Romantic or No?

[lagringader&r]

Since I never sleep , I've spent my early morning hours making up some questions about love and relationships I thought would be fun to post. I'm too tired now to answer my own, but I'd love to see what everyone else has to say. Have fun.

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
10) Would you ever marry for money?
11) Would you die for the person you love?
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?
13) How many times have you been in love?
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?

[tynan88]

Oooh this is a good one!

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? One Year in love
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?Intelligent, Headstrong, Funny, BRUNETTE! I have come very close to her
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?Better to have loved than lost
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?7, it isn't vital but it is a commitment between two people
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?No
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?No
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?I want the six months
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
1. Trust
2. Communication
3.Sex
4.Wealth
10) Would you ever marry for money? Yes
11) Would you die for the person you love?Yes
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?Faithful
13) How many times have you been in love?Once
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?It depends if you meet the right person
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?Trust
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?Lies
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?No
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?I believe in destiny
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?One, No, No

[jannieC]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Not really, maybe lust at first sight.
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? One year of passion.
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Funny, honest, intelligent- my husband is all of these things, fortunately.
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Loved and lost, absolutely. Playing it safe means you never take chances.
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 6, I guess. Quality, not frequency.
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Nope.
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? Married, no way. In a relationship, maybe. But I'm not the kind to "go for it" in situations like that, so I'd probably lose out.
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Hm. I'd probably go for it and try to give him the best 6 months I could.
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. 1. Trust 2. Communication 3. Sex 4. Wealth
10) Would you ever marry for money? Not marry, no. But looking back, maybe I would have dated some guys with money just to see what it felt like.
11) Would you die for the person you love? I don't know that I'd die for my husband, but I would for my step-son.
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? 100% faithful.
13) How many times have you been in love? Two times.
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? I have no idea, but I believe it can be several. Some people are much more capable of feeling love than others.
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes.
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Honesty and trust.
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Lying (see a theme here?.
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? I don't know that it's necessary, but I do think it's imporant to let the other person know how you feel, frequently. It's nice to feel loved.
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? I used to believe in soul mates, now I'm not so sure. I think that there is a major "plan" and that we are destined to have certain people in our lives for different reasons.
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? I don't really believe in soulmates, so I can't answer this one.

[Dreammms]

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?


my friend shelia was dating a guy mike for 7 yrs and they got engaged and had a big wedding. the night of the honeymoon mike told shelia he couldnt do this and didnt want to be married. she was heartbroken and the marriage got annulled. all the guest felt bad for her so they let her keep the gifts and she bought a new car.

anyway a couple yrs pass and shelia meets james. they fall in love and he treats her great. a couple months pass and he ends up getting really sick. turns out he has cancer all through his body. shelia sticks by him and helps take care of him while he is sick. they end up getting married in central park in new york. the drs give him three weeks to live. he was in bad pain and a hospice nurse stayed at the house with him and shelia. one morning he wouldnt wake up and shelia was so scared. his blood pressure was low. the hospice nurse said this was the first stages of dying. his family and friends came to the house to sit by his bedside. the next morning at 4:30 am he woke up for two hours and told shelia how much he loved her and how he is sorry he wasn't awake for the "party." he ended up dying that afternoon..which was tuesday of this week. shelia loves him very much and wouldn't trade the yr she had with him for nothing.

[ShangriLaTroubl]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Attraction yes, love no

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?
one year of love

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?
A woman who has a sense of humor, a democrat (jk doesnt have to be), Stevie fan, beautiful, can sing, can write lyrics...wow dreaming right?

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?

I believe that philosophy

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?

