NY governor scandal

[GODDESS6]

Originally Posted by skcin

What a douche.

http://www.cnn.com/2008/POLITICS/03/...zer/index.html

i feel mortified for his poor wife, she looked miserable at his press conference~ i would hang him by his balls if i were her~

[carrie721]

Originally Posted by strandinthewind

^^^

But, it is hysterical

on one level. but it's also harmful.

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by carrie721

on one level. but it's also harmful.

I disagree that women do not band together to attack a cheating male. I get that it is not all women out there. But, around here, it is the truth based on what I have seen.

[carrie721]

Originally Posted by strandinthewind

I disagree that women to not band together to attack a cheating male. I get that it is not all women out there. But, around here, it is the truth based on what I have seen.

maybe we're talking about two different things. that does happen but i don't think there is some universal sisterhood that binds all women together in common purpose and mutual goodwill. you may not think that exists - but many, many people do.

[SuzeQuze]

Women are social beings and have empathy for a woman who's been hurt. It's a case of if someone did that to me how would I feel? And then we get mad and go after the bastard. So what? He sucks and he deserves it.

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by carrie721

maybe we're talking about two different things. that does happen but i don't think there is some universal sisterhood that binds all women together in common purpose and mutual goodwill. you may not think that exists - but many, many people do.

A cheating man comes close to establishing that bond, no matter how superficial, fake, or fleeting.

[carrie721]

Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

Women are social beings and have empathy for a woman who's been hurt. It's a case of if someone did that to me how would I feel? And then we get mad and go after the bastard. So what? He sucks and he deserves it.

the problem with that is we only know one side of the story. mrs. spitzer may have done any number of things to participate in the disintegration of her marriage.

[carrie721]

Originally Posted by strandinthewind

A cheating man comes close to establishing that bond, no matter how superficial, fake, or fleeting.

well, with those qualifiers i can't disagree

[gldstwmn]

Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

In the governor's case he may have had some fetish he couldn't ask his wife to do. I thought I heard he asked for something that might seem too dangerous or something.

That's what I thought too. The indictment mentions that Client 9 wanted to do something that wasn't "safe". I just hope he hasn't exposed his wife to anything.

[skcin]

All I know is that MY thread was posted first. What what?

[carrie721]

Originally Posted by skcin

All I know is that MY thread was posted first. What what?

raise da roof, big p.

[bretonbanquet]

Originally Posted by strandinthewind

Hey now - draw it mild

Come on - if she had hauled up there looked like a model - you would not have thought, even if just a little bit, that if you had that hot a$$ at home, you would have never strayed.

I'll even go one further, most men stray because the wife lets herself go and some young, hot thing catches his eye. It sucks, but it is the way of the world. Men are pigs, what can I say

Is that really what you think? Some guys cheat and some don't. The ones that do, just do. If his wife is past her best, it's just a handy excuse. Otherwise all men would do it when their wives get older and lose their looks, and no hot woman would ever get cheated. It's got nothing at all to do with the woman being cheated on, or any supposed thing she might have done or not done. It's all about having something inside a guy that says it's okay to cheat. If that thing is in him, he'll cheat at some point if he gets the chance. If it's not in him, he just won't do it, however many chances he gets. It might be the same for women who cheat, but I don't know enough about that

[skcin]

Here's the wife, Silda, less than 2 months ago. Yeah, what a hag, huh? It's a damn shame she let herself go like that when it's obvious that her husband has done his best to look good for her.

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by bretonbanquet

Is that really what you think? Some guys cheat and some don't. The ones that do, just do. If his wife is past her best, it's just a handy excuse. Otherwise all men would do it when their wives get older and lose their looks, and no hot woman would ever get cheated. It's got nothing at all to do with the woman being cheated on, or any supposed thing she might have done or not done. It's all about having something inside a guy that says it's okay to cheat. If that thing is in him, he'll cheat at some point if he gets the chance. If it's not in him, he just won't do it, however many chances he gets. It might be the same for women who cheat, but I don't know enough about that

No - I do not think all men cheat. I do not think I said that I do think that just about every guy I know talks about running a$$ when given the chance and if you get them in a strip joint, they are in heaven.

But, I think the ones that do are looking for something no longer at home. I think that is awful, but I recorgnize it happens alot in this world.

On the other side, I often wonder why women cheat. I submit it usually is not that the husband has let himself go. I think that usually it is because the husband is abusive, uncaring, etc.

[carrie721]

Originally Posted by strandinthewind

You totally, as expected, miss his point

LONG LIVE THE SISTERHOOD OF THE VAG.

oh man, i don't know whether i'm glad or disappointed i missed this the first time around.

screw you, sugarbaker