McCartney divorce getting ugly

gldstwmn · #1 10-18-2006, 10:11 PM

http://usmagazine.com/node/2985

Paul McCartney/Heather Mills Divorce Shocker: Paul Choked Me

In court documents filed by Heather Mills, she claims that estranged husband Paul McCartney was physically violent towards her, took drugs and stopped her from breastfeeding their baby during their marriage. She says while in LA in November 2002, he grabbed her by the neck and pushed her over a coffee table. In May 2003 she claims he shoved her into a bath. In Aug 2005, he allegedly choked her after she accused him of smoking marijuana. In April 2006, the documents state, he tipped red wine over her; he then broke the wine glass and lunged at her with the sharp stem of the wine glass which cut Heather’s arm. See the specific allegations detailed below, as reported by London's Evening Standard:

October 2002: McCartney loudly pointed out that Mills was in a bad mood, in front of other people. When they returned home McCartney and Mills began to argue about the McCartney’s behaviour. McCartney grabbed Mills by the neck and pushed her over a coffee table. He then went outside and, in his drunken state, fell down a hill, cutting his arm.

May 2003: The couple were in a hotel in Rome when McCartney behaved coldly towards Mills, who was pregnant and who was distressed by a derogatory newspaper article about her. An argument ensued in which McCartney became angry and pushed Mills into the bath. Mills suffered distress but was made to go to McCartney’s evening concert.

May 2003: Following the concert, in a fit of pique because Mills refused to go to the aftershow party, McCartney directed a female bodyguard to abandon Mills, leaving her exposed to hordes of fans. The respondent was forced to take a 30 minute walk back to the hotel because no taxi was available.

August 2003: In Long Island, Mills asked McCartney if he had been smoking marijuana. He became angry, grabbed her neck and started choking her.

October 2003: McCartney often told Mills when she was pregnant that he did not want her to breast-feed their child, making the comment "they are my breasts" and "I don't want a mouthful of breast milk".

November 2003: McCartney required Mills to defer an essential operation on her leg because it would have interfered with holiday plans.

December 2003: Mills had a broken pelvic plate McCartney insisted that she cook for him while she was on crutches, could barely move and was in agony.

Mid-November 2004: McCartney failed to protect Mills from adverse press reports despite being in a position to do so. Mills was warned that a forthcoming article about her was about to come out in The Sunday Times magazine and included the line: "The best thing that ever happened to Heather Mills McCartney was losing her leg" which was distressing.

As McCartney had been asked to participate in the half-time entertainment for the Superbowl on Fox TV owned by Rupert Murdoch (who also owns The Sunday Times), Mills asked McCartney to tell Rupert Murdoch that he would not confirm his participation in the Superbowl unless he agreed not to run the story. McCartney refused to assist in this way.

September/October 2005: McCartney called Mills an "ungrateful bitch" in front of their driver when she explained why an office he had provided was not right for her. Having refused to allow Mills to use his spare office on the floor beneath their apartment, which would have allowed for a creche in one part of the office, McCartney had insisted she use an office that was far too small and was 20 minutes walk away. When Mills went to view it, she was chased by paparazzi and was so demoralised by the experience she never used the office.

April 2006: Shortly after Mills’ revision amputation surgery she was forced to crawl on her hands and knees up aeroplane steps because they were not wide enough to take her wheelchair. McCartney had assured Mills he had taken care of her disability needs in connection with the trip.

April 2006: An argument occurred during which McCartney poured a bottle of red wine over Mills’ head and then threw what remained in his wine glass at her.

McCartney then reached to grab Mills’ wine glass, and broke the bowl of the glass from the stem. He then lunged at the Mills with the sharp stem of the glass, which cut and pierced Mills’ arm just below the elbow causing her to bleed profusely. He proceeded to manhandle Mills, flinging her into her wheelchair and wheeling it outside, screaming at her to apologize for "winding him up".

April 2006: Mills asked McCartney not to leave her alone with their daughter Beatrice at the Cabin (because it is isolated in a forest). She had just had surgery on her leg, was in a wheelchair, and was anxious about her ability to cope by herself. Notwithstanding this, he walked off. Mills then telephoned McCartney, and asked him to return. McCartney mocked her pleas, mimicking the voice of a nagging spouse, and refused to return.

April 2006: It is alleged that Mills found McCartney staggering, undressed him and ran the bath and helped him into it. She then phoned the McCartney’s psychiatrist for advice and was told not to attempt to move him, to get a duvet and two pillows, to empty the bath of water, cover him, and leave him there.

Mills thereupon dragged herself upstairs, on her hands and knees (she was unable to wear her prosthetic leg as the wound from surgery had not yet healed) and brought back down the pillows. She found that McCartney had vomited on himself. She rinsed him off, and got him out the bath. At that time Mills had a broken plate in her pelvis and she was in agony.

April 2006: On April 27 Mills knew McCartney would be too hungover to help her with Beatrice and due to her own incapacity as a result of an operation, she had to call the babysitter to help get Beatrice to nursery.

The following day McCartney went to London but said he would be back in time to help the put Beatrice to bed. He did not arrive back at her bedtime even though he knew Mills could not cope on her own. McCartney arrived home drunk and demanded dinner and called the respondent a nag.

That evening Mills realized the marriage had irretrievably broken down and left, crawling on her hands and knees while dragging her wheelchair, crutches and basic personal possessions to the car.

