TMI thread. Discussion of sensitive ADULT issues/triggers. Enter with awareness!

[ontheEdgeof17]

Originally Posted by louielouie2000

You and me both! Ed is such an enigma!

I've met Ed a few times.

[louielouie2000]

Originally Posted by ontheEdgeof17

I've met Ed a few times.

Ooh, is there any gossip to be had?!

[skcin]

Ed posted a pic of himself here way back when, if I recall.

Favorite body parts on myself? I've been told that I have a tiny waist, so that's cool. I like my abs (although they are not currently in A+ shape; they're more like a B+ right now, which I'm working on for summer.) I think I have a nice smile & have gotten lots of compliments on my teeth (which is a bit odd, IMO, but flattering.)

Used to love my perky B boobs, but having a kid deflated them. I never wanted big ones, though - I don't want people looking at me like I'm a sideshow act or having that be the thing they pay most attention to. I think the hottest boobs are a large B or small C.

On men?
Arms/shoulders/back - don't want them too huge, but I like to see some muscle.
Smile - the way the corners of my husband's eyes crinkle when he smiles still kills me after almost 17 years.
Eyes - Blue especially. See above.
Hands - the rougher & manlier the better. No manicured softies please.

On women?
Hourglass figure - not too big on top or bottom with a nice defined waist. For an example, I think Salma Hayek is one of the most perfect women in the world.
Lips - Nice & full. Salma, Anjelina Jolie. NOT Lisa Rinna territory!
Eyes - The sideways glace, esp. brown eyes on girls.



As for sex organs? Actual penises AND vaginas/labia are not sexy to me at all. They are just not attractive. Needless to say, I'm not a fan of strip clubs or porn mags.

[bluefox4000]

Number one to me is eyes. That's the thing that draws me always oh if you've got blonde hair. that's a plus.

On me. eh.....I don't know. I'm just nothing special in my estimation.

Mick

[HejiraNYC]

Originally Posted by louielouie2000

I was just making light of the fact I'm known to be a very sexual person.



You and me both! Ed is such an enigma!

Oh, trust... there's nothing to look at here. Short, ugly, old... and I'm not being modest here. I need exceptional lighting and angles to look halfway human.

And for the record, I have never posted a picture of myself on the Ledge.

[ontheEdgeof17]

Originally Posted by louielouie2000

Ooh, is there any gossip to be had?!

Of course not. Let's see: I've met him in Vegas and again at Stevie's signing at Barnes and Noble.

[HejiraNYC]

Originally Posted by ontheEdgeof17

Of course not. Let's see: I've met him in Vegas and again at Stevie's signing at Barnes and Noble.

Oh, and also at Strand's apartment a couple of years ago. We see each other more often than distant relatives.

[ontheEdgeof17]

Originally Posted by skcin

As for sex organs? Actual penises AND vaginas/labia are not sexy to me at all. They are just not attractive. Needless to say, I'm not a fan of strip clubs or porn mags.

Word.

I consider myself asexual. Although I have sex with men, I'd rather not have sex at all. eh. I could go my whole life without a sexual act. I do get horny like everyone else...but I dunno....I'm a nurse....it's ruined my sex drive.

[ontheEdgeof17]

Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

Oh, and also at Strand's apartment a couple of years ago. We see each other more often than distant relatives.

That's right...pre NOTS. Definitely have seen you more than my grandma. ha

[vivfox]

Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

And for the record, I have never posted a picture of myself on the Ledge.

Yes you have.

[markolas]

HejiraNYC's name is Ed? That's the first I'm hearing of this. Slightly off-topic (the Adderall has worn off, sorry), but I wish I could change my username. I'm terrible at picking them, so I came up with markolas and used it for everything for a long time. I hate it now, and I think this is the only place it's still in use.

So, we're talking about sex drives now? I think mine peaked between ages 18-20. The bf's is definitely higher than mine (and he's two years older). I'm good with 3 times a week (and that includes solo)...maybe 4, but just maybe.

I've only been with a handful of guys...I've never had the stamina for it (I was a virgin well into my 20s) and hooking up has always been more trouble than it's worth. That's one of the reasons being in a relationship is good for me - each knows what the other likes, and I don't have to be bothered with a bunch of other people.

I seriously don't understand people who say they've banged 100 guys, or some insane number like that. Assuming they're telling the truth...are they hooking up with guys on the way back from the grocery store once a week? Where do they find the time, energy, and interest for that much sex?

[markolas]

Originally Posted by ontheEdgeof17

I'm a nurse....it's ruined my sex drive.

You know, I can totally see that happening. You see body parts in all sorts of conditions, and it kinda makes you realize how much we're all pretty much just slabs of meat.

[HejiraNYC]

Originally Posted by vivfox

Yes you have.

Oh, I would remember something like that. I haven't.

[Richard B]

Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

Oh, I would remember something like that. I haven't.

Strangest thing is, I always thought you were a girl. Oooops.

[HejiraNYC]

Originally Posted by markolas

I seriously don't understand people who say they've banged 100 guys, or some insane number like that. Assuming they're telling the truth...are they hooking up with guys on the way back from the grocery store once a week? Where do they find the time, energy, and interest for that much sex?

I find it baffling how people can do something like that in between errands or at the spur of the moment. I mean, unless you're a total nasty pig, you kinda have to, uh, prepare for these things, no?