TMI thread. Discussion of sensitive ADULT issues/triggers. Enter with awareness! - Page 60

vivfox · #**886** 03-14-2011, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by fringed n fab

Now this I find hard to believe. A woman could tie me down with 10 chains and still no matter what this broad does to me, I'm not going to get excited for her.

But send something like this in the room and lets talk.

You ain't kidding buddy!

jannieC · #**887** 03-14-2011, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by jannieC

Childhood sexual assault survivors quite often report a physiological response that is out of their control. In fact, many survivors report feelings of physical pleasure and then carry the guilt and shame over that for the rest of their lives.

ETA: this doesn't mean I believe Homie was "raped" (nor is it my job to make that determination!), but wanted to add this observation based on some of the responses.

fringed n fab · #**888** 03-14-2011, 06:16 PM

I wasn't referring to child assault, I was referring to grown women trying to take advantage over grown men. I'm thinking if the prettiest sexiest woman has a grown man tied up against his will and he wants free, all of his attention and might and focus are going into getting himself free of the situation and he's going to be angrily pissed until he's free and the last thing he's going to be thinking about is sex or being excited. No matter what she's doing to him. The same if he weren't forced or tied up and just being taken advantage of anyplace. A car. A bedroom or any place else. A man's not getting excited unless he's into it. Which is why it's hard for most to understand female-male rape. I'm not talking about any persons situation on here, I'm just talking about some peoples views on it. I'm sure it's possible for women to violate men other ways under certain circumstances yes, as I've said before.

Edit: After thinking about this subject more, I could understand where a female might be able to violate a male or take advantage of him against his will in situations where he was unable to defend himself e.g. held against his will or bound etc. and she took advantage of him say, orally or other means and him feel raped or violated... the more thought I put into it, the more I realized he could indeed feel raped or taken advantage of by a woman by other means than just intercourse. I think we usually view male rape as only occurring by another male and I could see where that's not always so at times.

HomerMcvie · #**889** 03-14-2011, 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by vivfox

Warm water and a washcloth will fix this.

Maybe warm something, but it sure ain't water and a washcloth!

HomerMcvie · #**890** 03-14-2011, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by jannieC

ETA: this doesn't mean I believe Homie was "raped" (nor is it my job to make that determination!), but wanted to add this observation based on some of the responses.

How about "coerced"?

daniellaaarisen · #**891** 03-14-2011, 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by skcin

I've heard that kids these days (not you necessarily) go for oral first, as a way to avoid pregnancy (true) and STI's (not true) and also to "preserve" their virginity (bull****, IMO.) In my day (what am I, 90 years old?) sex was almost always first, because oral was scarier - everyone thought oral was gross when we were younger.

I definitely think that's true. I think that people my age want some sort of sexual release but have been told that sex is "sacred" their entire lives.... so to get around that, they go for oral.

daniellaaarisen · #**892** 03-14-2011, 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by jannieC

Childhood sexual assault survivors quite often report a physiological response that is out of their control. In fact, many survivors report feelings of physical pleasure and then carry the guilt and shame over that for the rest of their lives.

So. Damn. True.

Dodfather · #**893** 03-15-2011, 03:19 AM

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Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

Maybe warm something, but it sure ain't water and a washcloth!

With this is mind... how was your trip to Nashville?! Much "warmth" there??

HomerMcvie · #**894** 03-15-2011, 03:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Dodfather

With this is mind... how was your trip to Nashville?! Much "warmth" there??

Stop being me!!!! I only checked here, 2 minutes ago. I found a warm spot, on Friday (a former warm spot), and was offered a star position on the team.....however(for whatever "dating" reasons), my heart just wasn't in it. I actually did make an offer tonight, on the same spot, and was given a "maybe next time". My bad, with no regrets.

I'm rather perplexed, over frustrating issues at home...too much to really be into anything, right now.....

Love.blows.goats. Yet, that's my only cure.
(smashes head into brick wall).

STFU, you.

Dodfather · #**895** 03-15-2011, 08:26 AM

I was gonna say, from earlier posts it sounds like you're in a good place right now, even if it's frustrating!

Blowing goats is your only cure? I'd strongly advise something else!

David · #**896** 03-15-2011, 10:00 AM

I had to prevent my 76-year-old dad from reading this thread.

HomerMcvie · #**897** 03-15-2011, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Dodfather

I was gonna say, from earlier posts it sounds like you're in a good place right now, even if it's frustrating!

Blowing goats is your only cure? I'd strongly advise something else!

I am in a pretty good place, and you're right, just extremely frustrated.

Okay, I'm not one to move slowly, ever. I walk fast. I drive fast. I live life fast.

The "relationship" vehicle I'm riding in, is moving about 25 mph, and I live in a 70 mph zone!!!!!! I wanna go 80!!!!!

I swallowed some goat on Sunday. Curried goat! It was overpriced. Hooker goat!

Dodfather · #**898** 03-16-2011, 02:58 AM

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Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

I walk fast. I drive fast. I live life fast.

The "relationship" vehicle I'm riding in, is moving about 25 mph, and I live in a 70 mph zone!!!!!! I wanna go 80!!!!!

I swallowed some goat on Sunday. Curried goat! It was overpriced. Hooker goat!

Homer - this makes you sound like the sex version of Ricky Bobby in Talladega Nights! Haha.

As for hooker animals... as the song says: "The monkeys stand for honesty, giraffes are insincere".

HomerMcvie · #**899** 03-16-2011, 03:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Dodfather

Homer - this makes you sound like the sex version of Ricky Bobby in Talladega Nights! Haha.

As for hooker animals... as the song says: "The monkeys stand for honesty, giraffes are insincere".

I used to love Talledega Nights......

Why didn't you add my ass on FB?????

CreepingDeath · #**900** 03-16-2011, 04:31 AM

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Originally Posted by David

I had to prevent my 76-year-old dad from reading this thread.

I had to prevent my 26-year-old self from reading this thread.