6, and both are important in different ways

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?
Yes

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?
Go for it

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?
tough one, i say go for it

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
Trust, communication, sex, wealth
10) Would you ever marry for money?
No
11) Would you die for the person you love?
Yes
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?
I could be faithful
13) How many times have you been in love?
once i think
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?
unlimited amounts
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?
Yes, possible, not a good idea tho!
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?
Stevie fandom!
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?
friendship with ex's
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?
Yes
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?
luck
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?
Soul mate, dont like to use that term--but I get the point...I think that they only have one SOUL MATE..some never find that person, some lose that person, some stay with them forever--I havent found mine

[GateandGarden]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? not at all

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? neither

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? understanding, kind, honest but considerate and tactful with words at the same time, open-minded, knows herself well...I don't really think I've found this person. Either that or she was taken.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? I think it's better to have loved and lost than to hav never experienced it on any level because of fear.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? I don't know--5? Less than 5? Maybe I'll change my mind later. The quality is more important than the quantity in my opinion.

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Hundreds.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? I can see myself waiting around hoping that the person will eventually come to me, and I would probably let that person know the extent of my feelings, but I wouldn't ruin my life over it and rule out possibilities of other relationships

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?This is tough for me, maybe more so than for others. Danielle's story there is inspiring, but it's one of those things in life I imagine I would not be able to handle. I've also seen from past experiences that it takes me at least a year to decide I'm truly in love with someone, so at that point, the person destiny dealt to me may have already passed.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. 1 Trust, 2 Communication, 3 Wealth, 4 Sex

10) Would you ever marry for money? no

11) Would you die for the person you love? I just haven't gotten far enough in life to make a decision about this one. Plus, I never have actually been in a real relationship.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? I am extremely loyal.

13) How many times have you been in love? once

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? I'm not sure, but certainly more than once.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? I suppose it's possible.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? It's a tie between trust and affection.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Lying about significant things and hiding things really bothers me.

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? Not on a daily basis necesarily but very often.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? I believe that we all have several soulmates.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? I can't say how many we have, and I don't believe I've found mine, but I feel confident enough that I will.

[Dreammms]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? no. lust? yes.

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?this is a hard question. i wouldn't want to go my life without a mate so i guess i would have to go with 50 yrs in a good relationship.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?sweet,sensitvie, loving,funny,etc. yes, i have come close to finding him.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?it's better to loved and lost

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 7 both

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?yes

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?if the person was married i wouldn't go for it

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?go for it

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.trust,communication,sex,wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money? noooo

11) Would you die for the person you love?YES

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?faithful

13) How many times have you been in love?2 times

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?there is no limit

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? YES

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?Stevie Nicks

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?being treated like **** or being cheated on

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?yes

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?i believe in desitny

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?i think you can have more than one soulmate. i did find mine...

[WildInTheWind]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? I never did until I met my current bf 4 months ago...I do now!
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? I'd go for the 50 years
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? I already found him. He can play a bitchin guitar solo with his teeth. Need I say more?
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Not too sure. I'll go with loved and lost
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 6
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? no
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? I think I'd have to go for it.
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? I think I'd aviod it
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Trust. Communication. Sex. Wealth.
10) Would you ever marry for money? maybe if it was ALOT of money!
11) Would you die for the person you love? split desision. I have a child so I have to put her first no matter what. I'd die for her, but that's about it.
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? faithful...I've never cheated
13) How many times have you been in love? 2 times
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? As many times as it takes
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? I don't know....I'd say no though
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? trust, someone who can love my daughter like his own and good taste in music! wait, that is three things...
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? lying
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? not really
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? not sure after this one I've got now! I always said luck of the draw....maybe not though!
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? I think I have

[wondergirl9847]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?

Newp. How can you be in love with someone you don't know? What if they are a murderer, rapist, dog hater?!

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?

Well, since most people I know are in decent relationships with little passion...LOL Sesly though, this is a toughie. That year would be AMAZING, and you'd have those memories for a lifetime. Those 50 years would be good, but there might not be any great memories. I'd go with the year, I guess.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?

Wow. My ideal mate would be someone I could trust. I would be able to tell him anything and know he wouldn't share it with anyone else. Trust is a very sensitive issue with me. Kind, generous, sweet, smart....all important qualities. He would be a great listener, love to travel and of course, love music. If he doesn't like FM, Lindsey, Keith...etc...he most certainly will learn to.

