you better PM me!

[daniellaaarisen]

You've never heard of a sling?! I'm sooo disappointed in you!! :p

Uh, I googled sex sling and this is what I found....

http://www.extremerestraints.com/sex-furniture_167/sex-sling_419.html

or this?

http://www.stockroom.com/Door-Jam-Sex-Sling-P4568.aspx


Interesting but I need something simpler for the sake of time constraints more than anything else....

[mylittledemon]

No. I've tried, and can't do it.
Literally half of my response at work, to nearly any query, is "yet det det det det", with my arm stretched out, Kramer style.:wavey:

I'm.a.fukcing.clown.:o

haha same here... I was talking to some workmates and I said "Yeah well we're playin' a game here pal" *tick* Like when Kramer told the Ukranian guy on the sub that the Ukraine is weak, feeble! All the guys cracked up.

[HomerMcvie]

haha same here... I was talking to some workmates and I said "Yeah well we're playin' a game here pal" *tick* Like when Kramer told the Ukranian guy on the sub that the Ukraine is weak, feeble! All the guys cracked up.

Stop living my life, Brandon. There's no payoff!:lol:
George was the heart of the show, but Kramer was the court jester.
I try to be the court jester.......there's no greater payoff in my life, than just making people laugh....it makes me happy, when I succeed.:)

[mylittledemon]

haha yeah man... I never really get to watch Seinfeld any more so I have to act it out to get my fix. I dont really think about it consciously, it just that there was literally an episode that dealt with just about everything... from masturbation to shrinkage. Yes I think George was the linchpin of the show. Kramer, Frank Costanza and Peterman were my faves ;)

[louielouie2000]

All this Seinfeld talk is TMI to ME! :p

[Dodfather]

I like Seinfeld but haven't seen too much of it and so can't do all the Seinfeld talk. I can do it with Friends, The West Wing (YES!), ER and Cheers.

I loved Friends but, sigh, it just went on for far, far too long. They should have ended it after season 8. I do recognise that parts of it, especially Monica's character, are a watered down Seinfeld though.

[mylittledemon]

All this Seinfeld talk is TMI to ME! :p

Oh, Louie... :lol:

TMI... back on topic. I JUST recently was told was "edging" meant. I thought it had to do with yard work, or at least trimming pubes. Boy was I wrong. :shocked:

[Dodfather]

Oh, Louie... :lol:

TMI... back on topic. I JUST recently was told was "edging" meant. I thought it had to do with yard work, or at least trimming pubes. Boy was I wrong. :shocked:

Brandon - Quote of the day! Genius.

Like yard work though, sometimes I'm in the mood for edging and can do it and othertimes it's far too much work!

[LittleCharmer]

Wow.. I didn't know there was a term for that!

I'm a seasoned edger :thumbsup:

[HejiraNYC]

Oh, Louie... :lol:

TMI... back on topic. I JUST recently was told was "edging" meant. I thought it had to do with yard work, or at least trimming pubes. Boy was I wrong. :shocked:

Isn't that the point in the show where Stevie shakes hands with her fans? :shrug:

[cristochango]

Isn't that the point in the show where Stevie shakes hands with her fans? :shrug:

Certainly shaking something... :p

[LikeAWillow]

Weird TMI, but that's the point, right? So whenever I start my period, it forces my roommate onto hers as well, despite her birth control. Each time it happens, she gets a little legitimately angry, and I just sit back like "Sorry for being alpha, bro. You mad?"

[HejiraNYC]

Weird TMI, but that's the point, right? So whenever I start my period, it forces my roommate onto hers as well, despite her birth control. Each time it happens, she gets a little legitimately angry, and I just sit back like "Sorry for being alpha, bro. You mad?"

Is it typical for females to share this kind of information openly with each other? Yes, you live together. But... ewww!!!! :shocked: TMI, indeed.

[LikeAWillow]

Is it typical for females to share this kind of information openly with each other? Yes, you live together. But... ewww!!!! :shocked: TMI, indeed.

Oh, it's definitely normal for women to share that with other women, and especially in this situation, she kind of does need to know. She's on birth control. It shouldn't be moving. So when her schedule gets strange, she's got to find out why.

Also, I think it's funny that we can talk about pooping without issue, but talking about another totally natural body process is gross.

[Dodfather]

Isn't it generally known that women who live in close quarters end up in sync with this? I certainly know of 2 female friends of mine, office mates, who had this happne.

[LikeAWillow]

Isn't it generally known that women who live in close quarters end up in sync with this? I certainly know of 2 female friends of mine, office mates, who had this happne.

Yup! It's actually sometimes called the Wellesley effect, which is funny situationally here :laugh: Apparently a girl who went here was involved in figuring it out. One of the explanations for why we may have evolved to do this is that it was a way for women to be better able to care for each other's children way back in the day. If women were getting pregnant at the same time, they would be able to nurse the babies of their friends in times of need/trouble/etc. It's a pretty cool effect. What's weird about me and my friend is that her body should already believe it IS pregnant from her bc. My schedule shouldn't matter.

[HejiraNYC]

Oh, it's definitely normal for women to share that with other women, and especially in this situation, she kind of does need to know. She's on birth control. It shouldn't be moving. So when her schedule gets strange, she's got to find out why.

Also, I think it's funny that we can talk about pooping without issue, but talking about another totally natural body process is gross.

