Oh man, How Much Bad Luck With Girls Can A Guy Have????? A Little Help Please!!!

[gldstwmn]

Originally Posted by buckymcnix

but . . .somehow you guys got all toe stepping or something . . . i don't think anyone meant anything harsh - - -

Oh honey, welcome to The Ledge.

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by ragandbone

See, I actually did read in your comment a little disappointment and maybe bitterness, as if you had felt burned by being the nice guy. And I guess your explanation below bears that out.
Of course, we don't know how impressionable Ethan is or whether he would get the facetious tone. We *do* know that he says he has moved on, and we are all still talking about it

thank you. i love you.

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by gldstwmn

Oh honey, welcome to The Ledge.

thats a good way to look at it. that made me smile

[buckymcnix]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

I really am so sorry. I never should have posted. I'm sitting here crying thinking that people out ther have a wrong opinion of who i am and what im like. i just have been if the nice guys finish last rut for some time, and am frustrated. i am so upset about this.i do not believe that women should be degrated or put down in anyway. no one should. i am really sorry if that is how that got interpreted. i only wanted to tell him not to be soo much of a friend, that thats all she ever thinks of you as. i'm sorry.

hey bud - relax -
i don't think anyone feels that way about you -
there was some back and forth and you defended yourself against those charges . . . but certainly nothing you should be letting get you so down . . .

i think there was some internets misunderstandings . . .
thats it . . .
typed words just don't have inflection etc . . .that can make the meanin so different

:xoxo i certainly can't speak for everyone but relax - i doubt anyone thinks you are a bad person

[BTFLCHLD]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

wrong opinion of who i am and what im like.

Phoenix...you are not the first person to mention your thoughts on being "a friend"...in fact I am sure there was discussion of the matter on the "friendtrap" on some reality show last night...I wouldn't think one would gather a negative impression from you from one single post. You have explained your feelings and what you meant...I wouldn't worry/cry on it...ok?

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by buckymcnix

hey bud - relax -
i don't think anyone feels that way about you -
there was some back and forth and you defended yourself against those charges . . . but certainly nothing you should be letting get you so down . . .

i think there was some internets misunderstandings . . .
thats it . . .
typed words just don't have inflection etc . . .that can make the meanin so different

:xoxo i certainly can't speak for everyone but relax - i doubt anyone thinks you are a bad person

thank you

[ragandbone]

does this mean we don't get the kung fu swordfight I had so hoped for?

Awwww man!

[BTFLCHLD]

Then again, being a jerk to get a girl interested is gameplay that is not cool...as Chris highlighted.

[DrummerDeanna]

Phoenix - everyone gets sh*t on or feels sh*t upon on the Ledge at some point in time...so welcome to the club

Your initial post - I totally thought you were being sarcastic, I got a chuckle from it, didn't take it seriously. But sadly what you've said seems to be a real perception guys have that girls like assholes...

Maybe y'all are just hanging around the wrong girls...I have absolutely no tolerance for jerks...and hate the notion that "that's really what girls want" ...those girls need help

[buckymcnix]

Originally Posted by BTFLCHLD

Then again, being a jerk to get a girl interested is gameplay that is not cool...as Chris highlighted.

i guess i took it as "let her see all of you - not just the good parts . . . be yourself . . . " not as a show off your bad parts to mind fcku with her. . . .
- imo

[ragandbone]

Originally Posted by BTFLCHLD

Then again, being a jerk to get a girl interested is gameplay that is not cool...as Chris highlighted.

You're right, though I think any jerks I have encountered weren't putting on any act.
Luckily Chris is ready to defend us with some high kicks, or I guess low kicks.

[ragandbone]

Originally Posted by buckymcnix

i'll thumbwrestle you -
best 3 outta five . . .

That litle angel is hovering over the unfair boxing match in your sig pic, and I am very afraid

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by ragandbone

You're right, though I think any jerks I have encountered weren't putting on any act.
Luckily Chris is ready to defend us with some high kicks, or I guess low kicks.

if she gets to kick can i still keep the sword?! (I loved ur comment about my excalibur pic too, thanks) WE WILL FIGHT SIDE BY SIDE DEFENDING THE WORLD FROM JERKS! EVERYEHERE!

[sasja]

Maybe you sweet, good, strong, reliable guys are attracted to, or friends with, the wrong kind of girls too!

I know it maybe takes some maturity but! Once I was out of my dumb adolescent years -- good, kind, reliable and trustworthy and friendly, good to animals, children, humanity as a whole, etc. guys were the only kinds I dated and eventually, married.

We, the women that value and appreciate you, ARE out there!!

Sasja

[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by sasja

Maybe you sweet, good, strong, reliable guys are attracted to, or friends with, the wrong kind of girls too!

I know it maybe takes some maturity but! Once I was out of my dumb adolescent years -- good, kind, reliable and trustworthy and friendly, good to animals, children, humanity as a whole, etc. guys were the only kinds I dated and eventually, married.

We, the women that value and appreciate you, ARE out there!!

Sasja

EXACTLY! That's what I was trying to say earlier....

Because from where I stand it seems that many guys (even the nice ones) like the bitchy and whorish girls...so something's getting lost in the mix here lol....