LIFE SUCKS!!!! Nothing can get worse then this!

Enchanted_Stevi · #1 05-08-2006, 09:40 AM

MY HOUSE IS BEING FORECLOSED!!!!! In 2 months I will be homeless!!!!!!! I might have to move with my dad. Which means I wont have a computer I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO!!!!!

BTFLCHLD · #2 05-08-2006, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Enchanted_Stevi

MY HOUSE IS BEING FORECLOSED!!!!! In 2 months I will be homeless!!!!!!! I might have to move with my dad. Which means I wont have a computer I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO!!!!!

there isnt a lot you can do doll...
its your mom and step-dads place
and they are responsible for the foreclose on the house..
im sorry this is happening...i am thinking about you and
hope things turnaround for you and your family...
hang in there caitlin...everything will be ok
HUGGGSSSSSSS

by the way...your private message box is full
clear so i can send you a note please

sara1998 · #3 05-08-2006, 10:28 AM

I'm sorry to hear about your home. But, please don't ever say it will never get worse, because it can get worse. I always thought it would never be worse then?? and then it did. So, just prepare yourself... life has many suprises.....

Good luck with your situation. I'm sending good karma your way!

dreamongypsydkm · #4 05-08-2006, 10:45 AM

I was going to say, I'm sorry that happened and hope there turns out to be a compromise you can live with but....what kind of a thread title is that?

BTFLCHLD · #5 05-08-2006, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by dreamongypsydkm

but....what kind of a thread title is that?

probably one a young 16 yo would create...

jannieC · #6 05-08-2006, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by BTFLCHLD

probably one a young 16 yo would create...

Yes-just what I was thinking.

Try not to panic- at least you have your dad's house and even if you don't have a computer, there are worse things that could happen. I just moved into a new house and I probably won't have the internet for at least a month.

Hang in there and try not to be scared- things can change very quickly. And Maria is right, things could be MUCH worse. I will send good thoughts your way as well.

estranged4life · #7 05-08-2006, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by sara1998

I'm sorry to hear about your home. But, please don't ever say it will never get worse, because it can get worse. I always thought it would never be worse then?? and then it did. So, just prepare yourself... life has many suprises.....

Good luck with your situation. I'm sending good karma your way!

just hang in there ok? Life does sometimes sucks but when you think it wont get better it usually does indeed get better.

dreamongypsydkm · #8 05-08-2006, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by BTFLCHLD

probably one a young 16 yo would create...

I understand that and a greater problem doesn't eliminate the reality of a lesser problem, it's all still worthy of attention but I wouldn't believe the age defensive. I've known my fair share of 15 year olds dealing with things no person should have to, infact I've known 10 years olds, 5 year olds and so on who've had to do the same. AGain, no greater problem eliminates a lesser one but the title kind of had me there.

All the best still.

DavidMn · #9 05-08-2006, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Enchanted_Stevi

MY HOUSE IS BEING FORECLOSED!!!!! In 2 months I will be homeless!!!!!!! I might have to move with my dad. Which means I wont have a computer I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO!!!!!

I'm so sorry to hear about this. I wish there was something that I could say that I know would help, I'll just say my thoughts are with you.

BTFLCHLD · #10 05-08-2006, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by dreamongypsydkm

I understand that and a greater problem doesn't eliminate the reality of a lesser problem, it's all still worthy of attention but I wouldn't believe the age defensive. I've known my fair share of 15 year olds dealing with things no person should have to, infact I've known 10 years olds, 5 year olds and so on who've had to do the same. AGain, no greater problem eliminates a lesser one but the title kind of had me there.

All the best still.

i hope to all the heavens above
that whenever someone gets chit on and shares here
peeps dont throw more chit on word selection/choices
i really do

WelshWitchPMD · #11 05-08-2006, 12:19 PM

I am very sorry to hear about this Caitlin. I hope that everything works out for you and your family. Sending you some positive energy.

DavidMn · #12 05-08-2006, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Enchanted_Stevi

MY HOUSE IS BEING FORECLOSED!!!!! In 2 months I will be homeless!!!!!!! I might have to move with my dad. Which means I wont have a computer I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO!!!!!

Let me share another story with you that might help. I thought nothing could get worse than when my great aunt died 2 years ago that I was very close to. I attempted suicide a couple months after because I felt so lost and spent a week in the psych ward. But somehow by the grace of god I'm still here.

dreamongypsydkm · #13 05-08-2006, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by BTFLCHLD

i hope to all the heavens above
that whenever someone gets chit on and shares here
peeps dont throw more chit on word selection/choices
i really do

Hey I'm not trying to belittle anything she's told us, I just found it slightly on the naive side to say "nothing can get worse than this" and it would only serve to help her if she knew that this really isn't the end of the world. I'd hate to see it turn into a competition but some I know, even some who read this board, have to go through things like being kicked out of their homes by parents as young teenagers, witness a parent trying to kill the other, another witness their one parent hang themselves leaving her orphaned, or being raped by parents from the time they were a toddler, and the list goes on. It seems uncomfortable to have to use examples but the point was that you cannot blame someone for be put off a little by the extreme dramatics because as I said, it can be worse, much worse and I wouldn't wish it upon her. She should know that she will manage, humans are clearly capable of coping with the situation. I don't even know her but I'm sure she will be ok.

DavidMn · #14 05-08-2006, 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by dreamongypsydkm

Hey I'm not trying to belittle anything she's told us, I just found it slightly on the naive side to say "nothing can get worse than this" and it would only serve to help her if she knew that this really isn't the end of the world. I'd hate to see it turn into a competition but some I know, even some who read this board, have to go through things like being kicked out of their homes by parents as young teenagers, witness a parent trying to kill the other, another witness their one parent hang themselves leaving her orphaned, or being raped by parents from the time they were a toddler, and the list goes on. It seems uncomfortable to have to use examples but the point was that you cannot blame someone for be put off a little by the extreme dramatics because as I said, it can be worse, much worse and I wouldn't wish it upon her. She should know that she will manage, humans are clearly capable of coping with the situation. I don't even know her but I'm sure she will be ok.

I'm sure you didnt mean any harm by your comments.

Now can we please let this issue die?