I must be getting soft...

estranged4life · #1 12-18-2004, 03:00 AM

hearted in my "old age"...Today while shopping Deb & myself saw a Christmas tree (Courtesy of the Salvation Army) that contained lists of items that disadvantaged children that were hoping to receive gifts for Christmas, So being that we don't have children (Or will after Deb's chemo/radiation treatments) we decided to pick a list and fill it for a child, Who may otherwise not receive a visit from "ol jolly St.Nick".

We picked a 10 yr.old girl's list which consisted of school supplies, scented lotions, A Barbie doll, A diary, Finger nail polish & hair ribbons (Which caused me to break into the lyric of Stevie's song "Juliet", "You get some ribbons and some bows and get back out on the road again").

It was rather heartbreaking to know that this child may not have otherwise had a joyful Christmas if we did not go out of our way to help out by sharing...So heartbreaking that I nearly lost it a few times as we shopped for this child to make her dream come true (It takes alot to make me shed tears, Even more to do it publicly, But this was one of the first times this has happened in a while.)

We may not be the most financially stable couple around (Cancer has a way to destroy your life's savings) but at least we wanted to try to give back after the year we been through by showing that the real meaning of Christmas is giving...

Peace out, Take care & blame Canada!!!!

Brian "You have yet to see anything til ya see a 6'-2" 235lb. man near tears" j.

ps-A big Screwyou (!!!) goes to the Target stores for banning the Salvation Army "bellringers" from appearing in front of your stores...That's fine, We "banned" ourselves from taking our dollars to your stores

wondergirl9847 · #2 12-18-2004, 03:06 AM

I also got my first angel from the Salvation Army Angel Tree this year. I've been so blessed in my life that I wanted to give back. I chose a young lady who wanted a CD player (music changes lives, I wouldn't want anyone deprived

) and some clothes. Most of the kids need clothes and want bikes. If I worked for Huffy, Schwinn or something, I'd donate some bikes.

EnchantedSLN · #3 12-18-2004, 03:22 AM

that was an awesome thing for you guys to do Brian. She will appreciate it so much.

Johnny Stew · #4 12-18-2004, 03:42 AM

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Originally Posted by estranged4life

ps-A big Screwyou (!!!) goes to the Target stores for banning the Salvation Army "bellringers" from appearing in front of your stores...That's fine, We "banned" ourselves from taking our dollars to your stores

I don't want to somehow cheapen you and Deb's very sweet and generous act of kindness by bringing this up, but I just wanted to mention that the Target company wasn't being miserly or Grinch-like by blocking the Salvation Army bellringers from standing outside of their stores.

The S.A. has a discriminatory hiring policy against homosexuals, and the S.A. refuses to grant domestic partnership benefits towards homosexuals in their employ (in fact, they had decided at one point to offer domestic partnerships, and then retracted their decision).

So, partly due to the S.A.'s discriminatory policies, Target chooses to distance themselves from them. But it should be pointed out that Target has a policy against all sidewalk "solicitors."
(It should also be pointed out that Target makes a lot of charitable donations and works closely with St. Jude's.)

Now, having said all of that, I do love that the Salvation Army helps needy children, and I do actually drop whatever money or spare change I have in my pockets into their buckets, because of THOSE children. But it still bothers me to think that my donation is acceptable to them, but I am not.

estranged4life · #5 12-18-2004, 03:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Johnny Stew

I don't want to somehow cheapen you and Deb's very sweet and generous act of kindness by bringing this up, but I just wanted to mention that the Target company wasn't being miserly or Grinch-like by blocking the Salvation Army bellringers from standing outside of their stores.

The S.A. has a discriminatory hiring policy against homosexuals, and the S.A. refuses to grant domestic partnership benefits towards homosexuals in their employ (in fact, they had decided at one point to offer domestic partnerships, and then retracted their decision).

So, partly due to the S.A.'s discriminatory policies, Target chooses to distance themselves from them. But it should be pointed out that Target has a policy against all sidewalk "solicitors."
(It should also be pointed out that Target makes a lot of charitable donations and works closely with St. Jude's.)

Now, having said all of that, I do love that the Salvation Army helps needy children, and I do actually drop whatever money or spare change I have in my pockets into their buckets, because of THOSE children. But it still bothers me to think that my donation is acceptable to them, but I am not.

the Target stores in this area have NOT made it known why it's not supporting the Salvation Army, Even if it's because of the SA discrimination against gays (I think being in the heart of the Bible-belt explains that!)...They have yet to give any real explanation as to why to the media in OKC (The only mention reasoning is the typical "company policy against sidewalk solicitation.")

Thanks for the info...While I support helping children, I do not support the SA's discrimination.

Brian j.

Gypsy-Rhiannon · #6 12-18-2004, 04:23 AM

Brian and Christy... this is a lovely and generous gesture!

WelshWitchPMD · #7 12-18-2004, 08:11 AM

That is so nice Brian.

There is something like that in Rhode Island called the Giving Tree. I have not done that and I believe that the 10th was the last day.

There is also the Community Food Bank where you can donate a canned good.

