they say it only comes when you don't want it... - Page 4

markolas · #46 08-29-2005, 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by strandinthewind

I have to say I agree. I go years. I am not really into dating at all. But, when it happens to me, it is a loping down the halls belting SYW and My Heart for days. I am such a freak

I went years. Then I was in a relationship for a while. Now, it's only been a couple of weeks and I feel like I'm going to *explode*. I don't even want a serious relationship. Just a FWB would be nice.

strandinthewind · #47 08-29-2005, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by markolas

I went years. Then I was in a relationship for a while. Now, it's only been a couple of weeks and I feel like I'm going to *explode*. I don't even want a serious relationship. Just a FWB would be nice.

Well, my last one and I took YEARS to break up

But, I met someone recently - so we shall see. I, too, am not really into the whole living in the same house we are so serious you are the apple of my eye kind of thing - I have done that. But, I could be persuaded

dissention · #48 08-29-2005, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by strandinthewind

Well, my last one and I took YEARS to break up

But, I met someone recently - so we shall see. I, too, am not really into the whole living in the same house we are so serious you are the apple of my eye kind of thing - I have done that. But, I could be persuaded

I couldn't. Ugh, that kind of stuff makes me ralph.

I've lived with people before and I hated it. It's not for me.

bikerchic · #49 08-29-2005, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by ontheEdgeof17

heterosexual. woman. sex.

Three words that should never be spoken in the same breath.

Oh Curtis, you are too funny

strandinthewind · #50 08-29-2005, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by dissention

I couldn't. Ugh, that kind of stuff makes me ralph.

I've lived with people before and I hated it. It's not for me.

More evidence we are perfect for each other

macfanken · #51 08-29-2005, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by all the same

...but i've been pretending i don't want it my entire life. how do you make yourself just not want it? it seems so simple but so impossible. what do i gotta do?

I always thought it was a cliche... but now I'm thinking it's true... it'll happen when you're not expecting it or looking for it. You don't have to pretend you don't want it... that might give off the wrong vibe... just don't look too hard for it. (I'm assuming "it" is a relationship, not just sex!) You're a great guy, definitely a catch for someone... it'll happen.

DavidMn · #52 08-29-2005, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnny Stew

What a weird coincidence... I was 26 my first time, too.
I had a lot of stuff to work through (and was still working through a few things even at that time), so I think I made the right decision waiting as long as I did.

I don't regret it... I've always been a quality over quantity kind of guy anyway.

Daniel, if it's a relationship you're looking for, I will say this from experience....
"Good things come to those who wait."
I used to always hate hearing that, but it's true.

Try not to dwell on it too much, remind yourself that "what will be, will be," and focus your energies on things that you enjoy. It'll find you when it's time.

But if it's just sex you're looking for... well, that seems extremely easy to find.

Very well said.

DavidMn · #53 08-29-2005, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by WildInTheWind

Well bad things did happen....he moved out of my house and into the state pen. Not only gay men are dramatic. My ex was a total drama queen. Kind of reversed roles I guess. I just wanted him to shut up half the time! Well....most of the time.

Well, I've never been the slammer, so I guess I wont complain much anymore, that sucks that that happened to you

all the same · #54 08-29-2005, 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by macfanken

I always thought it was a cliche... but now I'm thinking it's true... it'll happen when you're not expecting it or looking for it. You don't have to pretend you don't want it... that might give off the wrong vibe... just don't look too hard for it. (I'm assuming "it" is a relationship, not just sex!) You're a great guy, definitely a catch for someone... it'll happen.

thanks ****face!