Do you believe in love at first sight?

[Sleepless-Child]

Originally Posted by bluefox4000

No I don't. I believe you could be in lust at first sight. For me love is when you get to know the person. Their like, dislike. their hopes, their goals. You know really KNOWING the person. That's why I fell in love with my wife. I've known her since I was 3. I know the truly wonderful woman she is. I know everything about her and I adore every bit. But I didn't love her at first sight. I did not fall for her till I was 18. It was a slow process...very rewarding.

Micl

EXACTLY. To me, love is when you are brave enough to spend your entire life with a person you know, when the passion is gone. I believe that love is something that grows, to become huge. Any opportunity to start this kind of relationship must be taken, so go for it ! And stay positive. It didn't work out with your ex-boyfriend for a reason : if you were brave enough, he wasn't. Love doesn't happen many times in a lifetime. (Sorry, if i sound a bit naive).