Oh man, How Much Bad Luck With Girls Can A Guy Have????? A Little Help Please!!!

[ragandbone]

See, I actually did read in your comment a little disappointment and maybe bitterness, as if you had felt burned by being the nice guy. And I guess your explanation below bears that out.
Of course, we don't know how impressionable Ethan is or whether he would get the facetious tone. We *do* know that he says he has moved on, and we are all still talking about it

Originally Posted by Phoenix

Ok, calm down. First, I have NEVER called any girl or woman "dude". That was to ethan. Second, I am not encouraging anyone to as you so politley put it "F" with peoples heads. and PLEASE try to remember that the only thing that you know about me at all is that I like stevie nicks. before you start making assumptions about my character, slinging personal insults, or making threats. And you are right that I do not know nearly as much about women as you do, because I am not one. but seriously, I am not a jerk. and you dont know me. But do you know what? I am "THE FRIEND". The friend who is allways there and supportive, and then ends up alone. I am the guy that the girls complain about their boyfriends to. I am the guy who goes to pick up the girl that he cares about at 2am, because shes stranded and upset, and her jerk boyfriends to drunk to care. I am the guy who still opens and holds the doors for a woman when she is entering a room or a building. I even bring flowers when you are down, and actually listen when you talk. and when I compliment and say that their hair looks nice after it is just cut all I ever hear is "are you gay?" I have spent many years having girls that I have felt love for tell me that Im, "the greatest friend" and "just like a brother" and "you'll find someone some day" (meaning someone else). but believe me, I am a good guy and you ndont know me. This is not Dr. Phill save a relationship advice! Ethan is a teenager. and I do know teenagers. I work with Jr. High students at the school that I work at. and Im sorry, but teenage girls tend to like the bad boy. Now, im only 25 so yeah, I got alot to learn, but I have been "the friend" and alone for FAR TOO LONG. and I was just saying that If you put the im your friend vibe out there, that is what she will think of you as.