new Dashut blog - Truth & Consequences (My Times with FM)

[reebokandlace]

Originally Posted by gldstwmn

He's done. I'd put money on it. I'm just thankful for the cool photos and memories he posted.

I agree. I too am thankful for the pics, especially the pics of Robin, so rare and so beautiful.

It just felt strange that he disappeared without a trace and left his blog followers hanging. Again, it just seems to scream as a manipulative cry for attention. "Do they miss me." "Are they wondering why i haven't posted." "Will there be an outpouring of love when i come back."

Yes, many of us are thankful, thank you Richard, but i am just calling it as i see it.

[bombaysaffires]

Originally Posted by gldstwmn

He's done. I'd put money on it. I'm just thankful for the cool photos and memories he posted.

sadly, I agree this may well be true. but I can't imagine it's because the band has brought him back into the fold to work with them again. It seems more likely to be a result of the attitude they demonstrated during the making of Ken's book, with certain members not wanting to let anyone other than the band define, describe or record the creative process of any of their material -- even if said people had a legitimate hand in creating it as well. It's about controlling the narrative, about single-handedly defining their legacy. The thing is, they've waited so long to do it (other than the usual spinning of their personal view points in interviews) that the field is still open for others to legitimately have their say. I say tough turds to the band at this point. But Richard still has emotional needs for recognition and validation from the band and feels a certain loyalty to bend to their wishes. He's gotten plenty of attaboys and love from fans, I don't think he's holding out for that at this point.

[jbrownsjr]

Originally Posted by gldstwmn

He's done. I'd put money on it. I'm just thankful for the cool photos and memories he posted.

Want to be $20,000?

[Danigirl]

I'm thinking something was brought to RD's attention, and I would put my money on Lindsey. He has kids, kids who are at the age that they can look stuff up, tabloids and news stories are one thing, but straight from the source is a bit more destructive and credible. Stevie I don't beleive would care, Chris would shrug it off, Mick would be all for the publicity, John, well John would say "Huh, wait what's going on?" RD has stated on several occasions that if anyone of the band asked him to cease posting, he would and I think instead of giving us any explanation, he would stop as not to make any one of the band look like cry babies.

Of course I could be perfectly wrong in my assumptions and they might have asked him to produce their last album, along with as many of the original Rumours lineup as possible! 😳

[bombaysaffires]

Originally Posted by Danigirl

I'm thinking something was brought to RD's attention, and I would put my money on Lindsey. He has kids, kids who are at the age that they can look stuff up, tabloids and news stories are one thing, but straight from the source is a bit more destructive and credible. Stevie I don't beleive would care, Chris would shrug it off, Mick would be all for the publicity, John, well John would say "Huh, wait what's going on?" RD has stated on several occasions that if anyone of the band asked him to cease posting, he would and I think instead of giving us any explanation, he would stop as not to make any one of the band look like cry babies.

Of course I could be perfectly wrong in my assumptions and they might have asked him to produce their last album, along with as many of the original Rumours lineup as possible! ��

I agree. Dunno if it's through his kids, but I agree it would likely be him, if anyone.

I always figured once Mary started donating photos Stevie was aware, and that began some time ago now.

We know Mick has known forever and in true Mick fashion, he didn't mind.

Can't imagine John would give two sh*ts.

Chris.... he's been nothing but loving in his descriptions and photos of her, so.... but it's possible she'd mind.

Lindsey... couldn't stop Ken from writing a book but sure put the kibosh on anyone in the band supporting it. Might write his own book. He and Richard clearly had a falling out and as LB's faithful sidekick forever knows a lot of stuff.....I'd say we have a winner!

[michelej1]

Originally Posted by bombaysaffires

I always figured once Mary started donating photos Stevie was aware, and that began some time ago now.

We know Mick has known forever and in true Mick fashion, he didn't mind.

Lindsey has known forever as well. Richard said he had been in touch with Lindsey as well as Mick.

