What's Your Opinion? I need a little help.

[BTFLCHLD]

we both thought he was 19

So, he has already lied to her as well? That and the child hopefully will be enough of a red flag that she will see clear enough past anything he may provide her with (flattered, feelings of maturity, etc) to the point of not being interested in someone who would do that. Obviously, you are in a difficult position as she trusts you and you wouldn't want that to change. However, at the same time, left to her own decision-making, she may dive-in head first. It is good you have taken her to PP...and I hope you will consider again speaking with her to provide some insight on how moving in the fastlane with someone much older than her could lead to consequences she may well not be prepared for. good luck.