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I'm glad someone does! Whenever I play my ledge drinking games, I make a spot for "Marissa throws madonna/whore out in the conversation again and everyone rolls their eyes." Really, though, I feel like I learned so much about what I think it means to be a feminine, sexy, and empowered woman from Stevie, and it's absolutely nothing like the "universal woman" that she's now saying Taylor writes about.
A little edit with a graphic for funsies: ![]() ^It's so un-Rhiannon of you, Taylor.
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I was glad that Prince and Elton John made the list. I didn't realize they were still considered influential. Ricky Gervais made it too. I'm in love with him (well, I'm pretty smitten with Karl and Steve too). Michele |
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But note: That is Taylor as both the Madonna and the Whore!
That is saying SOMETHING. I'm not saying it's saying something profound, but is it JUST supporting the cultural myth of Madonna/Whore options/archetypes for women? I think I read it as aligning itself with the sentimentality that cultural myth allows--a sentimentality to which Stevie NEVER stoops, but that doesn't mean she doesn't understand its appeal, its comforting appeal. After all, it's dangerous to be taken by the wind.
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It is indeed because it's painting the Whore as even more of a shallow, one dimensional character. This isn't Taylor saying "the madonna and the whore are inside of all of us a little bit." It's saying, there's so little to this girl, we're not even bothering to get another actress. Do you know how much it takes to become a whore? Just a red, skimpy dress and a loss of virginal, blonde curls. Hang on to your hymens, ladies, one wrong step, and you're losing your boyfriend, too!
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I like the comfort that comes from innocence and flowers and pretty dresses and pretty hair, I do...in little girls. I guess I just wish we lived in a world where it was okay for little girls to become women and it was just as sentimental and feel-good when they did ![]()
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) but that one of them is ugly inside.Here's where we disagree. I don't remember (and I COULD BE WRONG) that there is any suggestion she and the boy are sexually ACTIVE; although the red dress tends to signify SOMETHING about sexuality (Jezebel, Wharton, Jessica Rabbit), perhaps it is the sexual appeal that disguised the fact that she's not a nice person (which seems to be the point of the video's dual casting--not deep, just . . . another Mean Girls redeux).
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So before I reply, I just want to say how happy I am that someone's actually talking about this with me
This is awesome. Anyway. Moving to the post.Quote:
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She doesn't get your humor like I do. Okay, this could be a personality thing. They're not right for each other. She'll never know your story like I do. Why? We're not really sure, but it could be personality, too! Okay, I'm on board! Tell me more, Taylor. She wears short skirts, I wear t-shirts. Woah. Hey now. Let's look at the pattern. We've seen so far that Taylor is showing us a negative about that girl then a postive about herself. So short skirts? A negative! Might this explain why the whore'll never know his story? Let's listen on. She's cheer captain and I'm on the bleachers. Negative and a postive: she puts herself out to be ogled, I'm just a nice little girl who knows her place and cheers for her team. I'm half way there, take it home. Final comparison: What are you doing with a girl like that? She wears high heels, I wear sneakers. Yup, I get it. She's got you because of that body of hers, whereas me, the little girl next door who would never show off like that, well, you should be with me because you'd like my mind. If the girl isn't sleeping with him, she's certainly tempting him with sex. It's all we know about her, and apparently all she has going for her. Taylor, well, she's just not that sort of girl. You belong with her! Let's compare this to a few Stevie Nicks lyrics, just to bring this home... Rhiannon rings like a bell through the night, and would you love to love her? The ringing is powerful. It's active. This is a woman who can't be ignored. She rules her life like a bird in flight, and who will be her lover? She RULES her life. She doesn't stand around waiting at some man's backdoor, and it's a competition to take her to bed, rather than a competition between two women over who is least likely to go to bed.
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^^^^Oh, you listened to the lyrics of the song! My bad.
I totally agree with how you broke down the difference between Stevie's writing and Taylor's. Taylor wouldn't know a metaphor, a symbol, simile, or a sign if it rang like a bell through the night. For a great film dealing with many of the subjects that seem to interest you (and even have two parts played by the same actress), I HIGHLY recommend my second favorite film of the 2000s: Femme Fatale. It might inspire you.
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I understand people like Stevie serve as mentors to the up-and-comers, but it still seems a bit backward for them to be writing the praise articles. Taylor and Gaga should be the ones writing about Stevie Nicks and Cyndi Lauper's influence, not the other way around.
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Actually, the Holiday Road video had a similar premise. A part of him left the regimentalized, the prison of what is expected of you, behind. I think some of the recent sex scandals have fit the Madonna/Whore theme. The men want to marry and raise children with one type of woman, but want to have affairs with another. The red dress discussion reminds me of one of the best scenes in Gone With the Wind. Rhett made Scarlett wear red to expose her for what he thought she was. And the moment when Melanie walked across the room, ignoring the gasping crowd to embrace Scarlett was even more dramatic than when Scarlett entered the room in the first place. In essence, Melanie was saying, "I am not going to let you label her. I won't play by your social rules of good and bad. I refuse to let you make my pain your cudgel against a woman who has both harmed and helped me. None of us can be defined by our bad acts alone, much less by the color we wear." Michele |
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ok, well Lyrically, i can relate INCREDIBLY to Taylor. Her style is straightforward and blunt. With Stevie, as much as she is, IMO, one of the best songwriters ever, i can't really relate. I've never had a boyfriend, much less kissed a guy, and don't know what it feels like to be in love. With Taylor, her lyrics are about wishing to be with a guy and the ups and downs of adolescence. That's my life right now. I think it's just her voice and her musicality that i don't really care for.
a couple excerpts: Cory finds another way to be The highlight of my day I'm taking pictures in my mind So I can save them for a rainy day It's hard to make conversation When he's taking my breath away I should say, hey by the way i listened to this song nonstop on my 15th birthday: 'cause when you're fifteen and somebody tells you they love you You're gonna believe them And when you're fifteen Feeling like there nothing to figure out Well count to ten, take it in This is life before you know who you're gonna be Fifteen I took a chance, I took a shot And you might think i'm bulletproof, but i'm not You took a swing, I took it hard And down here from the ground I see who you are You could write a book on how to ruin someone's perfect day Well I get so confused and frustrated Forget what i'm trying to say, oh
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So, I guess I can see their point in having a vet discuss why they think the newbie is deserving -- even if she may not be. It kind of gives the selection (undeserved) credibility. You don't want a lesser person to be the one speaking. Michele |
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