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[RoseGarden]

Originally Posted by Remy

Thanks Sanne!
I'll never quite understand how they got back all together after all this drama and heartbreak. And from Stevie's words, Mick really comes out as a cold, calculating man.
Well, it's a miracle she bounced back from that sorry state long ago.

The last page says that if this were FM, then Mick would of been the white night that picked her up and refuse to make her sing this song

Yes, I would never want to hurt Stevie about commenting on if she has had 4 abortions. I Do remember Pat Benetar slowing her career down to have her child back in the day. It just seems kind of selfish to have mulitple abortions and claim it's all for the fans. As much as I love most of Stevies' music , I think it was more about the money and life in the fast lane then she'd like to admit.

[strandinthewind]

I think she has admitted that in that she said she had to be in FM and she loved being in FM.

As for the abortions, she admitted to aborting Henley's child after Henley flat out said that Sara was about they aborted child, to wit:

The following quote is taken from Don Henley's 1991 interview with GQ:

[Henley's prodigious romantic escapades would include an affair with Stevie Nicks, who] "I believe to the best of my knowledge became pregnant by me. And she named the [unborn] kid Sara, and she had an abortion and then wrote the song of the same name to the spirit of the aborted baby. I was building my house at the time, and there's a line in the song that says ‘And when you build your house, call me.''

Following the release of that issue of GQ, there was a Stevie mention in the Sunday Parade, where a reader wrote in and asked how Stevie responded to Don's statement. The answer was:

"Stevie Nicks, 43, won't comment on Henley's revelation, only replies that they 'remain friends'. But in the notes to her new 'Best of' album, the singer writes candidly of love affairs she has had with rock stars Mick Fleetwood, Joe Walsh, and Henley. 'Finally, after all those years', Nicks says, 'people have to understand why these songs were written and why I sometimes get so emotional on stage, why I sometimes burst into tears.'"

Stevie was also asked about the GQ comment in an interview with Mary Turner in 1994. She responded by saying Don had to make many an apologetic phone call. La Nicks later said that after many phone calls and many deliveries of flowers, she forgave Don for the revelation. She also said she would never have revealed that to the world in that manner. She'd rather do it through her songs or something like that - I don't have the exact quote.

In any event, I find it hard to believe that La Nicks would say to a reporter that she had four abortions no matter how upset she was. She seemingly is way too conscious of her image for that.

[RoseGarden]

Well, one admitted abortion is enough for me to think the money and the fast lane was more important. Just an observation.

Like I stated, Pat Benetar was a heavy rocker that lost maybe 4 years out of a career , to take time out to have a child . Having a baby is not the end of the world. Talented artist can still move forward. How long did it take in between rehabs and such to get back on track? We fans still buy her music and go to her concert.

Not trying to bash Stevie, it's her right to her privacy. but this subject was brought up and I just contributed. sorry if you disagree

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by RoseGarden

Well, one admitted abortion is enough for me to think the money and the fast lane was more important. Just an observation.

Like I stated, Pat Benetar was a heavy rocker that lost maybe 4 years out of a career , to take time out to have a child . Having a baby is not the end of the world. Talented artist can still move forward. How long did it take in between rehabs and such to get back on track? We fans still buy her music and go to her concert.

Not trying to bash Stevie, it's her right to her privacy. but this subject was brought up and I just contributed. sorry if you disagree

Oh - I think the money and fame were why she got the abortion we know about. She has all but said this because she has said ad nausem that there was never any time for kids, etc. I mean La Nicks pretty much toured and recorded every year from 1975 to 1991. So, I agree with you that she did not want children and chose to have a job instead.

What I don't agree with was that she was greedy and/or selfish to a fault for chosing those things (I am unsure if you were saying this - so it is meant as in general). I think she likely agonized over the decision to abort. Remember, she was not the huge star she is today, though she was well on her way to that. She likely thought there would be time later. This theory is supported by the repeated statements in interviews up until like 1992, wherein she talks about taking time off and having a child of her own.

Plus, the context of the times must also be considered. For her to have a baby out of wedlock in 1976 would have made her an outcast and would have ruined her career. It just was not really done then, though that timeframe was the beginning of the end of that line of thinking. Nowadays, that is not the case.

As for her abortion, I could care a less. I think that is between her and her conscious Many people (in general) cannot take this view, which, to me is sad.

[galestreet]

What does Stevie say about the abortions now, does she ever talk about them? I've had friends that have had multiple abortions and their lives changed and they were very sorry about that time in their lives. I wonder what Stevie feels anyway. Some people don't care, others feel a loss.

[strandinthewind]

The only think I remember was the line about Don Henley sending the flowers, etc. - and how she would never have chosen to reveal that to the world that way.

I think she likely does not really want to talk about it. Having said that, she is always going on about how she gave up the family life for stardom. So, she kind of opens the door to the conversation about it.

In the end, I think most people realize it is not really anyone's business, etc.

[CADreaming]

Possible that the drugs played a part in her decision...or her own body made the decision for her....maybe she couldn't carry a child to term. Happens. It would make sense. She seemed to be very emotional about it...

[RoseGarden]

A womans right to choose is ultimatly the womans right. But when a woman has star status IS going to raise controversy as many girls will follow their idols footstep in believing their idol is always right.


