Important Senior Prom/Relationship Question-Advice Being Seeked :)

[Musicman408]

Ok, so I have a situation here and was wondering if anyone had any suggestions on how to go about it.

Yes senior prom is months away, but one should still kind of think about it. My sister especially, and my family would like me to go with a date, as opposed to just a group of guy friends.

Now I am sure you remember that one girl that I care about recently, the one that I was thinking about singing in my band, well the two of us are friends to a degree and I do still care about her. I, if I decided to eventually ask her, would get a group of friends together, including her, and do something outside of school just to solidify our ralationship as friends, because sometimes I wonder.

Here is the problem. Now, I would only ask her to prom (when the time comes) as friends but the problem is this...... She has a boyfriend who is actually a senior in college. He goes to school in another city so he is not at home very much (it's still in state though). They have been dating since August/September maybe, and the whole situation is just like, WTF??? Know why I mean? She is a junior in high school, he a senior in college, so you can just imagine all the legality issues.

So it's like, would it be alright to ask her as a friend, even with her Boyfriend in all? Would it be appropriate, why and why not? I'm kind of cought in between a rock and a hard place on this one and was just wondering what you all thought!!!

Much Love,
Ethan