Talking about poop and such from the anonymity of the interwebs is one thing, but it's another thing to just talk about it openly with your co-habitants. I think that's yucky too. It would be enough to make me cover my ears and go "blah, blah, blah, blah..." :eek:

Back on topic, I was under the impression that a vast majority of pre-menopausal women were on some kind of birth control pill just to diminish or avoid the adverse symptoms of monthly menstruation, if nothing else. I suppose it would be rather irksome to be doing my thing and then suddenly seeing the Red Sea flowing from my pants unexpectedly. :eek:

[HomerMcvie]

haha yeah man... I never really get to watch Seinfeld any more so I have to act it out to get my fix. I dont really think about it consciously, it just that there was literally an episode that dealt with just about everything... from masturbation to shrinkage. Yes I think George was the linchpin of the show. Kramer, Frank Costanza and Peterman were my faves ;)

I think the only reason King of Queens was as popular as it was, was thanks to Jerry Stiller.
Just like Frank Barone, everyone loves the "grumpy, crazy, old bastard".
But yeah, George's angst, is really what drove the show.
I finally own all but season 4, on DVD.

[fumidesigns]

Tmi.......well im horny! Ive been like this for over a week now!

[HomerMcvie]

All this Seinfeld talk is TMI to ME! :p

HATER.:mad:
What did Seinfeld, the greatest show of all time, ever do to you?:mad:

[HomerMcvie]

Oh, Louie... :lol:

TMI... back on topic. I JUST recently was told was "edging" meant. I thought it had to do with yard work, or at least trimming pubes. Boy was I wrong. :shocked:
I'm the king of edging. You should see my yard!:lol:

Really though, I have a date tonight....so I really hate to let one go, just in case I might have to pull double duty. So I might just edge and edge, most of the afternoon, if I'm over the top horny.

[HomerMcvie]

I loved Friends but, sigh, it just went on for far, far too long. They should have ended it after season 8. I do recognise that parts of it, especially Monica's character, are a watered down Seinfeld though.

Too bad that vomit emoticon is over on The Chain, because I could really use it here.
Friends, I HATE. I've never been able to STAND that show. It's stupid to me, and it's very female based humor.
I just don't get it. The second it comes on, I run for the remote.
I also can't stand The Office. I used to like My Name is Earl, but I can't stand it anymore, either...
They're.just.dumb.All.of.them.

[fumidesigns]

I'm the king of edging. You should see my yard!:lol:

Really though, I have a date tonight....so I really hate to let one go, just in case I might have to pull double duty. So I might just edge and edge, most of the afternoon, if I'm over the top horny.

*lowers head in shame* whats edging?

[RickRobert]

Hmm, after the nude beach talk, here's a TMI question... weirdest place you've been naked?

... what? :lol:

[LikeAWillow]

Hmm, after the nude beach talk, here's a TMI question... weirdest place you've been naked?

... what? :lol:

A COUCH IN THE WRONG ROOM AT A FRAT HOUSE.

My friends made me a map to consult when drunk afterwards :lol:

[RickRobert]

:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: Gonna be hard to top that. Then again this is the Ledge...

[HejiraNYC]

Hmm, after the nude beach talk, here's a TMI question... weirdest place you've been naked?

... what? :lol:

The Charles River Esplanade in Boston. Don't ask. :eek:

[LikeAWillow]

:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: Gonna be hard to top that. Then again this is the Ledge...

I know people will come through.

Also, weirdest place everyone has had sex (if it's different?)

Mine's on the Wellesley bus that runs between my school and Harvard/MIT. People call it the f*ck truck for what they assume to be the obvious reason a Wellesley girl would GO to Harvard/MIT. I decided I needed to reclaim the term by making it literal. I've managed to pull this off twice so far.

[LikeAWillow]

The Charles River Esplanade in Boston. Don't ask. :eek:

So far all the strange places are in Boston. It's a small sample at two, but still. Good job, my town :laugh:

[HomerMcvie]

*lowers head in shame* whats edging?

Working yourself to the "edge" of climax, but not letting yourself "complete".

[HomerMcvie]

Hmm, after the nude beach talk, here's a TMI question... weirdest place you've been naked?

... what? :lol:

Okay, when I first got my driver's license, I had this thing, where I'd get naked, and drive through the country, in the middle of the night. I don't know why I thought that was so hot...:wavey: I only did it 2-3 times.

The strangest place I've ever seen people naked, is a parking garage here. Now, I'm the king of curiosity, and one night, I just thought, "ya know, I've never driven to the top of this thing"(especially since I hate heights). So I drove to the top, and there was a couple, naked and fukcing, on top of one of the concrete walls.
Too.fukcing.hott.

[louielouie2000]

Hmm, after the nude beach talk, here's a TMI question... weirdest place you've been naked?

... what? :lol:

Good one!! Obviously I'm the one who goes to nude beaches. I've also been to clothing optional resorts in Key West. I don't just walk around nude at the resorts, tho... but I do skinny dip.

Let's see... I've also been naked in quite a few strange places. One of my friends in South Carolina lives way out in the country, and I've laid out on a blanket naked in his back field looking at the stars at night. Yes, alcohol was involved. :laugh:

My parents live on a very secluded lake in North Carolina, and I've taken the family boat out before with various guys I've dated and have actually driven the boat in the nude.

There is a super remote place in the North Carolina mountains called Wiseman's View... I've sat on the edge of a cliff there in the buff. There's something cleansing about being nude in a beautiful, remote place! :D

[HomerMcvie]

During the summer, I'm naked by the pool, pretty much every single day.:woohoo:

[ButterCookie]

Not naked (I keep my clothes on through paranoia) but I did a topless run round an estate at about 10.30 at night with a friend. We were told later that we'd "made a lot of people's dreams come true" :lol:

[fumidesigns]

Working yourself to the "edge" of climax, but not letting yourself "complete".

What the fukc!? Y would someone willingly do this to theirself!?!?

[fumidesigns]

During the summer, I'm naked by the pool, pretty much every single day.:woohoo:

I can dig it!!!!!!

[HomerMcvie]

What the fukc!? Y would someone willingly do this to theirself!?!?

Why would someone use a hand grenade, when they could use an atomic bomb?

[skcin]

I CANNOT SLEEP naked. Ever. I do take showers before i go to bed... but something about my arse right on the sheets makes me uncomfortable. Like I'm dirtying them up. I dunno.

