What are ways to show a girl you like them and want to be with them?

jr2280 · #1 05-29-2009, 06:26 PM

I was going out with a girl for maybe a month and she said she wanted to be just friends for now, and said I need to show her I want to be with her. so what are ways to impress her and and be a gentleman.

jannieC · #2 05-29-2009, 06:34 PM

How old are you?

jr2280 · #3 05-29-2009, 06:36 PM

Im 22 and so is she

nailatixela · #4 05-29-2009, 06:42 PM

Hey fellow PA pal...I'm sure the girls here would be much more help with your situation.

I just had to say I was almost positive that this thread was started by Ethan before I clicked on it.

LukeA · #5 05-29-2009, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by nailatixela

I just had to say I was almost positive that this thread was started by Ethan before I clicked on it.

I knew it wasn't Ethan when I saw the subject wasn't all in caps.

Musicman408 · #6 05-29-2009, 08:46 PM

When I first saw this I was like:

"Who the hell brought back one of my old threads????"

Glad to see I'm not the only one to ever ask for this kind of thing!

chriskisn · #7 05-29-2009, 09:30 PM

Well trying to work out what women want is very hard. I've been married 8 yrs, together with my wife for 10 in total, and I still don't know...

I guess it is just about making her feel special, paying her attention, spending time with her not your friends, not playing computer games instead of spending time with her when she's over, giving her a random hug, really listening to what she is saying, etc.

Then again, some women just like to play games with men. Sometimes nothing you do will ever make it work because she doesn't see in you what you see in her, or perhaps she just sees you as fun and not serious. Or she's a complete b*tch..

JWS · #8 05-29-2009, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by nailatixela

Hey fellow PA pal...I'm sure the girls here would be much more help with your situation.

I just had to say I was almost positive that this thread was started by Ethan before I clicked on it.

Ain't that the truth. ethan starts a monthly girl thread

jannieC · #9 05-29-2009, 10:03 PM

Well I think it's somewhat telling that she says this one month into the relationship? What have you been doing so far? Most people are pretty into it that early on and don't have difficulty showing it unless one is painfully shy.

carrie721 · #10 05-30-2009, 10:22 PM

do not go out of your way to impress her.

if she says she just wants to be friends. SHE MEANS IT.

focus your efforts elsewhere.

DigYourGrave · #11 05-31-2009, 07:54 AM

Dont bring her flowers. Cheesey.

Do make her playlists. Not cheesey.

chriskisn · #12 05-31-2009, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by DigYourGrave

Dont bring her flowers. Cheesey.

Really? My wife always complains that I don't buy her flowers anywhere near often enough...

DigYourGrave · #13 05-31-2009, 09:23 AM

Well, wife, no. Bring her flowers.

Girl you are trying to impress-Cheese!

chriskisn · #14 05-31-2009, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by DigYourGrave

Well, wife, no. Bring her flowers.

Girl you are trying to impress-Cheese!

Actually I sent my wife a dozen red roses not long after we started going out. It must have worked because she married me. She still has a photo of them 10 years later. Probably the only time I've been able to afford a dozen red roses...

DigYourGrave · #15 06-01-2009, 08:23 AM

Ah but, think of them as an investment.
A wonderful turnover there; A wife you're madly in love with!