on the outside looking in

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Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

I have some experience with this...that's all. 2007 is the year of self-improvement and self-love

No self-improvement, just letting your real self emerge like a butterfly, right? I think my res is to stop beating up on myself.

I've struggled with this same thing, David. Ultimately you have to be who you are, there really is no other option. You can make adjustments that you want to make to be happier. But you can't make any to try to make someone else happy. That never works.

This is a good reminder for me! I keep wondering why T didn't like me but who cares! He's a loser. Or a tosser, depending on who you talk to.