I sweat more naked than clothed. WTF? :shrug: I almost never sleep naked, it's uncormfortable to me. I also must have at least a sheet on me at all times.

Eugh, I hate thongs, too. I don't like the feeling of having dental floss up my bum! It's boxers for me or briefs, as long as they cover me properly. I hate the feeling of my butt hanging out when it's meant to be panted

:thumbsup: Good to know I'm not quite the only woman in the world who feels this way.

Me too! I use flannel sheets, year round, and love being naked between them. I've worn sweats to bed, this entire, seemingly neverending:mad:, fukcing winter. I should hopefully be able to embrace my nude sleep habits, here in a week or two!:D

We have flannel all year too. So nice & soft. :nod:

I Was In The Pool!!!!

"You know about...shrinkage. Right?"
"It shrinks?"

Other than just flat out saying "no", I don't know how I could stop it.

There is no other way. :shrug: So just tell them no. It's your house, it's your pool. If you invite a few people over, make it clear that YOU are the only person allowed to invite anyone else - they are NOT free to bring whoever.

And underage chicks swimming around naked & drinking on your property? Holy ****, dude. :shocked: You're damn lucky someone didn't drown. Or get knocked up. Or get alcohol poisoning. Or get charged with rape (I'm not saying you or anyone else DID anything with anyone underage, but it's he said/she said...) or providing alcohol to minors. Even if you didn't invite them - it's not worth your house, your life & your future in exchange for being a nice guy.

Is it typical for females to share this kind of information openly with each other? Yes, you live together. But... ewww!!!! TMI, indeed.

Um. Yes. :shrug:


Back on topic, I was under the impression that a vast majority of pre-menopausal women were on some kind of birth control pill just to diminish or avoid the adverse symptoms of monthly menstruation, if nothing else. I suppose it would be rather irksome to be doing my thing and then suddenly seeing the Red Sea flowing from my pants unexpectedly. :eek:

It is a bit odd to me that Likeawillow can overpower the BC pill. :D I think that girl needs a higher dose, or isn't taking them correctly.

[HomerMcvie]

I sweat more naked than clothed. WTF? :shrug: I almost never sleep naked, it's uncormfortable to me. I also must have at least a sheet on me at all times.


We have flannel all year too. So nice & soft. :nod:



There is no other way. :shrug: So just tell them no. It's your house, it's your pool. If you invite a few people over, make it clear that YOU are the only person allowed to invite anyone else - they are NOT free to bring whoever.

And underage chicks swimming around naked & drinking on your property? Holy ****, dude. :shocked: You're damn lucky someone didn't drown. Or get knocked up. Or get alcohol poisoning. Or get charged with rape (I'm not saying you or anyone else DID anything with anyone underage, but it's he said/she said...) or providing alcohol to minors. Even if you didn't invite them - it's not worth your house, your life & your future in exchange for being a nice guy.


I too, have to have at least a sheet on me, or I can't sleep.

I can't stand the feel of regular sheets now. I want new bedroom furniture, with a bigger bed, but I've got so many sets of full size flannels, that I'm waiting for them to wear out, to make the change.

Oh, believe me, the first night they showed up, I WAS PISSED.:mad: Who the fukc invited THEM? They were 18 and 19.
Unfortunately, we hit it off, big time. Besties, almost immediately. So we made the deal that they could come, as long as they spent the night(in another bedroom). They were not allowed to leave, if they drank. But then their friends were starting showing up, and it just got to be too much. And you can't explain to an 18yo, who has no job, or anything, how I could lose EVERYTHING. They just don't understand.

And since this is TMI...they were the ones who INSTIGATED the orgy. Then pissy and in denial, the next day. Things got ugly. We have since buried the hatchet, and they've asked if they can come party here, but I've made excuses, every time they've asked.

Yep, this year's rule is - absolutely NO ONE under 21. I will be 100% clear, on this. No exceptions.

[LikeAWillow]

It is a bit odd to me that Likeawillow can overpower the BC pill. :D I think that girl needs a higher dose, or isn't taking them correctly.

She's definitely taking them correctly-- she's neurotic haha. Alarm set, pill in hand, every day at three (just watched it happen as always haha.) A higher dose could be totally applicable, but she's told her gyno about this (she's in a monogamous relationship, so the pill being effective is CRUCIAL, and when she first started noticing this happening, she was really freaked out) and her doctor claims that as long as it's just the spotting because of mine, she's still fine. Her reaction is just always SO funny. My personal favorite response of hers was after the gyno explained the "it's to help out in a tribe based child rearing way" and my roommate reported it back to me and added, "So this makes sense. Something in my body understands that you would just pop out a baby and then be like 'K. Done. Raise it for me, please?"

[camchristo]

Other than just flat out saying "no", I don't know how I could stop it. I mean, I'm still good friends with the ones who started it all. They love me, and of course they will want to start it up again. I think maybe I should make a few rules.
#1 - NO ONE under 21.
#2 - Limit of 10-12 people.
#3 - You must KNOW me, to come(there were nights, where I wouldn't know 10 people, who were in and out of my house, while I'm in the pool, entertaining. That, is scary. Although I kept my music room, and my bedroom, locked at all times).
#4 - BYOB!!!

I'm with Paula on what she said. Way too many risks involved. There's even a risk if someone over 21 gets smashed, leaves, gets in an accident and hurts someone. If someone files a lawsuit, they'll be looking to get money wherever they can. And the orgy stuff? What if they're "being pissy" morped into someone claiming they were raped?

More than likely, those young people are using you for a cool place to hang out and free booze. The sure sign of people who are not good friends are those that will come to your place every night, eat and drink and never reciprocate or offer to bring anything.

Figure out who your true friends are and have them over. Then you won't have to stress about any of the above.

