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11-02-2006, 02:51 PM
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Thanks  And no, I hadn't kept in touch with him - so I've not talked to him in two years...so really I should not be at all surprised or disapointed  But I am. But you're right, it wasn't meant to be - because if it was it probably would have happened by now. It does sound like he's happy - and because of the brain tumor and treatment he's sterile - and the woman he married has a kid - so I'm sure that is a great thing for him as he wanted kids.Now I'm down to my very last "well there's always so and so" person...lets hope they stay single  At least until I'm no longer single  
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11-02-2006, 02:57 PM
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yeah, well, bryan was everything you wanted in a "bad boy" but nothing you wanted for long-term relationship. So when I said.."there's always bryan" well...it wasn't for him to be my husband
And he never minded...until it happened, then he wanted this big relationship, but I had already built him up to be a jackass. So I wasn't going to get hurt! whatever..it's over. That's the way it goes sometimes. 
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11-02-2006, 03:03 PM
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Oh I always thought of Scooter as someone I could end up with for good. Of course I also always thought it couldn't happen because there's too much crap in my past that he (and his family) may not like or be able to deal with. He and they are extremely Catholic...so it was probably a pipe dream - but we still had that connection - of course then I met someone else and ended up in a two and a half year relationship - Scooter and I were never the same after that - and then I left and he moved on. Of course I have too... I've really not been pining for Scooter all these years - but he's in the back of my mind - and I am surprised I took him marriage news as hard as I did. Of course now I'm good....what did I expect? Such a nice and decent man - he was bound to end up with someone sooner or later - and he has no intentino of leaving Las Cruces and I have no intention of ever living there again.
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11-02-2006, 03:14 PM
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Girl...
I know EXACTLY how you feel in regards to Scooter's marriage. The guy I wanted so bad got married to his "soul mate". It was a super quick thing too. He met her, dated a few months and got married. I was just getting up the courage to ask him out when I found out he was dating her. Devestated? Uh, yeah.
 Haven't met anyone like him since. Sigh....I like ABQ too. Great city. Didn't take any Lindsey pics in Phoenix, but I did take some from the plane of the landscape. It's so cool. Your pics are great. 
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11-02-2006, 04:11 PM
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11-02-2006, 05:17 PM
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11-02-2006, 05:38 PM
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11-02-2006, 05:44 PM
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11-02-2006, 07:03 PM
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My best advice to you is get over it now. Not in a "mean" way...just..make sure you deal with it now (if there is anything to deal with) no matter how hard. A long time ago, I dated this guy. It was definately a long distance relationship, to say the least. We were together for awhile and then I broke it off. I was young (21) and we were so far apart. Well, 5 years later (FIVE YEARS!!!) We were in contact again, and I thought it would be this innocent thing and nothing to it. Well, I hadn't dealt with the breakup (even thought I'M the one that ended it!!) and I was heartbroken. He went back and forth, back and forth but just wasn't "in it" (to quote the asshole ) I mean..I had already decided I was going to give up everything, move there. Hell, I even told my friends I wanted to have kids with him!! (that's when they knew it was bad...I HATE kids.... ) it was disgusting! He WAS the guy I could spend the rest of my life with. I just didn't figure it out until 5 years later and it was too late. Not because he was with someone. But he had gotten over me. I blame this all on my dad!!! a year after we broke up, he called me at work. I was crying and told my dad (he HATED him) and he told me it was nothing and to forget about it.  It was hard, but I have dealt with it and now every thing is peachy keen! Although if I ever saw him I'd probably have to do something very mean and painful to him . But that's another story.
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11-02-2006, 07:11 PM
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Oh yeah - I'm definitely working to get over it completely. I didn't realize I still harbored anything for him until I heard he'd gotten married But now I'm going to start the forget about it process...
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11-02-2006, 07:14 PM
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11-02-2006, 07:32 PM
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Ok..point taken Oh and just for clarification - I'm not feeling sorry for myself in this situation Today I'm feeling ok about the Scooter thing - I guess it's always a bit sad when dreams sort of die...but oh well - I'm in a better place than I would have been had I gotten stuck in my evil hometown.
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11-02-2006, 07:38 PM
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o.k. I'm sorry. I HAVE to ask. His real name isn't "Scooter" is it??
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11-02-2006, 07:40 PM
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