What do you notice FIRST in a man?

[SuzeQuze]

Originally Posted by strandinthewind

I generally cannot tell when someone likes me that way, though I readily admit most should be stunned by my savoir faire, personage, and looks

Truly. Are gay men more subtle than straight men? Cuz it's usually abundantly clear when a straight man is interested in me.

[estranged4life]

Couldnt tell ya...

But I notice women notice my long hair and eyes first and foremost.

[gretchen]

Originally Posted by markolas

Well, it depends. Usually, it's his face. But if he's got nice hands (manly hands) or a nice ass, I might notice that first. I also have a bit of a foot fetish, so if he's barefoot, I'll notice that first...although it's kind of a letdown if the rest of him is hot, but he has ugly feet. My ex-roommate, btw, had the sexiest feet I think I've ever seen. Too bad I never fukced him.

Manly feet, hiyieeeee!!!!

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

Truly. Are gay men more subtle than straight men? Cuz it's usually abundantly clear when a straight man is interested in me.

I do not know. I have not really dated that many people and my really only long term one (10 years) asked five seconds after meeting me in the receiving line - my friend I happened to be with at a black tie deal - how much I cost for the evening. I guess that was kind of a clue Also, after ten years and alimony - he found out

[HejiraNYC]

Originally Posted by strandinthewind

I do not know. I have not really dated that many people and my really only long term one (10 years) asked five seconds after meeting me in the receiving line - my friend I happened to be with at a black tie deal - how much I cost for the evening. I guess that was kind of a clue Also, after ten years and alimony - he found out

So, please, do tell... how much is that strandinthewindow?

[DrummerDeanna]

Gawd. I'm dormant too I've not giving a damn about a guy in over two years now, and frankly it's starting to bug me. I miss crushes. I miss "feeling" period - I've not liked anyone in a looong time.

But meh I put face...though there's not really ONE thing I notice first, if there is I don't know what it is...so I guessed face.

[BlackWidow]

Originally Posted by ryan8472

I do the same too. To steal a quote from American Psycho, I like to dissect boys. Did you know I'm utterly insane?

I dissect too...

[DavidMn]

I always notice a guys smile first. Always gets me

[BlackWidow]

Originally Posted by DavidMn

I always notice a guys smile first. Always gets me

you mean his zipper smile...

[rbs3676]

For me, it's the eyes. Always.

rbs

[DavidMn]

Originally Posted by BlackWidow

you mean his zipper smile...

Gawd, pervert!

[Karlie]

Face. I love guys who have cute faces.

But I read somewhere that the first thing women notice in men is their shoulders.

[goldustsongbird]

Originally Posted by SortaSavageLike

The fact that he doesn't have boobs.

Some do.

[catinthedark]

Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

Gawd. I'm dormant too I've not giving a damn about a guy in over two years now, and frankly it's starting to bug me. I miss crushes. I miss "feeling" period - I've not liked anyone in a looong time.

geez. what is that like? i am the biggest flirt in the world - it's like an addiction. i have a very long distance boyfriend - across an ocean - with no firm, firm commitment (therefore, freedom!) - but i also have a huge, crazy, huge crush on someone middle distance away, who i've had said crush on now for almost 18 months!! sigh. i love him. and i met someone yesterday, and was like, hmmmm..... he was married but seriously, i am so attracted to so many men - most of them about 10-15 years older than me. the BF across the ocean is my age, and we may actually wind up married one day. but that doesn't mean i don't notice every other guy around. too much fun!

so what do i notice first? so hard to define. i am quick to fall for a true gentleman, sophisticated looking (a little grey is always good), well groomed, with a smile that just transforms his whole face... and makes me swoon.

[michelle2677]

i'm putting face I guess

it breaks down to: nose, smile then eyes I think


I'm a nose girl. Weird, i know.