I heard on the radio today that there is also an organization that help the Veterans in our area.

I'll have to look into one of these to see if I can give just a little something to help make someone's(who would not have much)Christmas just a little brighter.

Brian you have inspired me. You too Christy.

GODDESS6 · #8 12-18-2004, 09:17 AM

awwwww how sweet of u!!!

~

GypsySorcerer · #9 12-18-2004, 11:51 AM

You and Deb were very generous, Brian.

I didn't do the Angel tree this year, but I did donate to Toys for Tots. It really is heartbreaking to think of children not receiving anything for Christmas because of poverty.

estranged4life · #10 12-18-2004, 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by GypsySorcerer

You and Deb were very generous, Brian.

I didn't do the Angel tree this year, but I did donate to Toys for Tots. It really is heartbreaking to think of children not receiving anything for Christmas because of poverty.

yesterday too! Stopped at a Love's Country Store for gasoline for the ol' Black Death mobile and as we were ready to leave we noticed someone setting up a table out front of the store and it was "Toys For Tots"...So Deb goes up to the lady and donates money even before the lady even had placed objects on the table to sell to raise money for "Toys For Tots".

Brian j.

wondergirl9847 · #11 12-18-2004, 01:02 PM

This thread is making me think of something. Perhaps next year (since it's kinda late this year), the Ledgies can adopt some charity to donate to? It can be voted on or something and we can give in the name of the Fleetwood Mac Ledgies?

We did this at my Justin Guarini board. We gave money to a Broadway AIDS Charity Fund because Justin performed at one of their charity functions. We raised quite a bit of cash and being the awesome, wonderful person he is...he matched it.

Habitat for Humanity is one of Justin's fave charities.

They also do quite a bit of money raising on Keith Urban's fan board that I frequent. St. Judes is Keith's fave charity.

WelshWitchPMD · #12 12-18-2004, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by wondergirl9847

This thread is making me think of something. Perhaps next year (since it's kinda late this year), the Ledgies can adopt some charity to donate to? It can be voted on or something and we can give in the name of the Fleetwood Mac Ledgies?

We did this at my Justin Guarini board. We gave money to a Broadway AIDS Charity Fund because Justin performed at one of their charity functions. We raised quite a bit of cash and being the awesome, wonderful person he is...he matched it.

Habitat for Humanity is one of Justin's fave charities.

They also do quite a bit of money raising on Keith Urban's fan board that I frequent. St. Judes is Keith's fave charity.

That sounds like a great idea Christy. Maybe City of Hope or anything. Does anyone know of some of the Mac members favorite charities? I know Stevie has City of Hope and the AZ Heart Institute.

GypsySorcerer · #13 12-18-2004, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by wondergirl9847

This thread is making me think of something. Perhaps next year (since it's kinda late this year), the Ledgies can adopt some charity to donate to? It can be voted on or something and we can give in the name of the Fleetwood Mac Ledgies?

We did this at my Justin Guarini board. We gave money to a Broadway AIDS Charity Fund because Justin performed at one of their charity functions. We raised quite a bit of cash and being the awesome, wonderful person he is...he matched it.

Habitat for Humanity is one of Justin's fave charities.

They also do quite a bit of money raising on Keith Urban's fan board that I frequent. St. Judes is Keith's fave charity.

I'd be all about it.

wondergirl9847 · #14 12-18-2004, 01:45 PM

City of Hope, AZ Heart Institute are terrific! Can anyone confirm what other charities the Mac members like?

Also, suggestions for other charities too.

estranged4life · #15 12-18-2004, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by wondergirl9847

This thread is making me think of something. Perhaps next year (since it's kinda late this year), the Ledgies can adopt some charity to donate to? It can be voted on or something and we can give in the name of the Fleetwood Mac Ledgies?

We did this at my Justin Guarini board. We gave money to a Broadway AIDS Charity Fund because Justin performed at one of their charity functions. We raised quite a bit of cash and being the awesome, wonderful person he is...he matched it.

Habitat for Humanity is one of Justin's fave charities.

They also do quite a bit of money raising on Keith Urban's fan board that I frequent. St. Judes is Keith's fave charity.

cause those of us in the metal community have already have 2 charities to make donations to (Courtesy of DamagePlan.com) :

"The Dimebag Darrell Memorial Fund has been set up to cover bereavement and medical expenses for John 'Kat' Brooks, Chris Paluska, and Jeffrey 'Mayhem' Thompson. Please make checks payable to 'The Dimebag Darrell Memorial Fund.' Donations can be sent to the mail-only address:

Dimebag Darrell Memorial Fund
110 SW Thomas
Burleson, TX 76028

A special fund has also been set up through VH1's Save The Music Foundation. Save The Music purchases new musical instruments to restore music education programs that have been cut due to budget reductions in the past or to save programs at risk of elimination due to lack of instruments. The Foundation also conducts awareness campaigns, musical instrument drives and fundraising events. Checks can be mailed to:

VH1 Save The Music Foundation
1515 Broadway, 20th Floor
New York, NY 10036

So figure out which charity y'all want to help and I'm there...

Brian j.