[HomerMcvie]

I'm with Paula on what she said. Way too many risks involved. There's even a risk if someone over 21 gets smashed, leaves, gets in an accident and hurts someone. If someone files a lawsuit, they'll be looking to get money wherever they can. And the orgy stuff? What if they're "being pissy" morped into someone claiming they were raped?

More than likely, those young people are using you for a cool place to hang out and free booze. The sure sign of people who are not good friends are those that will come to your place every night, eat and drink and never reciprocate or offer to bring anything.

Figure out who your true friends are and have them over. Then you won't have to stress about any of the above.

Agreed. I instantly knew all the risks, and hated that I was put into that position. I will definitely lay some ground rules, this year. I don't wanna be Mick Fleetwood, again.

Hey, Cammie, let me ax you this? My friend and I were discussing the liability issue, the other day.
If one makes a party BYOB, does that reduce the liability for the host? I would certainly think so.

[louielouie2000]

Hey, Cammie, let me ax you this? My friend and I were discussing the liability issue, the other day.
If one makes a party BYOB, does that reduce the liability for the host? I would certainly think so.

Nope... if the cops show up, it'd be next to impossible to prove you weren't furnishing alcohol to minors. They could slap you with some random offense too like endangering a minor. I wouldn't play with the kiddies anymore if I were you. :wavey:

[HomerMcvie]

Nope... if the cops show up, it'd be next to impossible to prove you weren't furnishing alcohol to minors. They could slap you with some random offense too like endangering a minor. I wouldn't play with the kiddies anymore if I were you. :wavey:
Check ur FB PM's.

I'm not necessarily talking about minors. People in general. If they BTOB, and get arrested after leaving, does the fact that they got themselves drunk, with their own booze, lessen the liability on my end?
I would think the fact that I only provided a pool, and no liquor, would free me of liability, unless they were OBVIOUSLY drunk, when leaving.

[daniellaaarisen]

Oh, it's definitely normal for women to share that with other women, and especially in this situation, she kind of does need to know. She's on birth control. It shouldn't be moving. So when her schedule gets strange, she's got to find out why.

Also, I think it's funny that we can talk about pooping without issue, but talking about another totally natural body process is gross.

That's really strange-- I'm on birth control and I could be surrounded by 50 menstruating women and be unaffected. :shrug:

[LikeAWillow]

That's really strange-- I'm on birth control and I could be surrounded by 50 menstruating women and be unaffected. :shrug:

As it should be :laugh: It's not supposed to affect women who are on bc; hence why roomie is so irked/why it is humorous.

[daniellaaarisen]

I know people will come through.

Also, weirdest place everyone has had sex (if it's different?)

Mine's on the Wellesley bus that runs between my school and Harvard/MIT. People call it the f*ck truck for what they assume to be the obvious reason a Wellesley girl would GO to Harvard/MIT. I decided I needed to reclaim the term by making it literal. I've managed to pull this off twice so far.

This is EXACTLY why we are friends Marissa.

I have a few weird places... plane, bow of a yacht, front porch in daylight, pool table....

[mylittledemon]

"You know about...shrinkage. Right?"
"It shrinks?"



Like a FRIGHTENED TURTLE!!

[skcin]

Oh, believe me, the first night they showed up, I WAS PISSED.:mad: Who the fukc invited THEM? They were 18 and 19.
Unfortunately, we hit it off, big time. Besties, almost immediately. So we made the deal that they could come, as long as they spent the night(in another bedroom). They were not allowed to leave, if they drank. But then their friends were starting showing up, and it just got to be too much. And you can't explain to an 18yo, who has no job, or anything, how I could lose EVERYTHING. They just don't understand.

And since this is TMI...they were the ones who INSTIGATED the orgy. Then pissy and in denial, the next day. Things got ugly. We have since buried the hatchet, and they've asked if they can come party here, but I've made excuses, every time they've asked.

Yep, this year's rule is - absolutely NO ONE under 21. I will be 100% clear, on this. No exceptions.

Yeah. Just say no, dude. :nod:


More than likely, those young people are using you for a cool place to hang out and free booze. The sure sign of people who are not good friends are those that will come to your place every night, eat and drink and never reciprocate or offer to bring anything.

Figure out who your true friends are and have them over. Then you won't have to stress about any of the above.

I'm with Cammie. :shrug:


Hey, Cammie, let me ax you this? My friend and I were discussing the liability issue, the other day.
If one makes a party BYOB, does that reduce the liability for the host? I would certainly think so.

I know you didn't ask me, but reduce? Hmmm. Maybe. But it certainly wouldn't eliminate it.

Check ur FB PM's.

I'm not necessarily talking about minors. People in general. If they BTOB, and get arrested after leaving, does the fact that they got themselves drunk, with their own booze, lessen the liability on my end?
I would think the fact that I only provided a pool, and no liquor, would free me of liability, unless they were OBVIOUSLY drunk, when leaving.

I don' t think you'd be totally FREE of all liability. I could be wrong though.


Speaking of BC pills - I changed to a different brand about 6 months ago & haven't had a period since. :shocked: I'm not complaining or anything but it IS a bit odd. At first I was so scared I took like 3 pregnancy tests. :laugh: My GYN assured me there's nothing to worry about physically, so I guess I'll just keep on keepin' on.

[LikeAWillow]

I don' t think you'd be totally FREE of all liability. I could be wrong though.



This doesn't involve me at all, but I'm super curious as well. Cammie, please help :laugh: As long as everyone was overage, if they drank on Homer's property but then left it and wreaked their own havoc elsewhere, I don't understand how he could possibly be at fault.

[HomerMcvie]

Yeah. Just say no, dude. :nod:

Yeah, I definitely dodged several bullets, last year. Rules will be in place, this year. I think especially the BYOB one(and obviously the NO MINORS one).

