Orientation Poll

[Rickypt]

Originally Posted by BlackWidow

It's not hard...when you decide to create your life..it will happen.
You must however..be your own role model.

OMG, we have our own Dear Gay Abby here. Or maybe a gay fortune cookie.....wink.

[goldustsongbird]

Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

YOu know, I just thought of something else - some of the stuff I touched on and some of the stuff said in this thread is what makes me HATE HATE HATE the term bisexual. Which I do.

I hate labels, which in turn sounds sort of flaky...but you say bisexual people think you're either confused, chicken ****, a slut/whore or gay. It gets annoying...I'm none of those things...

Remember what I once said about the popular bisexuals? The girls who get drunk at parties and think because they've kissed their best friend that they must be ~zomg bi~? That annoys me, and is what turns me off. I don't like the term bisexual either, but I guess it's the only thing I fit under if I've gotta be categorized. I'm attracted to men and women... Sometimes women more.

[Wild_Heart03]

honey, I'm so gay I make Cher say "tone it down."

only not... most people don't even know until I tell them.

[HejiraNYC]

[xdreamsunwindx]

I consider myself straight. I just like guys more. Don't get me wrong, I find certain women very hot, but I consider it more of a physical attraction than an emotional attraction. Like, sure, I'd kiss another girl, but I don't think I could persue a relationship. So, I don't consider myself bi.

I just connect more with guys, physically and emotionally, which is what is the most important to me. I just get along better with them, in general. Girls are a pain in the ass, at least most of the ones I know. And boys are a lot of fun to kiss

Fashion bisexuals piss me off, too. I hate that. I know so many girls who made out with other girls and they're like "omg i have teh bi~~" and think they're the ****. I'm not going to say what you are or what you are not, but kissing != your sexuality. Meh, whatever floats your pelvis.

[mikeschmike]

Originally Posted by xdreamsunwindx

And boys are a lot of fun to kiss

Ain't that the truth.

Big 'mo here.

[Wild_Heart03]

Originally Posted by xdreamsunwindx

And boys are a lot of fun to kiss

Word to that!

[DavidMn]

I can honestly say I have NEVER been sexually attracted to a woman. 100% gay here

[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by goldustsongbird

Remember what I once said about the popular bisexuals? The girls who get drunk at parties and think because they've kissed their best friend that they must be ~zomg bi~? That annoys me, and is what turns me off. I don't like the term bisexual either, but I guess it's the only thing I fit under if I've gotta be categorized. I'm attracted to men and women... Sometimes women more.

I HATE that too...and then then think they're bi and therefore **** over the next girl that comes around...ok...so I got tangled up with a girl who claimed to bi but as it turned out so was not.

It's becoming more common too - I mean look at Girls Gone Wild - it's all about college girls getting drunk and making out with each other...it's horrid. And only adds to the flakiness of the term "bi"

[goldustsongbird]

Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

I HATE that too...and then then think they're bi and therefore **** over the next girl that comes around...ok...so I got tangled up with a girl who claimed to bi but as it turned out so was not.

It's becoming more common too - I mean look at Girls Gone Wild - it's all about college girls getting drunk and making out with each other...it's horrid. And only adds to the flakiness of the term "bi"

GGW makes me laugh when I see the commercials for it, but they're so full of it. They get wasted and act like dickheads, but then go and complain about how they were exploited and blah blah blah here's a lawsuit.

[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by goldustsongbird

GGW makes me laugh when I see the commercials for it, but they're so full of it. They get wasted and act like dickheads, but then go and complain about how they were exploited and blah blah blah here's a lawsuit.

GGW makes me sick.

That and other things like it are having horrible repercussions in society methinks. I know, I know, many here get pissed/annoyed when people blame media for societal woes...but my sister teaches sixth grade and she's caught no less than three different pairs of girls making out because the boys paid them....

When asked where they even though to do that....they almost always say tv...it's sad.

Anyway...I'm completely hypocritical because I am so wary of any woman who claims to be bi, and I have trouble dating them...because I've been screwed over one too many times...the whole "sexual orientation" game gets old after a while....really I'd just like to find someone I connect with who is not a psycho.

[bretonbanquet]

Straight guy here

[BlackWidow]

Originally Posted by ryan8472

Cheating on me!?

Ry Ry..my little puppy.

[RavenOfRhiannon]

Perfect Kinsey 6. Totally Gay.

I have been with the same guy for 12 years now and I know how it feels to have people 'threatened' by a long term relationship. Our single friends aren't accustomed to people with our track record and the couple friends we do have are usually so new into their relationship, they are not very sociable.

[LikeAWillow]

I voted myself as bi but like almost every man or woman on here attracted to both sexes, I can't stand the label. And you know, for me, it isn't because I've been told that bisexuality is just the last step before coming out, no...I get told that I'm just experimenting before I end up in a straight relationship permanently. "It's a phase, it's a rebellion," or so most of the people around me would like to believe who aren't in my closest circle of friends. To slightly paraphrase a lovely little gay fluff pic, "But she's a cheerleader!", she can't like women! Well you know, just because the people here can't seem to break their stereotype of what a lesbian or bisexual is certainly doesn't mean that I'm going to suddenly cease being one. To be honest, I'm 70:30 in terms of my attractions...and that 70% favors women.