No date given: Mills asked McCartney if she could buy an antique bedpan to keep under the bed at night so she wouldn't have to crawl to the bathroom when her prosthetic leg was not fitted. McCartney objected, saying it would be like being in "an old woman's home."

Neb-Maat-Re · #2 10-18-2006, 10:27 PM

Ahh.

All this happened, yet he initiated the seperation.

And she was shocked that he did.

DrummerDeanna · #3 10-18-2006, 10:41 PM

^^

Uh huh. Something's fishy.

I have NEVER liked her - and I'm pretty sure the only truly accurate thing in that article is that Macca smoked pot.

Stupid Heather Mills

Nico · #4 10-18-2006, 10:53 PM

I can't comment on any of these allegations, but good gawd what a thing this is going to be. Poor little child.

DrummerDeanna · #5 10-18-2006, 10:58 PM

The allegations - I'm not one to poopoo abuse - but I just don't see this as being a valid claim on her part. I think there is some dirty work going on with her legal team - lots of exaggeration.

**mylittledemon** · #6 10-18-2006, 11:06 PM

who f*cking cares? These celebs love to air their dirty laundry dont they? Why can't people divorce with SOME dignity? It's always a greedy fight over money, in the end. Jaysus.

irishgrl · #7 10-19-2006, 05:13 AM

Im sure Paul's attorneys will thrash any falsehood. My concern is if its even minutely true...I have often wondered if he was depressed after Linda's death

SuzeQuze · #8 10-19-2006, 08:03 AM

She's a jackass, who expects 500 million from a divorce? It's rediculous.

strandinthewind · #9 10-19-2006, 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

She's a jackass, who expects 500 million from a divorce? It's rediculous.

Well, that's half

I mean that is no different statistically than slitting $100,000. In the end, this is all posturing and I think she will get $100 million or so, which likely is half of what he earned during their marriage.

SuzeQuze · #10 10-19-2006, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by strandinthewind

Well, that's half

I mean that is no different statistically than slitting $100,000. In the end, this is all posturing and I think she will get $100 million or so, which likely is half of what he earned during their marriage.

Right but it's just not reasonable to expect that kind of money after a short marriage IMO. I cannot believe PM did not have a prenup! I'm sure he can't either.

strandinthewind · #11 10-19-2006, 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

Right but it's just not reasonable to expect that kind of money after a short marriage IMO. I cannot believe PM did not have a prenup! I'm sure he can't either.

Without a prenup and with the child - it is totally reasonable under the law. She is a very clever girl IMO.

SteveMacD · #12 10-19-2006, 11:35 AM

I'm no legal expert, but I don't think Mills has a leg to stand on....

(Somebody had to say it.)

DrummerDeanna · #13 10-19-2006, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by irishgrl

Im sure Paul's attorneys will thrash any falsehood. My concern is if its even minutely true...I have often wondered if he was depressed after Linda's death

I've wondered about that too - getting into another marriage so damn fast after Linda's death...they were together for so many years, and he and she said they never spent a night apart (except for the time he landed in jail

)

I wonder if he was expecting something similar from this marriage - but Heather is no Linda and Linda was Paul's great love...so there may be some emotional distress at play.

But I refuse to believe that shrew is completely blameless and sat by to be abused....highly doubtful her accounts.

skcin · #14 10-19-2006, 12:58 PM

I too am hesitant to blow off a claim of abuse, but something just doesn't sound right. The drinking, the sarcastic responses & name calling, I can believe.

The man's not a saint, I'm sure. And maybe he does drink too much - I'd tend to blame that partially on Linda's death. If he really did physically attack Heather when drunk repeatedly, then she should have gotten out of there long ago - think of the baby!

But for her to claim she had to crawl or wait on him while injured around seems a bit much. Seriously? There aren't any servants at that house to cook and help take care of the baby? And there are laws for the disabled - no way should she have had to crawl up airplane stairs, even if Paul did neglect to make prior arrangements. No way.

I dunno. Just seems strange. And if my husband gave me my own office & I complained about it, he's probably call me an ungrateful bitch too.

And he'd be right.

Nico · #15 10-19-2006, 01:15 PM

I honestly did not like Heather Mills from the very moment I heard of her and Paul's relationship. I mean, Linda was fantastic in the true-love/soul mate/kindred spirit way. They were the couple, and they created such a strong bond and gorgeous family. There was something cold and calculating in Ms. Mills that I can't really describe, but she rubbed me the wrong way and seemed a bad match for him. Paul is old school. He's an overly-romantic, playful guy but he does have a sharp side to him, and Linda certainly got that side and handled it perfectly. They weren't just husband and wife, they were best friends and supported each other in everything.

The fact that his kids, whom I like and think are very sensible, down-to-earth people, were so disgusted by Heather that they walked out of the wedding halfway through the ceremony (so it was reported) really said something. I don't think Heather really tried to be understanding towards them, and I think she could have cared less about Paul's legacy, which really (aside from his family) is his world. And if you were in the Beatles and you did all that, hell...I understand.

I don't know if he's abusive or someone who mocks handicap people (although, if you know about the Beatles it's pretty clear that John had a bit of a paranoia towards them in his younger days), but I do still love him and hope for the best for him and his little daughter. The older kids are settled and have their lives. It's really just Paul and this little baby girl that I hope everything works out for. I could honestly care less about Heather. I hate to say it, but I really am beginning to see very clearly why she married Paul. And I do not respect that at all. If it comes to be that Paul did in fact physically harm her, I can not respect that, but that still will not change the fact that I really dislike her.