More Problems At Home- Advice Please

[dcl1964]

I was having a similar problem with my father after the death of my mother. Nothing I did was right. He would yell at me for stuff my brother or my nephew did that had nothing to do with me. I knew my Dad loved me and really wasn't "yelling" at me, he was "yelling" at the situation. Your mother is probably scared about what the future will hold if she and your Dad break up. Next time this happens, take a deep breath and then give your Mother a hug and tell her everything will turn out ok. The look on my Dad's face when I did it was priceless. Sadly my Dad's gone as well now. Counselling is a good idea. Surrounding yourself with good friends is another good idea. Their problems are exactly that: THEIR PROBLEMS. They're hurting right now and they're not in a good place. Just keep telling them you love them and hopefully things will improve.