Why do women(& some men) like thugs so much?

[golddustdrummer]

Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

I feel like I will either be the quintessential example of your theory, Jannie, or the total exception. I have a pseudo positive relationship with my dad but really, we have scraped through a LOT of problems that were never really resolved but instead forgotten. I honestly don't think that I am attracted to people who share any qualities with him at all... instead, I might go for those who fall on the TOTAL opposite end of the spectrum-- often to a fault.

This is interesting and scary at the same time.

that sentence sums up my situation perfectly.
except I can't forget....even though everyone else does.
some things will always be in the back of my mind.

actually, your whole post was basically a "ditto" moment for me.