Oh Bette Midler...

[DrummerDeanna]

^^

Oh I'm not saying others points are invalid - I think there are a couple of angles on this issue....

I totally see what y'all are saying - about women who were once wild now saying "don't be" and a woman calling another a slut but telling her, in turn, to be nice

Really the whole thing is ridiculous and I maintain that if I had an endless stream of money coming my way and all fabulous clothes and privelage - I'd probably be right out there partying with 'em