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"Do not be afraid! I am Esteban de la Sexface!" "In order to live free and happily, you must sacrifice boredom. It is not always an easy sacrifice" Whehyll I can do EHYT!! Wehyll I can make it WAHN moh thihme! (wheyllit'sA reayllongwaytogooo! To say goodbhiiy!) - 
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08-14-2005, 08:22 PM
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08-14-2005, 08:27 PM
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I say throw all those silly negative thoughts out the window and jump right in to some good times. Slumber parties, movie dates, weekend tent-camping get-a-ways, chummy Sunday drives- get it all out there. If you're really nice to her then she'll totally get it that she drives you crazy and she's sure to change all those things about her that make you want to gouge your eyes out and after investing all that time you'll be the bestest of friends. You'll just hafta ignore all those little irritating things for a few short six, seven, eight months kinda thing. No biggie.
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08-14-2005, 08:29 PM
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Looks like someone got her monthly visit from Aunt Flo.
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08-14-2005, 11:05 PM
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Just butting in real quick like.....
There's this one dumb bitch I can't stand, who wanted (and still does) want to be my friend so bad. See, she was married to one of my late hubby's friend's. Well, late hubby's friend was a real asshole, and dumb bitch was always calling my house looking for him. She would try to have conversation with me, and try as I might, I just couldn't do it. And it was always about how she used to have friends before her car accident messed her head up, and they can't get the right diagnosis, blah, blah, blah. Anyhow....Then, she divorced asshole, and married my late hubby's boss. I love late hubby's boss to death, but I still can't handle dumb bitch. She's too nicey nice, as I obviously am not. I can't stand all the over-the-top niceness. Anyhow, she called here the other day out of the blue, and I just let the phone ring. She left a message, and apparently, they just had a baby, and I am being asked to the shower. How tacky is that? "Uh, I know we haven't talked in over a year, but come buy me some **** for my kid..." Sorry, I'm sure that story is kinda choppy, and hard to understand, but dumb bitch is just really annoying, and is one of the few people I can't stand to be around. So, Deanna, I really don't have any advice, because I've never dealt with my situation properly, either!!! 
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08-14-2005, 11:43 PM
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 Life's to short to waste time being misserable, you sound pretty misserable about this. I'd be careful how you go about cutting ties though. People can seem immature for alot more reasons than retardation. She could have had a horrible life (I've known people like this, and it was indeed the case). Even simply being sheltered can cause it, or perhaps this girl you speak of maybe just feels intimidated, or it takes her quite a while to feel comfortable around people. Ofcourse it's entirley possible her life was perfect and this is who she is. Problem is who ever she is it doesn't mesh well with who you are, she don't realize it, but it's not meshing for her either, LOL. One thing I can think of is maybe finding different friends for her, perhaps there's someone you run into some times who'd be perfect for her. You could find some way to get them together alone and maybe they'll hit it off. There's all sorts of non-chelant ways to go about it. It might be a little work, and you may have to tell a few white lies. In the long run you'll come out smelling like a rose, and you can take comfort in that she's better off too. Good luck!
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08-14-2005, 11:57 PM
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Deanna, I totally know where you're coming from. I have a friend on my team that is so beyond stupid. At first she was really cool and I loved to hang out with her, but I actually got to know her, and talk to her online and she doesn't know anything. She just wants to make me want to gouge my eyes out, too.
I find myself making fun of her a lot behind her back, which yes, I know is a REALLY bad thing. I don't want to stop talking to her because she can be a good person. So, I really don't know what to tell you. Most of the time I just make fun of her to her face, and she thinks it's a joke. Wow, I'm a really bad person.
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08-15-2005, 09:32 AM
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Oh - did I forget to mention that she's a clanswoman who murder kittens in her basement????  Anyway - thanks for the input guys - no - it wouldn't be impossible for me to reach out and be nice - I've done it - it didn't work. It took WAY too much of my time and energy - you give an inch she takes a mile type thing. So I'm going to cut the ties. Oh - and we have tried to find her other, more suitable, friends didn't work out. Urg. I'l figure it out.
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08-15-2005, 02:56 PM
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Anyway, Dee, this can't go on, youmust do something. I don't mean that you should say "listen, I think you're an asshole, leave me alone." But try to distance yourself little by little. If she gets the hint, you're golden. If she doesn't, say "listen, I think you're an asshole, leave me alone." 
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08-15-2005, 03:15 PM
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"Do not be afraid! I am Esteban de la Sexface!" "In order to live free and happily, you must sacrifice boredom. It is not always an easy sacrifice" Whehyll I can do EHYT!! Wehyll I can make it WAHN moh thihme! (wheyllit'sA reayllongwaytogooo! To say goodbhiiy!) -
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08-15-2005, 03:25 PM
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But you've given her that and it didn't work, so now's the time to move on. 
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08-15-2005, 03:31 PM
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Nope, but it did get a chuckle.  PS - I would have strangled Mr. Talkie by now, you're a better person than I am.
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08-15-2005, 03:40 PM
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Oh, well, whatever to paula. *he has a car, so i haven't strangeled him. plus, he's actually funny and nice most times. it's just this one thing*
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"Do not be afraid! I am Esteban de la Sexface!" "In order to live free and happily, you must sacrifice boredom. It is not always an easy sacrifice" Whehyll I can do EHYT!! Wehyll I can make it WAHN moh thihme! (wheyllit'sA reayllongwaytogooo! To say goodbhiiy!) -
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08-15-2005, 03:51 PM
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Yes, I can see where strangling him while he's driving may cause a problem. Is he ADHD, or just annoying?
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