An Emotional Life- Divorce, Emotions, and Past Relationships- A Mini Vent By: Ethan

[Musicman408]

Originally Posted by skcin

You're mean.




Nice.



I will be keeping this post for future cut & pastes. It applies to so many posts I've read here over the years, so I'm sure it will apply in the future.


Ethan wants to know why "veteran ledgies" didn't find this thread thought-provoking. He thinks it's a post of "substance" that will jump-start conversation here. Well, it's because nobody wants to read a long-assed story about you & your life without being asked to share something about theirs. It would have been different if you had posted that your parents are divorcing & it sucks, and you wanted to know what are other ledgie's experiences with divorce have been. But you never do that. Ever.

The reason you turn people off is that you never show any interest in any other members' threads, posts, lives. You frequently ask for "yours guys alls" advice & then never return to read it (or if you do, you don't bother to acknowledge that you've done so.) It's rude, and it's a waste of my (and many other posters') time to bother to read & respond to any your threads because it's obvious you don't WANT to know what yous guys all think.

I can't believe you're still here pulling the same ****. Seriously. Either you get off on baiting people into bitching at/about you (see, you got me again!) or you're ridiculously socially immature for your age with a touch of ADHD. You're either a mad genius or developmentally disabled. I still can't figure out which, so shame on me.

First of all, I asked you all if this thread was thought provoking.

I have asked about other peoples' lives and have started many threads involving others lives, but they often go undetected. That is not my problem. To say that I don't care about other peoples' lives is a complete crock of bull.

This was a completely legitimate thread- not filled with "****" as you called it. People post about personal thoughts all the time- but it seems as though I am the ONLY one that ever hears about it. There is no baiting or BS involved. The reason people have a problem with me is because a select few people get turned off by my posts (which is totally fine) and then decide to blow it up- disturbing the peace. It is this disturbing of peace that causes people issues, not my "****". This is why when things get out of hand I ask for them to stop and then stop posting, because I refuse to perpetuate it.

I know you have a deal with me but you don't need to get things worked up because of it. Feel free to take it up with me in PM.

Final Word~