What's Your Opinion? I need a little help.

[JazmenFlowers]

wow, this is a tough one. I lean more towards what Sarah is saying, but I also think you need to sit down and discourage it as much as possible, but don't give her any ultimatums. tell her all these things. find out why she wants to be with him. be honest. the best thing you can do is give her all the information you want her to have and do your best to make sure she trusts you and feels like she can tell you what's going on and let you be involved. if she decided to continue the relationship and it goes sour, you'll at least be a step ahead and maybe she won't end up hurt in some way. like you said, the fact that he has a child is the worst part. he has already made a stupid decision and is attached to another woman for the rest of his life. is Sara ready to be a mom to someone else's baby on the weekends? I doubt it.