[camchristo]

Hey, Cammie, let me ax you this? My friend and I were discussing the liability issue, the other day.
If one makes a party BYOB, does that reduce the liability for the host? I would certainly think so.

I know you didn't ask me, but reduce? Hmmm. Maybe. But it certainly wouldn't eliminate it. I don' t think you'd be totally FREE of all liability. I could be wrong though.

This doesn't involve me at all, but I'm super curious as well. Cammie, please help :laugh: As long as everyone was overage, if they drank on Homer's property but then left it and wreaked their own havoc elsewhere, I don't understand how he could possibly be at fault.

Well, first let me just preface this by saying that I am in no way providing legal advice, just a friendly opinion.

I'm not necessarily saying that someone would win a lawsuit if they filed one against Dave. But people file ill-fated lawsuits every day and, even if they lose, it still costs the person being sued time, money and stress.

This mostly applies to bars and is known as the Dram Shop rule. A person is drinking at a bar, is obviously drunk and keeps getting served and over-served. Said person then gets in their car and kills someone in a car accident on their way home. The bar can be sued by the family of the person killed. So, not only will the driver be sued, but the bar will be too. People have won suits like that before.

So, I'm not saying it applies to a private party like it would to a bar. However, if one of his guests got wasted, got in their car and killed someone, it wouldn't be a stretch for Dave to be named in the lawsuit. Particulary if the person who caused the accident was a kid with minimal limits on their car insurance policy and no assets to speak of. The injured party gets wind that the person was partying at Dave's house, someone does a little research and finds out Dave owns his home and a few others, and all of a sudden he and his homeowners carrier are named in the suit. He might be dismissed on Summary Judgment, or he might be in it til the end and found not liable. Either way, a lot of stress that could have been avoided. **** happens but there are ways to minimize the potential.

[louielouie2000]

Check ur FB PM's.

I'm not necessarily talking about minors. People in general. If they BTOB, and get arrested after leaving, does the fact that they got themselves drunk, with their own booze, lessen the liability on my end?
I would think the fact that I only provided a pool, and no liquor, would free me of liability, unless they were OBVIOUSLY drunk, when leaving.

Just be careful... like you said, 18-20 year old kids have zero depth of understanding of consequences. That means if they're caught doing something illegal, they'd throw you under the bus to save themselves faster than you can say "orgy."

I know you like the pretty young thangs... but up the age of folks you hang out with by just a couple of years. Trust, it'll make your life much easier, more enjoyable, and less stressful. :nod:

[ButterCookie]

Just be careful... like you said, 18-20 year old kids have zero depth of understanding of consequences. That means if they're caught doing something illegal, they'd throw you under the bus to save themselves faster than you can say "orgy."

I know you like the pretty young thangs... but up the age of folks you hang out with by just a couple of years. Trust, it'll make your life much easier, more enjoyable, and less stressful. :nod:

Woah woah WOAH mister mod! That's so not true. :distress:

What I don't get about these parties is why. Why would people around the age of 18 want to go party at someone's house who is so much older than them? Maybe I'm just odd but I'd rather party at a friend's empty house or a booked venue.

[Dodfather]

Weirdest place I've been naked would be on a railway bridge on my hometown!
Weirdest place I've had sex is the woods with a n ex gf - I wasn't naked though.

[Dodfather]

Just be careful... like you said, 18-20 year old kids have zero depth of understanding of consequences. That means if they're caught doing something illegal, they'd throw you under the bus to save themselves faster than you can say "orgy."

I know you like the pretty young thangs... but up the age of folks you hang out with by just a couple of years. Trust, it'll make your life much easier, more enjoyable, and less stressful. :nod:

Woah woah WOAH mister mod! That's so not true. :distress:

What I don't get about these parties is why. Why would people around the age of 18 want to go party at someone's house who is so much older than them? Maybe I'm just odd but I'd rather party at a friend's empty house or a booked venue.

I can see both sides of this. Back when I was 18-19 I ended up in a rather vulnerable situation at an older friends house. There was a lot of booze and more and just generally a lot of s**t goin on. Luckily I got myself out of it before things got out of hand but afterwards when things did go bad I wanted no part of it and could have easily done exactly what louie has saidl. Some bad stuff happened that night.

That said, what Georgie said is true. Rather than telling all to others I just kept quiet and said nothing - partly to protect people who were there and partly because I did not want to discuss it.

[louielouie2000]

Woah woah WOAH mister mod! That's so not true. :distress:

What I don't get about these parties is why. Why would people around the age of 18 want to go party at someone's house who is so much older than them? Maybe I'm just odd but I'd rather party at a friend's empty house or a booked venue.

My apologies... I didn't mean to offend any younger Ledgies. Broad generalizations never help anyone, this is true. I should have said "most 18-20 year olds" lack a depth of understanding of consequences and actions. It's a simple fact the human brain isn't fully developed until about 24. Also, the young kids Homer is hanging out with are fresh out of high school and probably have never held a job, know nothing of accountability, etc.

It's just especially dangerous to party with younger folks in the US, as our drinking age is 21 here... and VERY strictly enforced. In my opinion, this does younger people no favors... it postpones growing up and learning to control yourself. It puts this huge taboo around drinking and glorifies bingeing. The US still very much has inner conflict between it's puritanical roots and being more realistic about human nature. For instance, you can join the military and die for your country at age 18 here... but you can't buy an alcoholic beverage until the age of 21. How f***ed up is that?!

Obviously not ALL younger people lack understanding of self control and consequences... but many DO. I thought I was better than that when I was younger myself... but I look back on the stupid, stupid stuff I did when I was younger and just kick myself now. Drinking and driving, having unprotected sex, stuff like that. I started out with such high aims for myself, but it's pretty easy to get snowballed into doing dumb sh!t.

[RickRobert]

Weirdest place I've been naked would be on a railway bridge on my hometown!

