How Old Is Too Old To Lose Your Virginity??

[SuzeQuze]

Originally Posted by cliffdweller

I couldn't agree more. I think the first time, when you're a teenager, is usually uncomfortable and awkward because a.) you don't really know what you want or what your partner wants and b.) you both are not sexually mature enough to even really KNOW what pleasures you both , well, seriously, sex is about enjoyment and pleasure, and an emotional investment (to some, not all) so when you're a teenager (and even in your early 20's) you don't know enough about yourself or your body (or your partner's) to make those judgements or understand what they even mean. Man, I'm about to turn 30 and I'm SOOOO stoked because I'm finally learning these things...man, desire, sexual forthrightness when you're in your late 20's to early 30's means something SOOOOOOO much different than when you're a teenager or early 20's. I like to call it "sexual agency," everyone should strive for it.

Right, plus for me it clouded my judgement. I put him before all else. What a dumb thing for a teen to do!

[cliffdweller]

Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

Right, plus for me it clouded my judgement. I put him before all else. What a dumb thing for a teen to do!

Don't worry, that's what A LOT of teenage girls do! I think it's in the "how to be an angsty teenage girl" handbook.

[sparky]

Originally Posted by Miss Vicky

Thanks for the reassurance there, Sparks.

You have my full support. Like I said, people have different needs and experiences. I am sure you will get what you need when you need it, so to speak.

[sparky]

Originally Posted by markolas

Where's mine?

Well, Ryan asked first. And I think I scared him.

[markolas]

Originally Posted by sparky

Well, Ryan asked first. And I think I scared him.

Not going there.

On a slightly unrelated note...I've been curious about something and I want to take a poll, but I wonder if the mods would deem it "inappropriate."

[Nixxxed]

Originally Posted by markolas

Not going there.

On a slightly unrelated note...I've been curious about something and I want to take a poll, but I wonder if the mods would deem it "inappropriate."

You could always do it on The Lewdge...

[markolas]

Originally Posted by Nixxxed

You could always do it on The Lewdge...

Don't tease.

[markolas]

Originally Posted by amber

If it's the "top or bottom?" pole, Towie did that on the second ledge.
If not, disregard.

What is the second ledge????

And no, it isn't that. It's a little less sexually explicit.

[sparky]

Originally Posted by markolas

What is the second ledge????

And no, it isn't that. It's a little less sexually explicit.

The seven wonders board.
You didn't see that thread ? It is a hoot and a holler.
I wanna know about this poll !

[The Tower]

Originally Posted by sparky

Well, Ryan asked first. And I think I scared him.

Yeah, I think you did too..... Once he turns 18 then I'll speak my mind.

My virginity thing? With homo gays the concept of virginity doesn't really apply very well. For me, 13 - 14 - 15 ... by the time I reached 15, I'd done all the "basic" stuff. I still am a Dirty Sanchez virgin, though.

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by sparky

The seven wonders board.
You didn't see that thread ? It is a hoot and a holler.
I wanna know about this poll !

pole -- - - -

[Brwn_eyes0511]

Originally Posted by amber

If it's the "top or bottom?" pole, Towie did that on the second ledge.
If not, disregard.

I must have missed that one....

[The Tower]

Originally Posted by sparky

I wanna know about this poll !

Yeah- spill it!!

[markolas]

Originally Posted by The Tower

Yeah, I think you did too..... Once he turns 18 then I'll speak my mind.

My virginity thing? With homo gays the concept of virginity doesn't really apply very well. For me, 13 - 14 - 15 ... by the time I reached 15, I'd done all the "basic" stuff. I still am a Dirty Sanchez virgin, though.

Where did you grow up that you found boys to fool around with at 13-15??? It was only years later that I found out about any other gay people I went to school with (and it still isn't that many...and it wasn't that small a school).

And what's a Dirty Sanchez virgin?

[Neal]

Originally Posted by The Tower

My virginity thing? With homo gays the concept of virginity doesn't really apply very well. For me, 13 - 14 - 15 ... by the time I reached 15, I'd done all the "basic" stuff. I still am a Dirty Sanchez virgin, though.

How do you figure the concept doesn't apply to us "homo gays"?

And what the hell's a "Dirty Sanchez" virgin?