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Old 04-25-2007, 05:41 PM
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If stopping any abuse to Ireland is your goal, then did the tape have to be made public? Surely, KB could have given this to the judge and the judge would have made the same ruling he did, which was to prohibit contact until May. So, I conclude the releasing of the tape to the public was a bitchy move on KB's part and she did it despite any potential damage to her daughter.
again: for all we know, Ireland agreed to it Perhaps SHE is sick of her dad's abuse too.

besides: the immediate effect is that Alec now will watch his step and refrain from further verbal spewage. I say GOOD.
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Old 04-25-2007, 05:42 PM
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again: for all we know, Ireland agreed to it Perhaps SHE is sick of her dad's abuse too.
But, if protecting her is goal, then why release it to the public? And, since when does an 11 year old have any say? Kim is the adult. Also, it is questionable whether the releasing of the VM was in violation of the court order.
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Old 04-25-2007, 05:44 PM
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But, if protecting her is goal, then why release it to the public? And, since when does an 11 year old have any say? Kim is the adult. Also, it is questionable whether the releasing of the VM was in violation of the court order.
an 11 year old could be called to testify

and, again: she will be protected on two levels now, court action and public opinion. win-win.
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Old 04-25-2007, 05:46 PM
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an 11 year old could be called to testify

and, again: she will be protected on two levels now, court action and public opinion. win-win.
No, the releasing of the tape was a bitchy thing to do.

Also, if Ireland did not want to talk to her father, then she should have told her mnother that she was not honoring the est. times.
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Old 04-25-2007, 05:46 PM
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btw, not to belittle your "training," but as a molested child, and the mother of a molested child, I find it very VERY difficult to agree with any sentiment that would result in the abuse continuing. You can cloak an awful lot of crapola in the name of "confidentiality".
oh boohoo. are you kidding me? i'm sick of people using their "experiences" to avoid viewing a situation rationally. even if ireland agreed to let the tape be released (a tenuous idea at best), who says that's in her best interest? when i was 11 i would've agreed and did agree with a lot that wasn't in my best interest.
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Old 04-25-2007, 05:48 PM
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FYI - Alec will be Guest on The View this coming Friday.... Should be interesting.
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Old 04-25-2007, 05:50 PM
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oh boohoo. are you kidding me? i'm sick of people using their "experiences" to avoid viewing a situation rationally. even if ireland agreed to let the tape be released (a tenuous idea at best), who says that's in her best interest? when i was 11 i would've agreed and did agree with a lot that wasn't in my best interest.
so take two aspirin and call your vet in the morning.

who are you to determine "rational?" so you dont agree, BFD. It isnt just Ireland making a decision here, it was two adults, one of which is her MOTHER who gave BIRTH to her, and who I believe is better able to look out for her welfare than any of you armchair referees. Apparently a Judge agrees. so much for your definition of "rational" Also, I find it highly IRONIC that you would belittle someone who brought PERSONAL experience into a convo, considering all the PERSONAL stuff you shared here (and expected comfort for) can you spell "hypocrite" boys and girls???

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Old 04-25-2007, 05:52 PM
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No, the releasing of the tape was a bitchy thing to do.

Also, if Ireland did not want to talk to her father, then she should have told her mnother that she was not honoring the est. times.
how do you know she didnt? I suggested as much several pages back...
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Old 04-25-2007, 05:58 PM
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so take two aspirin and call your vet in the morning.

who are you to determine "rational?" so you dont agree, BFD. It isnt just Ireland making a decision here, it was two adults, one of which is her MOTHER who gave BIRTH to her, and who I believe is better able to look out for her welfare than any of you armchair referees. Apparently a Judge agrees. so much for your definition of "rational" Also, I find it highly IRONIC that you would belittle someone who brought PERSONAL experience into a convo, considering all the PERSONAL stuff you shared here (and expected comfort for) can you spell "hypocrite" boys and girls???
i'm not belittling you for bringing it up. but i think you're using it to justify a warped opinion.

i've never expected comfort from anyone here, but i have been grateful when i've received it.
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Old 04-25-2007, 06:00 PM
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i'm not belittling you for bringing it up. but i think you're using it to justify a warped opinion.

i've never expected comfort from anyone here, but i have been grateful when i've received it.
really? so this

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oh boohoo. are you kidding me? i'm sick of people using their "experiences" to avoid viewing a situation rationally.
wasnt belittling?

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as for warped opinion, please come back after you've been sexually abused or you've seen your child sexually abused and the court system and law enforcement turns a blind eye and you become a child activist and THEN tell me what's warped. PUH LEEZ.
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Old 04-25-2007, 06:03 PM
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really?
label it what you want, i didn't belittle you for bringing it up. i don't give a **** what anybody wants to share here about their personal lives. if i were going to belittle you for bringing it up, i would've done so 3 pages ago when you first mentioned it.
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Old 04-25-2007, 06:04 PM
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as for warped opinion, please come back after you've been sexually abused or you've seen your child sexually abused and the court system and law enforcement turns a blind eye and you become a child activist and THEN tell me what's warped. PUH LEEZ.
you don't know what i've been through or what family court hell i've experienced. but thanks for trying!
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Old 04-25-2007, 06:07 PM
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label it what you want, i didn't belittle you for bringing it up. i don't give a **** what anybody wants to share here about their personal lives. if i were going to belittle you for bringing it up, i would've done so 3 pages ago when you first mentioned it.
so, you're 3 pages behind the times...but I can certainly identify belittling (especially since I seem to be a favorite target of yours) when I see it. Im so glad that you are such an EXPERT on what passes for rationality, or "warped" or oh, just ANYTHING you see fit to ponficate on.
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Old 04-25-2007, 06:08 PM
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you don't know what i've been through or what family court hell i've experienced. but thanks for trying!
aha. Dont thank me. Thank your parents.
as for MY child, (and other kids in CA) Im doing my best to make a difference.

Perhaps you should put your $$$$ where your mouth is.
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Old 04-25-2007, 06:11 PM
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Perhaps you should put your $$$$ where your mouth is.
meaning what? you don't know what i do with my time, aside from, you know, targeting you on the internet.
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