What do you notice FIRST in a man?

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by markolas

No. Have I mentioned him on here? Him, I wouldn't piss on if he was on fire. Sexy feet (and nipples too, if I may say so) is the one with the cats from hell.

Ahhhhh - just checking

[markolas]

Originally Posted by strandinthewind

Ahhhhh - just checking

And you know what's maddening? There were a couple of times when I totally could've had him, but I didn't see that at the time. Why am I so dense about these things??

[SortaSavageLike]

The fact that he doesn't have boobs.

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by markolas

And you know what's maddening? There were a couple of times when I totally could've had him, but I didn't see that at the time. Why am I so dense about these things??

I am the same way most times - such is life.

[sasja]

Eyes all the way.
The eyes have it, I don't even notice anything else until way later.

[xdreamsunwindx]

I'm an eyes/face/smile kinda girl. I can't judge the ass until I can grab it, and I'm not one to do that upon the first meeting

[JazmenFlowers]

I'm torn between eyes and smile, but chose smile.

[markolas]

Originally Posted by strandinthewind

I am the same way most times - such is life.

Well, I'm determined not to keep making the same mistake. I actually seemed to overcome that handicap last year with a friend of mine (who has since moved away ), and we wound up fukcing in a hot tub. See the kind of thing I've been missing out on?

[carrie721]

Originally Posted by xdreamsunwindx

I'm an eyes/face/smile kinda girl. I can't judge the ass until I can grab it, and I'm not one to do that upon the first meeting

you're one fierce bitch, kate.

[ryan8472]

I always notice the face & eyes first. When a guy has really nice eyes, I'm done. He can have me.

[SuzeQuze]

Originally Posted by strandinthewind

I am the same way most times - such is life.

You are??? So your ego is a cover! You're all that and a bag of chips, hon.

[SuzeQuze]

Okay, when I really think about it the first thing I notice is his face. But really, I don't notice the parts until a few minutes or so have passed. I just take in the whole man at first, the Gestalt of him.

[ryan8472]

Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

Okay, when I really think about it the first thing I notice is his face. But really, I don't notice the parts until a few minutes or so have passed. I just take in the whole man at first, the Gestalt of him.

I do the same too. To steal a quote from American Psycho, I like to dissect boys. Did you know I'm utterly insane?

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

You are??? So your ego is a cover! You're all that and a bag of chips, hon.

I generally cannot tell when someone likes me that way, though I readily admit most should be stunned by my savoir faire, personage, and looks

[skcin]

Originally Posted by xxxmx

i notice if he is/isn't jack bauer (kiefer on 24).

if he is, all systems go! sadly, well...

i think i'm dormant right now. couldn't care less about guys. you have to find one, get over all of those negative first impressions, figure out if he's a killer, accept things about him just for the sake of maybe bedding him, then things just go downhill from there... or maybe i'm just bitchy

Hey whore! How ya been?


I went with smile, but eyes are a close second. But if someone's walking around without a shirt on & they have nice muscle definition, it might be arms or abs.