Flattered or Frightened?

Carolina Girl · #1 05-13-2004, 03:18 PM

If you meet someone and don't exchange contact information, would you be flattered (wow, she remembered me and wants to talk) or frightened (yikes, she's stalking me) if she tracks you down and calls you?

dissention · #2 05-13-2004, 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Carolina Girl

If you meet someone and don't exchange contact information, would you be flattered (wow, she remembered me and wants to talk) or frightened (yikes, she's stalking me) if she tracks you down and calls you?

I'd be flattered. And I'd use it as an opportunity to say "Vote Kerry."

strandinthewind · #3 05-13-2004, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by dissention

I'd be flattered. And I'd use it as an opportunity to say "Vote Kerry."

this is why you are single!!!!!

dissention · #4 05-13-2004, 03:42 PM

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this is why you are single!!!!!

It is!!!

I've actually had friends tell me that I wouldn't be able to sustain a relationship because I'm too preoccupied with other things. Then I had another who told me that if I put as much passion into bedroom activities as I put into politics, I'd be legendary.

gldstwmn · #5 05-13-2004, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Carolina Girl

If you meet someone and don't exchange contact information, would you be flattered (wow, she remembered me and wants to talk) or frightened (yikes, she's stalking me) if she tracks you down and calls you?

Frightened.

Pisces Queen · #6 05-13-2004, 04:25 PM

I would be flattered

sparky · #7 05-13-2004, 04:44 PM

It all depends on my level of interest and the relative creep factor (or lack of a creep factor) of the dude.

estranged4life · #8 05-13-2004, 04:45 PM

I would be worried, Unless SHE was a blonde 50ish "witch" who happens to be a singer in a "rock n roll" band, Then it would be "Bring it on, baby"

DrummerDeanna · #9 05-13-2004, 05:46 PM

It really depends on the circumstances...some people give off the creep vibe right away...well...I've also been told that I've got pretty good intuition when it comes to people...some people don't have that...anyway....I'd be flattered...but cautious...

GardenStateGirlie · #10 05-13-2004, 05:54 PM

I suppose it varies on circumstance. Is this someone whose information you did not get for a reason or were you interested as well and just never had the chance? If it's a friend of a friend I think that would be alright but if it's some random stranger? I'd be sketched.

Carolina Girl · #11 05-14-2004, 08:10 AM

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...some people give off the creep vibe right away...

Definitely true!! I don't think I'm one of those, but if you are, do you know it??

Thanks to everyone for your comments.

DrummerDeanna · #12 05-14-2004, 10:03 AM

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Definitely true!! I don't think I'm one of those, but if you are, do you know it??

Thanks to everyone for your comments.

lol...No, I think if you're one of the people who actually gives off the creepy vibe you're not really aware of it...at least that's the impression I get from some of the nut cases I've met...they are not the least bit aware that they have problems...which is probably part of the problem lol...