LOL WHAT?! :lol:

Guess I'll go ahead and say my weirdest place... a golf course :shrug:

[Dodfather]

In my opinion, this does younger people no favors... it postpones growing up and learning to control yourself. It puts this huge taboo around drinking and glorifies bingeing. The US still very much has inner conflict between it's puritanical roots and being more realistic about human nature. For instance, you can join the military and die for your country at age 18 here... but you can't buy an alcoholic beverage until the age of 21. How f***ed up is that?!



I agree 100% with each of these points - especially the highlighted part. Similarly in the UK, you can't drink until 18 but can marry and join the army (big, life altering decisions) at 16. I'm not saying the drinking age should be lowered (far from it) but perhaps the others should be brought in line with this. It just makes no sense.

[Dodfather]

Weirdest place I've been naked would be on a railway bridge on my hometown!


LOL WHAT?! :lol:

Guess I'll go ahead and say my weirdest place... a golf course :shrug:

Haha - ok the railway bridge was a streak with several friends when I was young, dumb and full of... booze. It was all very Almost Famous I Am A Golden God!

[HomerMcvie]

I typed out a big long response, but deleted it.

Okay, some are way more mature than others, at 18 or so. Some do "get it".

Yes, allowing 18yo's(whether I invited them or not) to the parties, showed a huge lapse in judgment(although I can't imagine how ugly it would've been, me telling my friend that he had to take his minors away). It won't happen again.

And I fully realize(I did then, too), that half of those people weren't my friends, and were using me, for my great party house. Honestly, it was like I was the most popular guy in my town. I never wanted to be the most popular guy in town! But it felt good, and I can admit that. It felt good to be the center of attention. Like I said, when it all ended, I SERIOUSLY CRAVED having those 30 people at my house every night. For 3 months, it was like I was living a fantasy life. Someone else's life.:shocked:

[HomerMcvie]

LOL WHAT?! :lol:

Guess I'll go ahead and say my weirdest place... a golf course :shrug:

I did it in the bathroom at work once.:lol:

[RickRobert]

I did it in the bathroom at work once.:lol:

Are you talking about getting naked or having sex? I've never had sex so I wasn't talking about that and you seemed to be talking about whatever I was so... you randomly got naked in a work bathroom... ? :lol:

[HomerMcvie]

Are you talking about getting naked or having sex? I've never had sex so I wasn't talking about that and you seemed to be talking about whatever I was so... you randomly got naked in a work bathroom... ? :lol:

But you're married to Georgie!
Sorry, I was talking about having sex. In college, I worked two nights a week, in a convenience store. One of the regular customers and I flirted regularly. It was a slow night...and next thing I know, we're in the bathroom, going at it like monkeys.:lol:

[ButterCookie]

But you're married to Georgie!

Which would be precisely why he's never had sex... with me ;)

[HomerMcvie]

Are you talking about getting naked or having sex? I've never had sex so I wasn't talking about that and you seemed to be talking about whatever I was so... you randomly got naked in a work bathroom... ? :lol:

And why is your Facebook so cryptic? I'd just like to put a face with your name.
It boggles my mind, when people don't have any pictures of themselves on FACEbook.

[Dodfather]

Homer - did you work in the Quick Stop??

[RickRobert]

But you're married to Georgie!
Sorry, I was talking about having sex. In college, I worked two nights a week, in a convenience store. One of the regular customers and I flirted regularly. It was a slow night...and next thing I know, we're in the bathroom, going at it like monkeys.:lol:

Like monkeys :lol: A bit disappointed you weren't talking about getting naked randomly in a work bathroom though, that would've topped anyone else easily :lol:

Which would be precisely why he's never had sex... with me ;)

Yeah, since when do married people have sex anyway? :lol::sorry:

And why is your Facebook so cryptic? I'd just like to put a face with your name.
It boggles my mind, when people don't have any pictures of themselves on FACEbook.

So my family will never find me :nod: I'll FB mail you some though just cause why not?

[chiliD]

It boggles my mind, when people don't have any pictures of themselves on FACEbook.

That's when it's known as "SPACEbook". (as opposed to MyFace)

:laugh:

[Dodfather]

I have plenty pics of me on there but like to use various random pics of tv/film/rock stars as my profile pic.

[HomerMcvie]

Stupid Photobucket won't load the pic I want it to.

For my FB friends here, I'll put up my favorite profile pic, right now. Check it out! I LOVE this pic. Makes me smile, every time!

[cristochango]

And why is your Facebook so cryptic? I'd just like to put a face with your name.
It boggles my mind, when people don't have any pictures of themselves on FACEbook.

This is my absolute biggest pet peeve too :P

[daniellaaarisen]

Just be careful... like you said, 18-20 year old kids have zero depth of understanding of consequences. That means if they're caught doing something illegal, they'd throw you under the bus to save themselves faster than you can say "orgy."


HUGE overgeneralization, as you know.

Wait-- just saw the correction. :)

[DefDumbandBlond]

I have plenty pics of me on there but like to use various random pics of tv/film/rock stars as my profile pic.

Me too. :lol:

[skcin]

Well, first let me just preface this by saying that I am in no way providing legal advice, just a friendly opinion.

I'm not necessarily saying that someone would win a lawsuit if they filed one against Dave. But people file ill-fated lawsuits every day and, even if they lose, it still costs the person being sued time, money and stress.

This mostly applies to bars and is known as the Dram Shop rule. A person is drinking at a bar, is obviously drunk and keeps getting served and over-served. Said person then gets in their car and kills someone in a car accident on their way home. The bar can be sued by the family of the person killed. So, not only will the driver be sued, but the bar will be too. People have won suits like that before.

