The Just Thought I'd Share Thread

[fumidesigns]

@dani..... (Hmmmmm how do I say/type this without using "colorful" words!?)

1. My dear you are sooooooo pretty! You need not even think anything different! Any heffa that's says different is a hater! I met u, I've chatted with you, I've felt your spirit, I've seen your smile! You are beautiful! PERIOD!

2. **** her and the _____ she came out of! I hate a heaux that doesn't know how to stay in her lane! Clearly you were a friend to her in the past, but her ditzy ass couldn't see it! She hurt you and does not deserve your friendsship!

3. I've learned that when you let someone make you angry like this, especially someone like her (a person that doesn't matter), you're giving them power over you. Let her dumb ass be. Don't waste another second of your precious days giving her another second of your time! You could be doing tons moe like.........breathing or sneezing or blinking......

*muah*

[fumidesigns]

Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

Ugh, thank you. I'm trying to channel all of my energy towards loathing her instead of my own self-loathing. So far, it's working pretty well but I'm still freaked out by how terrible she made me feel... I usually laugh at people who say things like that just to get under my skin, but she hit me at a really bad time. I was recently diagnosed with hypothyroidism so this **** isn't entirely my fault. And I'm so physically healthy (strong, etc) so it really shouldn't bother me but it does.

I messaged her back with 7 pictures of her doing something wildly illegal (lines of blow, driving with an open beer in her hand, etc) and said, "I've taken a screen shot of this conversation and I tracked down these pictures. I'm not a malicious person but if you say one ****ty thing to me ever again, you better believe that your mother will get copies, along with our trainers (for horses) and the college you're supposed to attend next year. After the years of crap you've put me through, I'd do it in a heartbeat. Do yourself a favor and back the f*ck off."

Oooooh dayum! U went there huh?! Leave her ugly ass alone. Don't say another word. She's not worth the trouble!

[jannieC]

Dani, her response to you shows she's too dumb to think of anything else to say, so she resorted to something very simple (and probably something she *knew* would be painful for you to hear). You are one of the most intelligent, beautiful, and strong young women I've ever "met." Don't let one comment from someone like her bring you down. Her mother sounds like a piece of work too- apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

[daniellaaarisen]

Grace, Brandon, Mimi, Jannie.... I love you guys. Mimi, I don't know anyone who can be entirely serious and helpful and yet crack me up at the same time.

I should clarify (now that I've sorta slept.... damn working full time) that 99% of the time, I am fairly happy with myself. I know she's too stupid to think of anything better to say and most importantly, I know that her words were only coming from anger -- she wouldn't have been reaching out to me like that otherwise. It's just irritating given the state of my life right now-- working so hard to improve myself physically, seeing no change after incredible lifestyle changes and finding out about the hypothyroidism.

I know it's not important in the grand scheme of things, just frustrating... this entire situation. Whatever. I woke up this morning to all of these great comments and I'm moving on.

[fumidesigns]

Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

Grace, Brandon, Mimi, Jannie.... I love you guys. Mimi, I don't know anyone who can be entirely serious and helpful and yet crack me up at the same time.

I should clarify (now that I've sorta slept.... damn working full time) that 99% of the time, I am fairly happy with myself. I know she's too stupid to think of anything better to say and most importantly, I know that her words were only coming from anger -- she wouldn't have been reaching out to me like that otherwise. It's just irritating given the state of my life right now-- working so hard to improve myself physically, seeing no change after incredible lifestyle changes and finding out about the hypothyroidism.

I know it's not important in the grand scheme of things, just frustrating... this entire situation. Whatever. I woke up this morning to all of these great comments and I'm moving on.

*hugs* np booka and yes i was extremely serious. not a smile present while typing that............

if you said that you were always happy i'd look at you sideways. that doesn't exist. we all get down from time to time...........it's only natural. i am pleased to hear that you are good a majority of the time!

just focus on YOU. be healthy and happy and as beautiful as ever! she will get exactly what she deserves and you don't have to give it to her. let the powers that be deal with her and her foolishness! oh ugly ass hookah! *rollseyesextrahard*

come to JB so we can act a fool one mo'gen!!!!

[Enchanted_Stevi]

JTIS...

That I have 14 days left of school!!! I am SOOOO excited!! Once I graduate I am gonna try and get my license ASAP!!! Ashley's moms hairdresser said I could work in her salon once I'm out of school =D

I am SO sick of school and cant wait to get out on my own and work during the day and have my nights to myself!!!

After today I am SO sick of my job!!!! Can someone tell me how there can be 3 other ppl who do the same thing I do(but on diff days obvs) and NONE of them can work...1 has a Dr. appt(which is acceptable) one wasnt home when I called and the other had to study for finals...EXCUSE ME but my job consists of sitting on you BUTT doing nothing but watching tv or keeping yourself occupied...until the phone or doorbell ring...

The girl who had to "study" is the new girl and is a back up...how is someone suppose to be a back up if they dont BACK YOU UP?!?!? I've asked the new girl MULTIPLE times if she wanted to work for me and EVERY time she said she couldnt...except 1 time when my supervisor called her mom and asked her...She doesnt have any hours this month so obvs I thought it would be nice to offer her a couple...So I vented to the other office lady today because my supervisor(my aunt) was not in today. So the office lady is gonna talk to my aunt tmrw about it.

