Marriage/relationships

[GODDESS6]

Originally Posted by amber

I didn't mean all new passion, all the time. I was speaking of married people who "never" have sex. Or even rarely. For long periods of time. Yet they live together. *shudder*. It's fine if Mr. and Mrs. Asexual get married, and they're totally happy and in agreement. And neither of them wants to sleep with someone else.
Obviously, that is just one aspect I mentioned that I find distasteful.

i do daycare for a couple like this, except the not sleep w/ someone else part, they have 2 kids ages 7 & almost 5~ they got married becuz of being preggers w/ the 1st child & i guess all was good so far, but the wife admittedly got preggers again, while telling her hubby that she was using birthcontrol~ they are still married & like *sleep* together, i mean *sleep* not be intimate at all~ he won't touch her ever since she got pregnant w/ their 5 yr old son~ not even a kiss, he tells her she trapped him & has had numerous physical affairs that she knows about & is constantly online w/ women, trying to meet w/ them~ matter of fact right now he is on a *vaca* while his wife is home here~ they never talk of divorce, they do talk of continuing to be together, it is all so strange to me, to be living like that~ i can't imagine ~ the wife says she loves him & won't leave & even went as far as to ask her hubby if he was gay, becuz he hadn't touched her in like 5 yrs, but then she knows the people he cheated w/ were women, so deep down she knows he isn't~ i just listen to her, shake my head deep inside myself & say a little prayer, whata mess~