D.i.v.o.r.c.e.....

[michelle2677]

Originally Posted by sara1998

I'm so sorry, Pip. I went through death, not divorce, and I would rather it be that way. I couldn't imagine what you're going through. Hang in there and stay strong for your babies... they need you now more than ever and they will realize which parent was always there for them.

yes. this is VERY important. Even if later on, he's off buying them gifts, and taking them places-getting to do all the "fun" stuff with them just to make up for not being there, while you're at home taking them to the dentist and making them do their homework-please remember when they grow up they'll know. That happened to me when i was a kid and I know it killed my mother that my dad hung the moon, but now that i'm older, I know exactly what was up and my mother and I have the best relationship. My dad? not so much.