Like I said I cant wait to get out of there....

[Enchanted_Stevi]

Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

I hate people. I'm going to say this with the least amount of swearing possible.

A girl that I was really close with for 5 years just messaged me asking to “catch up” after we didn’t talk all year. I defriended her on Facebook quite some time ago. I haven’t spoken to her because she’s absolutely crazy… multiple drug addictions (coke being the most serious), 3 DUIs, numerous eating disorders… all before her 17th birthday. Worst of all, she would CONSTANTLY throw me under the bus to save her own ass, even if I didn't do anything. For instance-- I was DDing a friend home from San Francisco and she wanted to stop by this girl's house, so we did and said hello. This girl told her parents that I had drunkenly driven to their house and I get a text from her mom the next day saying, "if I ever hear that you're driving drunk around my daughter again, I'll call the police." Her mom is a whole different set of crazy ,but I digress...

So I kindly explained that I didn’t have any interest in talking to her but I genuinely hoped she was doing well. Her response?

“Sad to hear you’re still a judgmental fatass.”

a) Bitch, f*ck you.
b) I judge YOU after knowing you for years, after waking up at 4AM to save your ass from juvi, after watching you sabotage your own life time after time after time.
c) I’m extremely, extremely sensitive about the weight thing especially since I had an eating disorder quite some time ago… again, f*ck you.

Seriously I want to stab her right now. I've been having a really rough time with my self-image lately for a variety of reasons and this just made me want to revert back to my "old ways." It's hard enough to balance the line between healthy and unhealthy lifestyle changes when you've known the unhealthy side... I didn't need this too.

Jesus.

Dani, i have to agree with everyone else...**** HER! She obviously has her onw issues and making fun of you makes herself feel better. You dont need ppl like her in your life! I'm glad your doing so well with this and havent resorted back to your old ways <3 Stay strong!!! Your SO pretty and nice and idk why anyone could hate you!!!

[SuzeQuze]

Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

Grace, Brandon, Mimi, Jannie.... I love you guys. Mimi, I don't know anyone who can be entirely serious and helpful and yet crack me up at the same time.

I should clarify (now that I've sorta slept.... damn working full time) that 99% of the time, I am fairly happy with myself. I know she's too stupid to think of anything better to say and most importantly, I know that her words were only coming from anger -- she wouldn't have been reaching out to me like that otherwise. It's just irritating given the state of my life right now-- working so hard to improve myself physically, seeing no change after incredible lifestyle changes and finding out about the hypothyroidism.

I know it's not important in the grand scheme of things, just frustrating... this entire situation. Whatever. I woke up this morning to all of these great comments and I'm moving on.

Self-love and happiness are the best "revenge". Your weight is not your worth. These toxic people really know how to sting so there is no "shouldn't" feel some way when you feel that way. They know how to get us and they do get us when we leave an opening. The good thing is you talked about it and got support and information and continue making good choices for yourself. Please let this person go and don't look back!

[SuzeQuze]

Originally Posted by fumidesigns

...she will get exactly what she deserves and you don't have to give it to her. let the powers that be deal with her and her foolishness! oh ugly ass hookah! *rollseyesextrahard*...

Yes karma is real and she's got it coming!

[fringed n fab]

It's over 100 degrees and a sauna today in SW Florida, is anyone else roasting today?? This was at Fort Myers over the weekend. I do NOT like Ft. Myers Beach...

[skcin]

Went to a work picnic. The BBQ chicken breast was delicious - very juicy!

[mylittledemon]

Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

Grace, Brandon, Mimi, Jannie.... I love you guys. Mimi, I don't know anyone who can be entirely serious and helpful and yet crack me up at the same time.

I know it's not important in the grand scheme of things, just frustrating... this entire situation. Whatever. I woke up this morning to all of these great comments and I'm moving on.

Smile darlin, you're a beauty. Ignore the things you can't control, especially in others like your forked-tongued friend.

[louielouie2000]

I had forgotten how wonderful it is to lay in a dark room and listen to new music through headphones. It just makes for such an intensely atmospheric experience. This is how I absorbed each successive Fleetwood Mac album I acquired as a kid, and many nights I fell asleep listening to music through my headphones. I started doing this again recently, and I can't believe I ever stopped! What a wonderful way to unwind.

[fringed n fab]

Originally Posted by louielouie2000

I had forgotten how wonderful it is to lay in a dark room and listen to new music through headphones. It just makes for such an intensely atmospheric experience. This is how I absorbed each successive Fleetwood Mac album I acquired as a kid, and many nights I fell asleep listening to music through my headphones. I started doing this again recently, and I can't believe I ever stopped! What a wonderful way to unwind.

That sounds relaxing. Aside from just listening to the stereo playing, my relaxing is cool air conditioning and the remote control to the tv of late. I can't listen to music through headphones cause it makes my ears ring afterwards being so close and gives me the biggest headache. Must have sensitive eardrums or something : /

[skcin]

The trainer in my Tuesday class switched the routine to a previous version/edition last night. I'm very sore today. I'm thinking I'll barely be able to walk tomorrow.