So, I'm not saying it applies to a private party like it would to a bar. However, if one of his guests got wasted, got in their car and killed someone, it wouldn't be a stretch for Dave to be named in the lawsuit. Particulary if the person who caused the accident was a kid with minimal limits on their car insurance policy and no assets to speak of. The injured party gets wind that the person was partying at Dave's house, someone does a little research and finds out Dave owns his home and a few others, and all of a sudden he and his homeowners carrier are named in the suit. He might be dismissed on Summary Judgment, or he might be in it til the end and found not liable. Either way, a lot of stress that could have been avoided. **** happens but there are ways to minimize the potential.

My dad owned a bar for years. Got sued by a regular who he considered a friend. The guy was drunk & fell off his barstool, injuring himself (I don't even remember what the injury was, but it was NOT serious.) He got money for it. :distress:

He was sued at least 3 times for someone who left the bar & later got arrested for a DWI or into an accident. Thrown out every time since it was proven these people went to OTHER bars or parties after my dad's place. Still, time, stress & $$$ spent. :(

[HomerMcvie]

" Originally Posted by camchristo
Well, first let me just preface this by saying that I am in no way providing legal advice, just a friendly opinion.

I'm not necessarily saying that someone would win a lawsuit if they filed one against Dave. But people file ill-fated lawsuits every day and, even if they lose, it still costs the person being sued time, money and stress.

This mostly applies to bars and is known as the Dram Shop rule. A person is drinking at a bar, is obviously drunk and keeps getting served and over-served. Said person then gets in their car and kills someone in a car accident on their way home. The bar can be sued by the family of the person killed. So, not only will the driver be sued, but the bar will be too. People have won suits like that before.

So, I'm not saying it applies to a private party like it would to a bar. However, if one of his guests got wasted, got in their car and killed someone, it wouldn't be a stretch for Dave to be named in the lawsuit. Particulary if the person who caused the accident was a kid with minimal limits on their car insurance policy and no assets to speak of. The injured party gets wind that the person was partying at Dave's house, someone does a little research and finds out Dave owns his home and a few others, and all of a sudden he and his homeowners carrier are named in the suit. He might be dismissed on Summary Judgment, or he might be in it til the end and found not liable. Either way, a lot of stress that could have been avoided. **** happens but there are ways to minimize the potential."
~I guess the original post has been deleted?~
My MAIN point of being curious, again, is:
If a person makes their party BYOB, does that lessen their liability? I would think so, or at least hope so. If I didn't serve them, and they weren't visibly intoxicated.....

Yep, I'm going to definitely crack down with some major rules, this year. Feels like I dodged a whole shooting gallery, last year!

And Paula, that sucks about your Dad's bar. It was always a dream of mine, growing up, to own a little bar/grill. I think it would be a terrible business proposition, these days.

[camchristo]

^My original post was not deleted. It's on page 97. Sure, I suppose it would lessen the risk, but how do you prove it? A lot of people will lie to save their own ass.

[fringed n fab]

I've not read everyones entire posts on the subject, but why would adults want to party with minors anyway? Not that all minors are out of control or not fit to hang around for fear of getting yourselves in danger legally, but adults have to be careful what they set themselves up for. Not to make anyone feel bad on the board whos underage, but when they're our ages they will better understand all this and why it has to be. I think most people if you're 30 wouldn't have a thing in common with a bunch of 16 year olds anyway. Again, not to make the young ones feel unwanted on here, it's just you'll see what we mean when you're our age.

[HomerMcvie]

I've not read everyones entire posts on the subject, but why would adults want to party with minors anyway? Not that all minors are out of control or not fit to hang around for fear of getting yourselves in danger legally, but adults have to be careful what they set themselves up for. Not to make anyone feel bad on the board whos underage, but when they're our ages they will better understand all this and why it has to be. I think most people if you're 30 wouldn't have a thing in common with a bunch of 16 year olds anyway. Again, not to make the young ones feel unwanted on here, it's just you'll see what we mean when you're our age.

The whole point was, that I didn't invite them. Someone else did. And I was none too happy about them showing up at my party(even though we actually became pretty good friends).

[HomerMcvie]

^My original post was not deleted. It's on page 97. Sure, I suppose it would lessen the risk, but how do you prove it? A lot of people will lie to save their own ass.

Ah, this thread's gotten so big, that I missed it!
You're right. Proving it could be tough....or maybe not. If 10 people said, "no, the party was BYOB, David didn't give anyone anything", I can't see them having much of a leg to stand on.

And yes, even friends will throw you under the bus, when it comes to big money lawsuits. But I can't see the ones who wouldn't benefit financially, doing so.

[skcin]

And Paula, that sucks about your Dad's bar. It was always a dream of mine, growing up, to own a little bar/grill. I think it would be a terrible business proposition, these days.

It was great for him in the 80's. But about 10 years ago things got bad - it's not an easy business. They banned smoking in bars here (I don't care what anyone says - that did HURT business), prices of everything went up, the NYS Liquor Authority increased fees, etc. He eventually lost everything. :distress:

Sure, I suppose it would lessen the risk, but how do you prove it? A lot of people will lie to save their own ass.

True dat.

[HomerMcvie]

It was great for him in the 80's. But about 10 years ago things got bad - it's not an easy business. They banned smoking in bars here (I don't care what anyone says - that did HURT business), prices of everything went up, the NYS Liquor Authority increased fees, etc. He eventually lost everything. :distress:



True dat.Same here. Even though I love the no smoking! Quite literally, half of the small bars that my band played in, 10 years ago, are no longer in business. The small places just can't survive, anymore.

AND, the ones that had bands, many of those have replaced the bands with karaoke, because it's 1/3 the price of hiring a band.
Owning a small bar these days, is a sketchy business proposition.

[skcin]

^ I loved the No Smoking law in bars even when I smoked. :lol: God, the stench all over you (and your hair & clothes) when you got home after being out all night. Made a hangover sooo much worse.



Here's another TMI sex question: Anything you won't do sexually? Or prefer not to?

