A Little Girl Help Please - Page 4

irishgrl · #46 12-01-2006, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by michelle2677

he did? Where? I hope you're ok ethan. What's wrong?

it was awhile ago, he said he was sick and had to stay home from school and was online and watching daytime tv. it WAS awhile ago, but maybe he's still sick? I forget the thread name.....I guess if you need to know you can go back a few days in the history....not that its that important. Im sorry I dont know the exact thread title...

michelle2677 · #47 12-01-2006, 10:27 PM

^^^oh its no biggie. I was just thinking if he were sick he may not want to go to rehearsal. no sense in making it worse

irishgrl · #48 12-01-2006, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by michelle2677

^^^oh its no biggie. I was just thinking if he were sick he may not want to go to rehearsal. no sense in making it worse

ya know, I have to say this: I find you to be very sweet, sensitive, and overall, a total joy to read. Im glad you're here. (I dont know why Im waxing so emotional, but hey.......maybe its the Jupiter thing thats coming our way)

michelle2677 · #49 12-01-2006, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by irishgrl

ya know, I have to say this: I find you to be very sweet, sensitive, and overall, a total joy to read. Im glad you're here. (I dont know why Im waxing so emotional, but hey.......maybe its the Jupiter thing thats coming our way)

aaaw thank you

i just cant help myself. Puppies/dogs and puppy love get me everytime. Seriously though. Thank you

Musicman408 · #50 12-02-2006, 12:35 AM

Well guys I got back from the dinners and going out with some friends, and unfortunately I am heartbroken......... I haven't checked her myspace but Sarah and Brad are going out now......

I thought I had moved on, or at least in the process of it, but when I cought wind of it, I almost cried. No joke....... When my friends asked me to go out to waffle house, I really didn't want to because all I wanted to do was go home and cry and write........

It is sad because I never thought this would happen. Just a few weeks ago she was saying how he had No Class, and was rude and all of that...... So hopefully the relationship won't last very long.......... I know that sounds so bad to say, but Brad isn't a nice person and yet he gets everything that someone like me wants......

I really need some help in dealing with this. We have our final dinner tomorrow night.... SO i Will have to see it..........

"Dreams unwind, loves a state of mind,
Oh Beautiful child, how I wish that you were mine....."

Thanks guys for all of the support and stuff, and hopefully that will continue....

Much Love,
Ethan

irishgrl · #51 12-02-2006, 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Musicman408

Well guys I got back from the dinners and going out with some friends, and unfortunately I am heartbroken......... I haven't checked her myspace but Sarah and Brad are going out now......

I thought I had moved on, or at least in the process of it, but when I cought wind of it, I almost cried. No joke....... When my friends asked me to go out to waffle house, I really didn't want to because all I wanted to do was go home and cry and write........

It is sad because I never thought this would happen. Just a few weeks ago she was saying how he had No Class, and was rude and all of that...... So hopefully the relationship won't last very long.......... I know that sounds so bad to say, but Brad isn't a nice person and yet he gets everything that someone like me wants......

I really need some help in dealing with this. We have our final dinner tomorrow night.... SO i Will have to see it..........

"Dreams unwind, loves a state of mind,
Oh Beautiful child, how I wish that you were mine....."

Thanks guys for all of the support and stuff, and hopefully that will continue....

Much Love,
Ethan

I know this hurts you and I am sorry. I guess if its any consolation, this relationship with mr/mrs/ms. wrong will NOT last. take that for what its worth.

Musicman408 · #52 12-02-2006, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by irishgrl

I know this hurts you and I am sorry. I guess if its any consolation, this relationship with mr/mrs/ms. wrong will NOT last. take that for what its worth.

Thanks but you know it is the principle of the matter.... She chose him over me...... I think I am going to message her and congradulate her, because it is the right thing to do.......... And tell her that I was the one that kind of brought her to his attention.... Way back in the day...... I am just sooooo upset though

Much Love,
Ethan

Musicman408 · #53 12-02-2006, 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by michelle2677

awww..ethan..why are you not in school right now???

School lets out at 2:20 for us..... An remember, I am in eastern standard time....

Much Love,
Ethan

Musicman408 · #54 12-02-2006, 02:41 PM

Well yall, in a couple of hours I will be going back for our final dinner..... So I need to be in the right frame of mind tonight so that I don't break down while performing...... And seeing them together..... I have been messaging Sarah and telling her how happy I am for her....... Which I know it isn;t good to lie, but what can I do?

