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View Poll Results: What do you notice FIRST in a man?
Eyes 14 34.15%
Smile 7 17.07%
Face 17 41.46%
Chest/Arms 4 9.76%
Butt/Bulge 4 9.76%
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Old 03-08-2007, 12:45 PM
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I generally cannot tell when someone likes me that way, though I readily admit most should be stunned by my savoir faire, personage, and looks
Truly. Are gay men more subtle than straight men? Cuz it's usually abundantly clear when a straight man is interested in me.
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Old 03-08-2007, 12:49 PM
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Couldnt tell ya...

But I notice women notice my long hair and eyes first and foremost.
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Old 03-08-2007, 01:14 PM
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Well, it depends. Usually, it's his face. But if he's got nice hands (manly hands) or a nice ass, I might notice that first. I also have a bit of a foot fetish, so if he's barefoot, I'll notice that first...although it's kind of a letdown if the rest of him is hot, but he has ugly feet. My ex-roommate, btw, had the sexiest feet I think I've ever seen. Too bad I never fukced him.
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Old 03-08-2007, 01:57 PM
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Truly. Are gay men more subtle than straight men? Cuz it's usually abundantly clear when a straight man is interested in me.
I do not know. I have not really dated that many people and my really only long term one (10 years) asked five seconds after meeting me in the receiving line - my friend I happened to be with at a black tie deal - how much I cost for the evening. I guess that was kind of a clue Also, after ten years and alimony - he found out
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I do not know. I have not really dated that many people and my really only long term one (10 years) asked five seconds after meeting me in the receiving line - my friend I happened to be with at a black tie deal - how much I cost for the evening. I guess that was kind of a clue Also, after ten years and alimony - he found out
So, please, do tell... how much is that strandinthewindow?
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Old 03-08-2007, 02:07 PM
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Gawd. I'm dormant too I've not giving a damn about a guy in over two years now, and frankly it's starting to bug me. I miss crushes. I miss "feeling" period - I've not liked anyone in a looong time.

But meh I put face...though there's not really ONE thing I notice first, if there is I don't know what it is...so I guessed face.
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Old 03-08-2007, 09:28 PM
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I do the same too. To steal a quote from American Psycho, I like to dissect boys. Did you know I'm utterly insane?
I dissect too...
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Old 03-08-2007, 09:42 PM
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I always notice a guys smile first. Always gets me
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Old 03-08-2007, 09:44 PM
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For me, it's the eyes. Always.

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Old 03-08-2007, 10:00 PM
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you mean his zipper smile...
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Old 03-08-2007, 10:40 PM
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Face. I love guys who have cute faces.

But I read somewhere that the first thing women notice in men is their shoulders.
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The fact that he doesn't have boobs.
Some do.
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Old 03-08-2007, 11:22 PM
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Gawd. I'm dormant too I've not giving a damn about a guy in over two years now, and frankly it's starting to bug me. I miss crushes. I miss "feeling" period - I've not liked anyone in a looong time.
geez. what is that like? i am the biggest flirt in the world - it's like an addiction. i have a very long distance boyfriend - across an ocean - with no firm, firm commitment (therefore, freedom!) - but i also have a huge, crazy, huge crush on someone middle distance away, who i've had said crush on now for almost 18 months!! sigh. i love him. and i met someone yesterday, and was like, hmmmm..... he was married but seriously, i am so attracted to so many men - most of them about 10-15 years older than me. the BF across the ocean is my age, and we may actually wind up married one day. but that doesn't mean i don't notice every other guy around. too much fun!

so what do i notice first? so hard to define. i am quick to fall for a true gentleman, sophisticated looking (a little grey is always good), well groomed, with a smile that just transforms his whole face... and makes me swoon.
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i'm putting face I guess

it breaks down to: nose, smile then eyes I think


I'm a nose girl. Weird, i know.
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