Oh man, How Much Bad Luck With Girls Can A Guy Have????? A Little Help Please!!! - Page 2

sparky · #16 01-28-2007, 02:41 AM

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Originally Posted by JazmenFlowers

as Beyonce' says...can you keep up?

I wear out most.

JazmenFlowers · #17 01-28-2007, 02:43 AM

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Originally Posted by sparky

I wear out most.

oh snap.

sparky · #18 01-28-2007, 02:46 AM

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Originally Posted by JazmenFlowers

oh snap.

Snap crackle and pop.

JazmenFlowers · #19 01-28-2007, 02:49 AM

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Originally Posted by sparky

Snap crackle and pop.

stop.please.
can't.breathe.

(oh ****. I just gave you more material didn't I?

)

Gypsy-Rhiannon · #20 01-28-2007, 05:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Musicman408

So, all of you all know that I have ZERO luck with girls. I am shy on the approach but they all say they "love me".

Anyway, I met this girl a couple of weeks ago at her vocal lesson. She was really nice, and when I complimented her on her voice, she would always smile and thank me very sweetly. She seemed to like it.

So I found her on MYSPACE and we started talking. She was very supportive of my back surgery and all. I was hoping I would run into her at school, but no such luck. This being said, I was thinking that it would be awkward seeing her again in "real life" after talking to her online.......

A couple of days later, we had a choral concert. I was in the lobby just chillin' and she walks around the corner and sees me. She seemed really happy to see me. We talked awhile and talked about how I wrote songs and she was telling me that I MUST record my songs and give them to her.........

I talked to her a couple of times on MYSPACE after that but since a few days ago, I haven't heard from her AND NOW it says that she is "in a relationship". I know I didn't know her very well, but we really seemed to get along well and I was hoping that we would be seeing more of each other. But I guess not...... What should I do. It is just SOOO frustrating.

Much Love,
Ethan

Just because a girl is friendly and chatty with you doesn't mean she wants to date you. If she is such a nice person then you will have to be happy to be friends with her

GODDESS6 · #21 01-28-2007, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by seeker007nmss

We have all been there. (I know that doesn't help much). And I might not be the right one to respond (I gave up years ago). I think that when the right one comes along, you will know it. Just don't let what happened in the past spoil your future. Remember they are the ones that missed out. And it is their loss, not yours. So, here is a fluff pic, as I get off the old soapbox.

"You Otter not let it get you down"

omg i love that pic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!~

gldstwmn · #22 01-28-2007, 11:24 AM

Hi Ethan. Just remeber that you're young and there are plenty of other girls out there. Cultivate friendships with them, see what they're all about and then see what happens from there.

Phoenix · #23 01-29-2007, 01:51 AM

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Originally Posted by gldstwmn

Hi Ethan. Just remeber that you're young and there are plenty of other girls out there. Cultivate friendships with them, see what they're all about and then see what happens from there.

sorry, but FORGET FRIENDSHIPS!

If you give em the "friend" vibe then thats what they'll think of you as. (BELIEVE ME) and stop bieng so nice, when girls get a glimpse of "inner jerk" I know you got in you.

THATS when they'll respond. THEN you can be nice, and they'll think "oh hes so wonderful, hes bieng nice JUST FOR ME. TRUST ME DUDE, ITS THE TRUTH.

I AM SO SORRY FOR EVER POSTING THIS. I AM SO SAD AND UPSET RIGht now. I just meant to not be soo much as a friend that the girl you like just treats you like a door mat, and only ever thinks of you as a friend. I dont condone in any way bieng mean to women or anything like that. I AM SOO SORRY, I have been crying for the last hour I love the lege, but just want to go away, but cant cause this is THE ONLY PLACE IN MY LIFE that i can share my love for stevie. I am sorry. I dont want to offend people. I cant stop crying now.

BlackWidow · #24 01-29-2007, 02:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

sorry, but FORGET FRIENDSHIPS!

If you give em the "friend" vibe then thats what they'll think of you as. (BELIEVE ME) and stop bieng so nice, when girls get a glimpse of "inner jerk" I know you got in you.

THATS when they'll respond. THEN you can be nice, and they'll think "oh hes so wonderful, hes bieng nice JUST FOR ME. TRUST ME DUDE, ITS THE TRUTH.

..I love your "inner jerk!"

ragandbone · #25 01-29-2007, 03:45 AM

You know the heartfelt and genuine enthusiasm that leads you to start so many threads? Well, if you approach a girl with that same fervor (even friendly, and complementary fervor) I think most girls would be a little apprehensive and overwhelmed.
I know it is hard to rein that in when you are excited about someone you meet, but just take a breath, and throw more of the energy into your music and novel. There will be someone whose enthusiasm matches yours, I don't think you will have to wonder, but you might have to wait.
Just my opinion...