[markolas]

Here's another TMI sex question: Anything you won't do sexually? Or prefer not to?

Absolutely not, no way in hell:

- Fisting
- Anything involving urine, feces, blood, or vomit
- Ingesting of ejaculatory fluids
- Spanking/hitting/violence
- Wearing leather or "furry" suits or whatever
- I will not put my penis in any sort of pump or device
- Slings/handcuffs/weird contraptions

And I'm sure there are other weird/gross things that I've never even heard of, and would like to keep it that way.

[RickRobert]

I wouldn't like roleplaying as a member of the Beatles or having a carrot stuck up my bum

Anything else sounds A-OK though

[bluefox4000]

I'm not very adventurous sexually . Not at all. I once tasted cum.....yea never again. I'm very conservative in bed.

Mick

[skcin]

Absolutely not, no way in hell:

- Fisting
- Anything involving urine, feces, blood, or vomit
- Ingesting of ejaculatory fluids
- Spanking/hitting/violence
- Wearing leather or "furry" suits or whatever
- I will not put my penis in any sort of pump or device
- Slings/handcuffs/weird contraptions

And I'm sure there are other weird/gross things that I've never even heard of, and would like to keep it that way.


Does your parnter mind that you won't swallow? :shrug:

I wouldn't like roleplaying as a member of the Beatles or having a carrot stuck up my bum

Anything else sounds A-OK though

Ha. That's pretty specific. What about a member of the Stones, or a cucumber? :cool:


I won't do anal.
I also am not into pee/poo/vomit/blood (I wouldn't have even thought to mention it if Markolas hadn't.) :lol:
Nothing painful or violent

[RickRobert]

Ha. That's pretty specific. What about a member of the Stones, or a cucumber? :cool:

Stones roleplay could be nice. As could a cucumber. Not both at the same time though :shrug:

[LikeAWillow]

Here's another TMI sex question: Anything you won't do sexually? Or prefer not to?

If it feels good, and it's not gross (cum's fine, your other bodily fluids are not), I'm pretty game. I'm not into pain, so if you're hurting me, I'm telling you to stop. But yeah, other than that, I'm pretty open-minded.

[HomerMcvie]

No blood or poo. Those things are best left inside the body, or where I don't have to witness either!!!

A little spanking can be hot, but nothing more than light. I've tried using handcuffs, but there was fear(even though there shouldn't have been - we'd known each other for about 3 years), so it ended up not being hot, like I hoped.

[HomerMcvie]

I wouldn't like roleplaying as a member of the Beatles or having a carrot stuck up my bum

Anything else sounds A-OK though
People stick carrots up there????:eek::eek::eek:

I LOVE the Beatles answer, by the way!!!!:lol::lol::lol: +10

[daniellaaarisen]

I won't do anal.
I also am not into pee/poo/vomit/blood (I wouldn't have even thought to mention it if Markolas hadn't.) :lol:
Nothing painful or violent

Anal used to freak the sh*t out of me but now I love it.

Other than that... we're on the exact same page. I have a secret fantasy to be tied up and later do the tying. I'm workin' on it.

[louielouie2000]

Anal used to freak the sh*t out of me but now I love it.

I'm sure you weren't aiming for the double meaning in that quote, but it made me giggle anyway :lol:. I didn't realize you'd gone down the anal road!

If it feels good, and it's not gross (jizz is fine, your other bodily fluids are not), I'm pretty game. I'm not into pain, so if you're hurting me, I'm telling you to stop. But yeah, other than that, I'm pretty open-minded.

This is pretty much my mantra too.

[markolas]

If it feels good, and it's not gross (cum's fine, your other bodily fluids are not), I'm pretty game. I'm not into pain, so if you're hurting me, I'm telling you to stop. But yeah, other than that, I'm pretty open-minded.

With the exception of the cum thing (sorry, I just think it's gross), that's pretty much what I said, only more general. I am pretty vanilla, tho.

[LikeAWillow]

With the exception of the cum thing (sorry, I just think it's gross), that's pretty much what I said, only more general. I am pretty vanilla, tho.

I wouldn't really say I'm vanilla. I'm down for a good role play, some light bondage, that sort of thing, any day of the week. It's just really all about the pleasure > pain thing. Argh, I do miss having a consistent partner to play with.

[GypsySorcerer]

I'm with everyone on the no pee/poop/blood thing. I'm also not into violence.

Other than that, I'm game to try anything once. What's the harm?

[WildHeart69]

Cheers to 100 pages of Too Much Information!

[HomerMcvie]

Cheers to 100 pages of Too Much Information!

But it's 150....?



I don't like to talk about poo, I don't like to think about poo, I don't want to see poo, I don't want to feel poo, I don't like to smell poo.
JTISTMI.

[louielouie2000]

But it's 150....?

Depends on your settings regarding how many posts you want to view per page. My settings show this thread only has 38 pages :)



I don't like to talk about poo, I don't like to think about poo, I don't want to see poo, I don't want to feel poo, I don't like to smell poo.
JTISTMI.

You say that, yet you bring up poo and your dislike of poo conversation again and again. Something Freudian trying to slip out? :cool:

[markolas]

Does your parnter mind that you won't swallow? :shrug:

No, not that he's ever expressed. He's not much into that either, but it doesn't completely squick him out like it does me.

[fringed n fab]

Cheers to 100 pages of Too Much Information!

Mines set to Forum Default and showing 100 too. I've no problem leaving things the way they're set up, works fine for me. :nod:

If I'm correct that's showing 15 posts per page and easy to keep up with and read. 50 per page would seem too overwhelming for me.

[daniellaaarisen]

I'm sure you weren't aiming for the double meaning in that quote, but it made me giggle anyway :lol:. I didn't realize you'd gone down the anal road!



Boy, I lost my butt virginity two years ago. Where have you been?