Being in the limelight , fairly or unfairly , makes the actions of the famous an influential decision on many who idolize this famous one. Right or wrong---that's a fact.

[RoseGarden]

Originally Posted by CADreaming

Possible that the drugs played a part in her decision...or her own body made the decision for her....maybe she couldn't carry a child to term. Happens. It would make sense. She seemed to be very emotional about it...

Agreed, drugs played a big part of many decisions in her career. My point, is her career was always first choice. Not that this is fair. Maybe many of the male Mac could of fathered many children we do not know of. (unknown)

Many female artist had / have decided when the time was RIGHT FOR THEM to have a child. It's just the way it is.
Most famous people don't make songs about it or speak of it to become controversy later---that's all. I don't condem Stevie nor praise her. It's a womans right.

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by RoseGarden

A womans right to choose is ultimatly the womans right. But when a woman has star status IS going to raise controversy as many girls will follow their idols footstep in believing their idol is always right.


Being in the limelight , fairly or unfairly , makes the actions of the famous an influential decision on many who idolize this famous one. Right or wrong---that's a fact.

***By the way, Madonna song "papa don't preach" insprired me to have my child at a young unwed age and put the child up for adoption.

Well, to be fair, La Nicks never publicized this and likely never would have Henley let the cat out of the bag and she expressed that she was horrified by that. So, it is likely no one would have followed her at the time or ever.

Again, I do not think the Vox article is accurate. So, I do not think she said she had four abortions.

[RoseGarden]

Well, it's an ugly contraversal peice to speak about. The fact that she was always high on drugs and had many affairs leans to the fact that unprotected sex was a way of life (and that's not just for her stature----much of that went on in the late 70's and 80's). I'd like to think the best of Stevie myself----but those kind of things happened, it is just seems uglier for a woman than a man for obvious reasons.


I really doubt , Don Henly would WANT to voulenteer that information NOR make it a fabriacation as it brings him negative publicity. I for one wrote him and the Eagles off after hearing it. Any man can sing but it takes a REAL man to stand up and take responsibility for what they've done .

4? 4?? I do not want to believe that either. And either way it is Stevies business. But in my eyes it probably is 4 and perhaps more. Living weatlhy and on drugs in the regards of millions would make a person want to hang on to the lime light forever.

[CADreaming]

Originally Posted by RoseGarden

Agreed, drugs played a big part of many decisions in her career. My point, is her career was always first choice. Not that this is fair.

My point was that she may have been forced to terminate pregnancies that she actually wanted because she couldn't carry a child to term.

[RoseGarden]

Originally Posted by CADreaming

My point was that she may have been forced to terminate pregnancies that she actually wanted because she couldn't carry a child to term.

That could possibly be, but judging by Stevies' songs---no offense---she always plays the innocent victim. I think she would have wrote a powerful song in what this felt like. After all, she doesn't leave much behind in what's going on her mind/head even if it is coated.

****Sarah for example, now who would have guessed? named for the poet in her heart.


We all obviously see this in a different way, so I am gonna just leave this alone and read the added post without commenting . Just wanted to share my toughts.

[PenguinHead]

Originally Posted by Tango

If anyone is looking for 'role models of the 70s for your children', this might not be a good band to choose. Then again are there role models from rock & roll bands from the 70s or any era? People on drugs/alcohol or 'other influences' aren't particularly responsible folks. They do make for interesting discussion. It's their history that makes them who they are. Their history fashioned and affected their music. They find they can't always fix the past. Their regret is in their music.

I differ from your perspective. Role models are not perfect the design (by who's standards?), but those who have lived through and overcome and suceeded despite extreme circumstances. The members of Fleetwood Mac fit that bill, and I don't see any of the band members now suffering in regret over their past real life experiences! In fact, it's been a source of inspiration for their art! And it's made them the people they are today. (Stevie's revisionist take on this issue is extremely hypocritcal in my opinion...but whatever). The litmis test for you seems to be their drug history. I'm less judgemental on this subject.

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by RoseGarden

. . . 4? 4?? I do not want to believe that either. And either way it is Stevies business. But in my eyes it probably is 4 and perhaps more. Living weatlhy and on drugs in the regards of millions would make a person want to hang on to the lime light forever.

It's not that I don't want to believe it. I actally do not really care. I am just noting that the wording of the article does not conclusively prove that she had four and she admitted to one when she was outed so to speak. In that article, she is quoted on having lost four men in her life that she loved because those men could not handle her fame, etc. Then, the author paraphrases [babies] into a quote while she is still speaking about the men. There is no quote of La Nicks saying she had four abortions in that article. Instead, the author suggests it without any support. There is a huge discussion about this in the fan forum on Nancy's board "www.buckinghamnicks.net" Do a word search there for vox abortion four - You'll get an eyeful

Also, I also think a sense of obligation played into it. Not only was she part of FM and leaving that would affect the main four people she loved - but it would also affect hundreds of people depend on her for their paychecks. She has repeatedly spoken of her obligation to them as well. So, I think that played a part of it as did the fame and wealth.

In the end, until we see her say it, we'll never really know for sure. And, I just can't see her saying it. But, you never know.