Down at the bar - Page 2

JazmenFlowers · #16 06-03-2006, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by amber

No. And I am a very adamant shopper, but one who doesn't care about Brands at all, only about how flattering they look on me - therefore, if someone cares more for brands than sexiness, I can't hang. I will say, i love clothes and jewelry shopping more than anything.

i will also say: What is there to care about besides if the weiner works good? Sure, their personality - but you have to have both. And, if I had to choose, i would pick the weiner (assuming the personality was semi acceptable) -
Why? -
Because I have friends. But my best friends don't have weiners, and I can't sleep with them.

you rock my world. I love it.

macfanken · #17 06-03-2006, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by amber

That is why i am suprised they said that, unless you were actively hitting on them. Were you? i would think not, but I don't know.

Did David say they were actually calling him a troll or just speaking in general? Pretty rude if they were talking about him.

amber · #18 06-03-2006, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by JazmenFlowers

you rock my world. I love it.

Sweet. Am I wrong?

JazmenFlowers · #19 06-03-2006, 12:33 AM

what I hate is when you go to a bar and the bartender either hates "twinks" or "preps" or hates your friends and serves everyone before serving you. I'll fight a bitch.

not that this has happened to me, I'm just sayin.

JazmenFlowers · #20 06-03-2006, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by amber

Sweet. Am I wrong?

not in the least. not in the f*cking least.

did Paula go to bed? ****. I guess I'm next.

amber · #21 06-03-2006, 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by macfanken

Did David say they were actually calling him a troll or just speaking in general? Pretty rude if they were talking about him.

He gave the impression that they made him mad. I don't know if they were talking about him.

Yeah, Jazz, she did. East Coast and all.

irishgrl · #22 06-03-2006, 12:51 AM

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And, if I had to choose, i would pick the weiner (assuming the personality was semi acceptable) -
Why? -
Because I have friends. But my best friends don't have weiners, and I can't sleep with them.

AHEM: I have to say I agree with this. emminently practical. FOR GAWD'S SAKE PEOPLE! LETS GET OUR REARS IN GEAR!!!

Brwn_eyes0511 · #23 06-03-2006, 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by JazmenFlowers

hates "twinks" or "preps"

Why? because they get all the action and mister bartender is jealous?

JazmenFlowers · #24 06-03-2006, 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Brwn_eyes0511

Why? because they get all the action and mister bartender is jealous?

you said it, not me.

*sings boom I got your boyfriend, boom I got your man*

SuzeQuze · #25 06-03-2006, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by JazmenFlowers

not in the least. not in the f*cking least.

did Paula go to bed? ****. I guess I'm next.

The gay boys always follow Paula to bed!

Rickypt · #26 06-03-2006, 01:42 PM

Hey DavidMN--

Sounds like an unpleasant experience, but this is how I look at it as a 20 year veteran of gay bars.

First, I doubt they were talking about you. A troll really is an older gay guy who tries to pick up on younger guys. They are usually quite obnoxious and aggressive about it, and even though I don't think name-calling is great, I don't really blame young guys for being annoyed with them. I was when I was young. You weren't doing that, you were just enjoying your drinks (what on earth is a Malibu Pineapple, sounds like a fast track to a hangover

).

Second, if they were just being jerks and talking about "older" guys in general, that kind of talk and behavior isn't unique to gay men. A group of hot 24 year old straight girls are just as likely to make a nasty comment about unattractive older guys in their hangouts. It's probably a little more common in public gay places because our "community" promotes and fetishizes youth so much. There are also fewer hangouts for us, so we wind up with a wide range of ages, etc. in one place, with the only common denomenator (sp?) being that we are attracted to the same sex. That is invariably going to result in tensions between younger and older. I've heard really nasty things said by older guys about younger guys.

Finally, as you've said, one day these boys aren't going to be young and skinny anymore. In gay years, they aren't that far away. I personally wouldn't go back to my 20's for all the money in the world, even though I looked a lot better then. I wouldn't let their comments get to you.

skcin · #27 06-03-2006, 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

The gay boys always follow Paula to bed!

That's funny. Because it's true.

DavidMn · #28 06-03-2006, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by macfanken

Did David say they were actually calling him a troll or just speaking in general? Pretty rude if they were talking about him.

No. They were speking in General terms

DavidMn · #29 06-03-2006, 05:54 PM

Thank you. I appreciat ty

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Originally Posted by Rickypt

Hey DavidMN--

Sounds like an unpleasant experience, but this is how I look at it as a 20 year veteran of gay bars.

First, I doubt they were talking about you. A troll really is an older gay guy who tries to pick up on younger guys. They are usually quite obnoxious and aggressive about it, and even though I don't think name-calling is great, I don't really blame young guys for being annoyed with them. I was when I was young. You weren't doing that, you were just enjoying your drinks (what on earth is a Malibu Pineapple, sounds like a fast track to a hangover

).

Second, if they were just being jerks and talking about "older" guys in general, that kind of talk and behavior isn't unique to gay men. A group of hot 24 year old straight girls are just as likely to make a nasty comment about unattractive older guys in their hangouts. It's probably a little more common in public gay places because our "community" promotes and fetishizes youth so much. There are also fewer hangouts for us, so we wind up with a wide range of ages, etc. in one place, with the only common denomenator (sp?) being that we are attracted to the same sex. That is invariably going to result in tensions between younger and older. I've heard really nasty things said by older guys about younger guys.

Finally, as you've said, one day these boys aren't going to be young and skinny anymore. In gay years, they aren't that far away. I personally wouldn't go back to my 20's for all the money in the world, even though I looked a lot better then. I wouldn't let their comments get to you.

Thank you. I appreciate that. I wasnt really even worried if they were talking aBOUT me. If I really wanted to be a smart ass, I couldve told them ,"Hey, I may not be the prettiest or skinniest guy on the block, but I still get laid."