Much Love,
Ethan

DrummerDeanna · #55 12-02-2006, 02:45 PM

I'm sorry Ethan

You know - she may have said those things about Brad because she liked him but was afraid to show it - and afraid of rejection...when it became clear he did like her....well ya know...now they're going out

I know the pain of lost love..I'm sure we ALL do - but if it's meant to be it will be - if not then you should move on...and you will find a wonderful girl someday who will love and appreciate all the love you can give her

Musicman408 · #56 12-03-2006, 02:18 AM

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Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

I'm sorry Ethan

You know - she may have said those things about Brad because she liked him but was afraid to show it - and afraid of rejection...when it became clear he did like her....well ya know...now they're going out

I know the pain of lost love..I'm sure we ALL do - but if it's meant to be it will be - if not then you should move on...and you will find a wonderful girl someday who will love and appreciate all the love you can give her

Thank You Deeana. We just got back from our last dinner, and then we had a cast party...... Sarah and Brad we on each other all night. As people were leaving, I sat down next to Brad on the couch, and Sarah sat down between us and told me to leave. Then someone held up a drawn mistletoe above them and they kissed..... I saw the whole thing, and up to that point I had seen enough and I just decided to leave.........

It is a shame. I am so jeleous it is not even funny. I am mad as hell. Why the pompus *sshole always gets the girl is beyond me. I need to be something so big that I make Sarah jeleous of me for all time. As far as I am concerned, If you assosiate with pompous *ssholes, you are one yourself.

So now comes the hard part. I love the feeling of love, so I need to try everything in my power not to have a relapse. I wish I could find someone else to take her place. I have never had a girlfriend, and I am afraid that the girls I am attracted to wouldn't be interested in me (hints Sarah)........ I try to be the best person that I can be and yet I always lose in the end. I just don't understand why that is so.

At the moment I honestly can't think of anyone who can take Sarah's place. I am just so F*cking mad right now thought that I just...... I don't even know..... Thanks to all of you for the support, and I am sorry you have had to listen to all of this....

Much Love,
Ethan

DrummerDeanna · #57 12-03-2006, 02:22 AM

^^

Ethan, we've all been there

Trust me - you WILL find someone who you will love as much, if not MORE than Sarah..it'll happen. You're young...I didn't have a significant other until my senior year in high school - I was 18...and the relationships get better and better each time as you grow and learn

And I'm sorry - but if she's being a jerk to you now then she's not worth your energy....I mean telling you to leave....what's that about?

Still...sorry - I remember well the pain of lost love

Musicman408 · #58 12-03-2006, 02:39 AM

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Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

^^

Ethan, we've all been there

Trust me - you WILL find someone who you will love as much, if not MORE than Sarah..it'll happen. You're young...I didn't have a significant other until my senior year in high school - I was 18...and the relationships get better and better each time as you grow and learn

And I'm sorry - but if she's being a jerk to you now then she's not worth your energy....I mean telling you to leave....what's that about?

Still...sorry - I remember well the pain of lost love

Well you know, if nothing else it will fuel more songs..... I am thinking about Starting a thread on how to get a book of poetry published. Since I have so much stuff, you never know what a little research into it could lead.......

Deeana, thank you for your support. You're like one of my fave ledgies, and I just thought you should know.

You know, it's just hard because for so long you are attracted to one person and that feeling becomes a part of you, and so the thought of getting rid of it makes me feel like I am getting rid of a part of myself...... I do still have feelings for her I suppose, otherwise I wouldn't be so depressed about it, but really there is nothing that I can do. I'm glad I have you all that I can vent to, because frankly my mom and dad don't know about this so much because they get upset because they feel it gets me distracted from my studies......

Now let me ask you this.... Do you have any suggestions on how to move on and get that other person out of your heart?? That is my biggest trouble. I am a creature of habit, and I have a habit of always thinking about Sarah, so I am going to need to break that.... I need your advice.....

Much Love,
Ethan

Musicman408 · #59 12-03-2006, 12:08 PM

I just wanted to say thanks to all of you all for all of the support..

It has very much helped.....

Much Love,
Ethan

SuzeQuze · #60 12-03-2006, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Musicman408

Well you know, if nothing else it will fuel more songs..... I am thinking about Starting a thread on how to get a book of poetry published. Since I have so much stuff, you never know what a little research into it could lead.......

Deeana, thank you for your support. You're like one of my fave ledgies, and I just thought you should know.

You know, it's just hard because for so long you are attracted to one person and that feeling becomes a part of you, and so the thought of getting rid of it makes me feel like I am getting rid of a part of myself...... I do still have feelings for her I suppose, otherwise I wouldn't be so depressed about it, but really there is nothing that I can do. I'm glad I have you all that I can vent to, because frankly my mom and dad don't know about this so much because they get upset because they feel it gets me distracted from my studies......

Now let me ask you this.... Do you have any suggestions on how to move on and get that other person out of your heart?? That is my biggest trouble. I am a creature of habit, and I have a habit of always thinking about Sarah, so I am going to need to break that.... I need your advice.....

Much Love,
Ethan

Release thoughts of her to your higher power, have him/her take them away. Think of something else. Something that makes you feel larger rather than smaller. So sorry this happened to you but it sounds like this girl ain't worth her weight in salt to you. Kids do some pretty nasty crap to each other. Sensitive and wise young souls are rare and it is so difficult to be that person in highschool. But it is always worth walking the higher ground and taking the high road. Always.