I knew someone who I was thisclose to telling how I felt about them, but they are now married to their "soulmate". I thought he was the most awesome person I'd ever met.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?

I've never been in love, so I wouldn't know. I have lost people I've loved, to death (my grandfathers, my uncle and my dog, Candy.), and I would never wish I had never gotten to know and love them. They were important in my life and I would never wanna change that.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?

I'm a virgin, so I can't answer that. LOL!!

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?

Yes, for a friend I really cared about.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?

Move on. NOBODY is worth the heartache to that family, especially if they have children. If he's in a relationship, don't worry about it, if it truly is destiny, they'll break up and you'll be together forever.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?

GO FOR IT! You'll remember those 6 months for the rest of your life. Pain is part of life...loss is part of life. We all have to go sometime. Anyway, the doctors told my uncle he had a few months to live....that was about 4 years ago and he's still here, so whatevah.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.

1. Trust
2. Communication (Without communication, the sex will suffer)
3. Sex (I can imagine it would be awesome with someone I truly love.)
4. Wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money?

No way.

11) Would you die for the person you love?

Of course. That's the ultimate sacrifice.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?

If I had someone, I would most def be faithful.

13) How many times have you been in love?

Zero.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?

You can love as many people as you want. That whole "soulmate" thing is a crock. There are a bazillion people in the world, you think only ONE is compatible with you? You are mistaken.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?

Sure. It's possible and probable...check my answer to #14. You have to make choices in life...it's tough and sucks sometimes, but that's life.

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?

Faithfulness. I would not stay with a cheater.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?

Cheating. Of course, if someone beat me up, I would kick their a$$ back if I could and leave. LOL My aunt has stayed with a dumba$$ abusive husband for over 20 years and that's INSANE. You lay one finger on me and I'll try to snap it off. I know how to use a gun, beyotch. LOL

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?

No. You can show people you love them by doing various things. I'm not a lovey-dovey-huggy-mushy person. I do tell people I love them, just not every day. They know.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?

I believe in destiny, but not soulmates.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?


Obviously, I am not on the soulmate train. LOL I have not found the love of my life yet. I'm not sure if I ever will and I'm not even sure I'm meant to be with anyone...ever.

[estranged4life]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?

No to love, Yes to attraction

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?

As the Queen song goes "Just one year of love..."

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?

Deb, Need I say more?

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?

I would loved & lost than play it safe...One thing about my personality is that I go balls out on everything.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?

I say a 7, I prefer understanding more than anything.

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?

Nope.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?

Move on.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?

Yes, I say go for it.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.

Communication, Trust, Sex, Wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money?

No.

11) Would you die for the person you love?

Yes.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?

Faithful...Unless Stevie and/or Rita are available

13) How many times have you been in love?

Twice

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?

Couldnt tell ya...

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?

Yes, It could be possible

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?

Ability to say what is on my mind...No matter how brutal the words are.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?

Unfaithfulness

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?

No, I dont have to say it to Deb everyday nor does she have to say it to me.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?

I believe everything is destined, And I do believe in soul mates.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?

Couldnt say how many one person can have. It might shock people but Deb & myself are not soulmates, More opposites than anything...But as they say opposites attract.

[ontheEdgeof17]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Lust at first sight...never love

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? 1 year of love

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? funny....smart...has goals....trustworthy I have, but I left him slip away. I wasn't ready for a LTR.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? I never play it safe. You only live once.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 6

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? yeah

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? Go for it! I take risks.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Toughie. I'd say go for it. They could fight through the disease and win the battle. There's always hope.


9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. Communication, Trust, Wealth, Sex


10) Would you ever marry for money? no

11) Would you die for the person you love? yes

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? right now, I stray. I'm too young for a major relationship

13) How many times have you been in love? once

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? You can love a lot, but only one is meant for you.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? yes. very possible

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? My love for Stevie Nicks music.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? lying

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? absolutely

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? eh, I dunno. A little of both. You have to be in the right place at the right time for it to happen.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? One. I found him and let him go....:sigh: I'm sure I will find another that was meant to be.

