Julia - Song Meaning?

[Bandon]

Since many think "Julia" may be included on the new CD, it got me thinking again about the song's meaning. What do fans think is the meaning behind the song? Is Julia wanting in or out of the relationship? I always wondered if Julia was in a in a controlling, possibly domestic violence relationship and wanted out, yet conflicted about what she really wanted to do. Stay or leave. Why does she "suffer for the love?" Dreaming of a horse and carriage that will take her away from the relationship. Is she running in or out through "your door"? Does she "love the stars" because she is dreaming for a better life.. or a way out? Any thoughts?