My dying friend and a dilemma

[GoneInsane]

I have an old girlfriend recently diagnosed with brain cancer. Way back in 1985, we were an item and had a bad breakup, but over the last 1 1/2 years we've become closer. Put it this way, that's where I developed my board name. From dealing with our breakup and obsessing over the "Going Insane" album. I haven't posted since August (gack!), but I'm ready to meet some new folks for real. I need your help. I was making "mix" tapes way before it was "cool" to do. It was VERY difficult to do back in the mid-80's compared to now.

I have had my own family now for 7 yrs. My fiancee have the longest engagement ever and I am stepdad to three terrific kids. My ex is married and had two children. I also knew her current husband from way back then(we both did) and I hated his guts(still really dislike him). I want to compile a disc of solely FM/FM solo material for her. I need ideas.

Example: Storms

I would put that beautiful song on there for sure. But what else? I don't want it to be all dark and foreboding, but I don't want it to be like every thing is all sunny.

Also, morally, is it ok for me to do this. I know this sounds corny, but I liken our relationship as a Stevie/Lindsey thing.

Any suggestions song wise or content wise would be SO appreciated.

And again,
I'm going Insane