[GypsySorcerer]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Infatuation/lust, yes; love, no

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life(or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? Neither

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Intelligent, open-minded, generous with others, compassionate. Yes, but circumstances got in the way.

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Love and lose

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 7, with quality most important

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Yup
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? Already been in that situation and I don't know what I'd do if I wound up in that situation again.

8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Don't know

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
1-Trust
2-Communication
3-Sex
4-Wealth

10) Would you ever marry for money? No

11) Would you die for the person you love? I don't know

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? Faithful

13) How many times have you been in love? Once

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? several

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Individuality

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Someone trying to exert too much control over me

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? No

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? Destiny

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? I think we have several soulmates in life, including platonic ones.

[GardenStateGirlie]

Gosh, i'm uncharacteristically optimistic today

Do you believe in love at first sight? I think it's possible...in this life, anything is possible.

If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? Absolutely 1 year.

Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Intelligent/Wordly, Honest, Caring, Witty, Sarcastic, Funny. Ahh...we shall see.

Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? What good is living if you're not up for taking chances?

On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 6.

Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? More for myself than someone else.

Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? You move on. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.

Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Go for it.

Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. Trust, Communication, Sex, Wealth.

Would you ever marry for money? Supposedly, it's the thing to do but no thanks.

Would you die for the person you love? Yes.

Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? Faithful.

How many times have you been in love? Smitten? Many. Love? Zero.

How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? I think it depends on the person.

Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Not really sure.

What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Trust.

What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Cheating.

Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? Not necessarily daily but I think it's good to remind someone.

Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? Call me a hopeless romantic but I think there's a reason you meet certain people. I think it's a bit of destiny mixed with good timing.

How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? Again, depends on the person. Not sure but I think I will If I haven't already encountered him at some point.

[sparky]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight?

Love, no. Lust, yup.

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose?

I'll take the 50. I've got a great imagination.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?

Readers Digest condensed version : Smart, Funny, Hunky, Grounded, Focused, Driven, Calm, Strong, Honest, Confident, Dark Haired and Eyed, and under 6' tall If I put together the best of two former boyfriends...pretty close.


4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”?

Better to have loved and lost. But not just for a friggin year !


5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both?

9. Mind-shattering and often. My libido is a problem.

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved?

Many.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on?

I thought we already DID that. Have fun, tell the world ! NEVER AGAIN.


8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you?

Gimme the 6 months. As long I get another shot at someone else.

9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.

Trust. Sex. Communication. Wealth.


10) Would you ever marry for money?

Not now. But if I didn't have any...who knows ?

11) Would you die for the person you love?

Sure.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray?

That all depends...

13) How many times have you been in love?

Tricky question. Depends on the definition. 4 or 5 times, I guess.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)?

An infinite number.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time?

Unfortunately, yes !

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up?

Trust.

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship?

Unreliability.

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship?

Nope. In fact, It can get annoying.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random?

Random.


20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?

I think soul mate is a strange and potentially damaging phrase. Having said that...it depends on the person and the life they live how many potential partners they can have. I've had a few that could make for a steamy and entertaining box set of miniseries. I suspect there are a few more corkers where they came from....


Fun Quiz !

[bretonbanquet]

1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Not really.
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? One Year of love.
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Stable, intelligent, someone with real awareness. And not blonde. Never even been close to finding her
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Better to have loved and lost.
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 6
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? No.
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? No
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? I'll take the 6 months.
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Trust. Sex. Wealth.
1. Trust
2. Communication
3. Sex
4. Wealth
10) Would you ever marry for money? No.
11) Would you die for the person you love? Hard to say.
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? Totally faithful.
13) How many times have you been in love? Never.
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? No idea.
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? No.
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Trust.
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Lack of trust.
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? No, I don't think I could stand that.
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? Random.
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? One (that's the whole point), No, No - not sure at all...