What's Your Opinion? I need a little help.

[Sarah]

If you honestly feel she would sneak anyway, she probably would.

When I was 14/15, I started dating a guy who was 19/20. (I say 14/15, because the relationship evolved out of platonic friendship.) Not because of sex, we were friends and had common interests - I was different from other girls my age, and he was (and is) a very mature guy. But, with that age difference, it's bound to happen at some point.

I'd say let it wear itself out, but help it along. He'll get tired of having to go through her parents to get to her and will cut it off to find someone else. I sneaked - I am a VERY skilled sneak - my parents were always oblivious as to the true nature of our relationship. It lasted the better part of 4 years.. 5 off and on.

Maybe it's a good time to talk about birth control, but explain that it's not a free pass? It's better safe than sorry, even though what you really want is for her to keep her purity. Then, she'll know exactly that you know wtf is up and you guys can have an honest discussion. Uncomfortable moments are the most remembered, no?

Good luck!