Attending concerts alone

Amlyn · #1 03-25-2011, 12:15 PM

I didn't know whether to put this is the SN forum or not but since I'm just looking for opinions on anyone's experience with any artist, here I am.

So I'm debating about going to the Stevie/Rod show tomorrow night at MSG by myself. I'll be honest, I've never gone to a concert alone so I just wondered what people like/dislike about it.

I have no problem getting to the venue/walking around NYC, that's not even part of my hesitation. It's more of just being there on your own and not having anyone to experience the show with while it's happening. I know I have everyone back here to talk to about it after the fact, which of course is wonderful.

Anyone care to share their past experiences or thoughts?

Thanks!
Amy

HomerMcvie · #2 03-25-2011, 12:17 PM

If you can eat alone in a restaurant, you'll be fine.

louielouie2000 · #3 03-25-2011, 12:26 PM

I've pretty much only ever gone to see Stevie and Fleetwood Mac alone (there are a few exceptions). I had just as good of a time, because I knew I wasn't keeping somebody there who didn't really care about the music. So that means I really got to focus on the songs, outfits, etc. Plus, when you're alone, the people around you tend to be very friendly and chatty. It's really not so bad... give it a shot!

HomerMcvie · #4 03-25-2011, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by louielouie2000

I've pretty much only ever gone to see Stevie and Fleetwood Mac alone (there are a few exceptions). I had just as good of a time, because I knew I wasn't keeping somebody there who didn't really care about the music. So that means I really got to focus on the songs, outfits, etc. Plus, when you're alone, the people around you tend to be very friendly and chatty. It's really not so bad... give it a shot!

Everyone knows about my many trips to Nashville, alone. I used to have a friend that I went with. Well, he started backing out, at the last minute. I finally said f*ck it, and went alone. And.I.have.a.better.time! Not only can I now eat anywhere I want(he would only eat at a steak place), but I've made so many new friends, as a result of being there alone. Louie's right...people are more friendly and chatty, especially if they're alone, too!

DavidMn · #5 03-25-2011, 12:33 PM

Most of the shows I've gone to are alone. I rather enjoy the freedom of doing these things without being obligated to anyone else's schedule.

HomerMcvie · #6 03-25-2011, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by DavidMn

Most of the shows I've gone to are alone. I rather enjoy the freedom of doing these things without being obligated to anyone else's schedule.

Yep. Everyone needs to learn how to be alone. It is freeing.
And I believe it's also akin to, "if you can't love yourself, you can't love anyone else".

skcin · #7 03-25-2011, 12:58 PM

I've been to 2 or 3 shows alone & I prefer it in some ways - you can really focus on the show & concentrate on the performance itself.

chiliD · #8 03-25-2011, 01:01 PM

Been to many shows alone. In saying that, most of the time, I meet somebody I know AT the show anyway. So, once inside the venue, there's someone to hang with...then we go our merry ways afterwards. If I should happen to NOT run into somebody I know, then I often get to know the people around me (despite my "perceived image" here, I'm not THAT much of a "grump" in person).

Silver Springs · #9 03-25-2011, 01:23 PM

If you're alone you don't have to worry about losing anybody when you're trying to sneek into the front "VIP" area

chiliD · #10 03-25-2011, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Silver Springs

If you're alone you don't have to worry about losing anybody when you're trying to sneek into the front "VIP" area

True, but you don't immediately have anybody to set your bail if you get busted, either. That would be the downside of going alone.

Silver Springs · #11 03-25-2011, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by chiliD

True, but you don't immediately have anybody to set your bail if you get busted, either. That would be the downside of going alone.

There is that technicality, lol. But I'm blessed with a small frame, so I can easily hide if need be. I got to the front of an R.E.M. concert by crawling between people's legs XD

Amlyn · #12 03-25-2011, 01:36 PM

You guys are too funny!! I'm getting inspired to go! Just need to find a ticket now. Hehe.

Keep the info coming. You're giving me some good ideas! Who knows what the night might bring!

skcin · #13 03-25-2011, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Amlyn

You guys are too funny!! I'm getting inspired to go! Just need to find a ticket now. Hehe.

Keep the info coming. You're giving me some good ideas! Who knows what the night might bring!

You bring up another excellent point - it's often easier to get a good seat if you're only looking for 1. I've gotten front row 3 times by checking ticketmaster/tickets.com the day or two before the show (and I needed 2 tickets!) Go for it!

RockAlot · #14 03-25-2011, 02:09 PM

I too have been to several show's alone. One of the perks is you can spend more money on yourself!! If your taking a date or spouse the tickets can go from $100.00 to $200.00 and its sometime easier to find 1 seat then 2 close to stage, I say "go for it"!!

Amlyn · #15 03-25-2011, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by skcin

You bring up another excellent point - it's often easier to get a good seat if you're only looking for 1. I've gotten front row 3 times by checking ticketmaster/tickets.com the day or two before the show (and I needed 2 tickets!) Go for it!

Haven't been able to pull up anything on the floor yet. Just the first ring around the floor. Which I'm not opposed to at all, especially since for this show, there's supposedly no edge walk.

I've been checking stubhub and craigslist too. Thinking people are getting desperate to unload.