The Just Thought I'd Share Thread

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Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

Yeah, I would want to know. My friend finally answered the message. I think I'm going to hint around, and let him ask me if there's something I know, that he should probably hear. At least if he asks me, I won't be volunteering the discretion.

I also told a couple of mutual good friends, so the leak could come from elsewhere, too...

Be careful, my friend... the easiest way to lose a friend is by placing yourself into their relationship, even if you are in the right. I've ruined a couple friendships over the years by responding to a direct question friends have asked me about their significant others (I used to keep my opinions to myself unless asked, now I just refuse to say anything negative at all).

I know I've even been guilty of pushing away friends when they told me what one of my boyfriends (at the time) was up to... even though every word my friends told me was true, and I knew it. Never underestimate the power of shame & pride, especially when it comes to people & their relationships. If I were you, I'd leave well enough alone. The universe & karma has a way of righting wrongs.