Michele

[SteveMacD]

It could just be that nothing happened, that he only got the "Oh, it's so nice to see you" and a bunch of meaningless small talk for a few minutes, and he realized they really didn't give a f**k anymore.

[MikeInNV]

If I was a member of Fleetwood Mac, I would be more worried about what Ledgies post than what Richard does.

[PenguinHead]

Originally Posted by reebokandlace

Am i the only one that thinks it is a little odd that richard disappears right before the las vegas show and he nor stacy say anything about his lack of communication? Its just weird.... It kind of makes him lose credibility in my book....to just leave people hanging ... It seems like he is looking for attention, then he isn't. Turned on, turned off.... Its disappointing because he seemed so geniune, and then he disappears without a trace. The least he could have done was have his friend Stacy post something like...." stand by, processing the experience". Anything. But nothing is odd.




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Lack of credibility? It sounds like there is a lack of gratitude and empathy. Richard doesn't owe us anything. He was sincere in his intentions, and generously shared his personal photos and insights.

He has given fans an intimate peek into the band's history. And he did it for free, enjoying the interaction, while being respectful to the band, as well as tp some bloggers who have no sense of decorum with regard to privacy, sensitivity, and boundaries.

He has been honest about his health issues. Did it cross anyone's mind that this or some other personal issue might be a reason his activity on the site has slowed down? It's very rude and crass to express indignation or question his sincerity.

[PenguinHead]

Originally Posted by MikeInNV

If I was a member of Fleetwood Mac, I would be more worried about what Ledgies post than what Richard does.

I have a feeling that the members of Fleetwood Mac could care less about Richard's blog. He has been very respectful, and makes a point to never speak for them, but just his experiences.

You are smart to point out that Ledgies are much less forgiving!
But then again, it's egotistical to think anything we say here has much impact on them.

[Montclare]

I honestly don't see Lindsey putting the kibosh on this. Carol and Ken (and Mick if you include his first autobiography) already have books out on him whereas Richard has been his staunchest defender. I don't see him telling Richard to stop. I think either it's Richard's health (worst case scenario) or hopefully they did ask him to participate in the new album (best case scenario).

[michelej1]

Originally Posted by SteveMacD

It could just be that nothing happened, that he only got the "Oh, it's so nice to see you" and a bunch of meaningless small talk for a few minutes, and he realized they really didn't give a f**k anymore.

Yes, I know that would hurt him. Although, I can't see Mick doing that to him. I'd think Mick would give him a big, exuberant welcome, even if no one else did. But yeah, I guess if Lindsey didn't, Richard would be hurt.

Almost 10 years ago when he showed up at the UTS concert, it must have felt ok, because he came back the next night as well.

Michele

[michelej1]

Originally Posted by PenguinHead

You are smart to point out that Ledgies are much less forgiving!
But then again, it's egotistical to think anything we say here has much impact on them.

Yes, they don't care what we say because we don't know them and haven't seen them in their worst and most intimate, vulnerable moments. We're strangers.

Michele

[PenguinHead]

Originally Posted by Montclare

I honestly don't see Lindsey putting the kibosh on this. Carol and Ken (and Mick if you include his first autobiography) already have books out on him whereas Richard has been his staunchest defender. I don't see him telling Richard to stop. I think either it's Richard's health (worst case scenario) or hopefully they did ask him to participate in the new album (best case scenario).

Exactly! They've been in the public eye for over forty years. You learn to become immune to all the notoriety and exposure. You would go crazy otherwise, because it's impossible police everything.

It could perhaps be an issue if Richard was making money by selling private photos or saying disparaging or untruthful statements. But he has maintained a level of class and has no nefarious intentions.

[Danigirl]

Originally Posted by SteveMacD

It could just be that nothing happened, that he only got the "Oh, it's so nice to see you" and a bunch of meaningless small talk for a few minutes, and he realized they really didn't give a f**k anymore.

Ahhh yes, this is a possibility, in which case his "free" doings were not so free.