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If she was unhappy with "Smile At You" it's her own fault. Fans hate the SYW version because it's missing the venom of the original. Stevie's the one who wanted the song defanged. She said she didn't feel angry anymore so she didn't want the song to be angry anymore. Blame her not Lindsey. I also don't think it was Lindsey's idea to have a children's chorus on the song SYW. I'd bet my life Stevie wanted it. That's what ruins the song for me.
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But I'm not sure we agree in how we judge the 'facts' of Christine McVie's life. For instance, considering she's now 68, I don't think she was married for 'quite a long time'. Marriage to John barely lasted a decade; Eddie Quintela seems to have lasted longer, but maybe not by much, 12-15 years tops I would guess. Also, remember that she married John two weeks after she met him, which makes Stevie's marriage to Kim look positively well-considered! Addiction is, again, a matter of opinion. Christine definitely drank a lot, and smoked like a chimney. We know she did coke, too. Stevie often says she was the only one who went to rehab, but to me that doesn't mean she was the only one who had a problem. Don't get me wrong: Stevie's substance abuse was definitely 'worse' - she did more, did it in a way that became very obvious, and let it get to life-threatening levels. But I don't think all the rest of them, including Christine, never leaned on chemical crutches from time to time, as well. Where I totally agree with you is that Christine never lost her sense of herself. Interestingly, this is (for me) paradoxically why I find Stevie the more interesting artist. Christine's 'self' is essentially a pretty grounded, intelligent, easy-going, modest, and less conflicted, person. I'd bet my car that if I met her, we'd get on like a house on fire! But most of the artists I really dig are nothing like me, so I guess that's why I'm drawn to Miss Stevie. The reason I gravitate towards motherhood as something both women 'gave up' is because I do have a hunch that that is the biggest sacrifice they made for their careers. It's still an issue that requires thought for women today, and the 60s, 70s and 80s was far worse in terms of society's view that mums should just be mums and not work at the same time. Obviously, we have quite a lot of evidence from her own mouth that not being a mum was a difficult choice for Stevie. But you're right, we don't have as much - if any - evidence that Chris felt any conflict there. She might have been very clear, her whole life, that she didn't want kids, and that's great, in fact I'm that way myself. So I shouldn't have lumped Christine in with Stevie on that score, and I stand corrected. I guess I just think we're getting off on the wrong foot from the start, to say, as you did, that 'Christine wasn't willing to give up everything else for that kind of fame'. She didn't want it. And it doesn't make sense to give up anything for something you don't want. Stevie actually reported almost this very truth, when she said that she and Chris were talking about Chris's retiral from FM and she said to Stevie: 'This is your passion. It's not mine.' So, it wasn't that she wasn't less willing than Stevie to give anything up; rather, that they simply never craved the same thing. Last of all on this, it's interesting that LB said recently that he imagined Christine's life nowadays must get a little 'one-dimensional for her', because that's so illuminating of the fundamental differences I've always thought were there between Lindsey-and-Stevie and Christine-and-John. LB and SN were/are artistically narcissists; CM and JM are musicians. (Mick, I think, is a fascinating half n half!) It is very difficult for a narcissist to imagine someone else not feeling the way they do themselves about anything. So LB struggles to believe that Chris is happy without making music. But she probably is. I do hope so (but I'd like to see her come back too). Sorry this reply was so long. Loz |
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But I do agree that after they apparently fought at the end of the tour, her earlier luke warmness over the album returned with a vengeance and became heated dismay. Michele |
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I don't remember her firing shots until she was into her Crystal Visions promos. You might have me there. Got a pointer to her earlier gripes where I can read em? ![]() Quote:
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Another factor that I think lead to Stevie's star power back in the day was the way a band was promoted. There was always a spotlight towards the lead singer and Stevie was marketed on radio a lot as Fleetwood Mac's lead singer. I remember songs being introduced as Stevie Nicks and Fleetwood Mac. Same could be said for other bands, ie Don Henley and the Eagles. Oddly enough, Christine had the lionshare of singles but wasn't considered as the lead singer, hence the focus on Stevie. As an early fan too, I always thought of Stevie as the lead singer of the band.
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![]() I don't know about Stevie working harder at it. She likes to talk a lot about how hard she has worked ("always on call") but she has been very babied all her life, too. She didnt have much to do in the studio with FM. She surrounded herself with supporters. She partied all the time and she did go on vacation. She slept with the men she worked with, probably partly because she started out like that with Lindsey, but maybe partly to get what she wanted from them. And Tom Petty said her work ethic wasn't exactly in line with the Heartbreakers'. Yes, she balanced her band life with solo career, which could not have been easy, especially in the day of videos and so many interviews. However, when she was on tour (Two nights on, two nights off, etc.) wasn't Lindsey always working on music? It wasn't like he was sitting back and doing nothing. She always felt the need to prove herself to Lindsey and win; that bitterness with him has been a HUGE motivator in her life, I think. Maybe she wanted it more in that way because she has always needed his approval, and he has not always needed hers in the same way. I'm sure it got under his skin tremendously that she became such a solo star, but obviously he didn't go overly commercial in order to compete. So I think yes, she wanted it more and tried harder, but as far as being a harder worker, I'm just not buying it. Last edited by glamorousnymph; 09-05-2011 at 11:16 AM.. |
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All I was doing was speculating why Stevie might be griping about how her songs on Say You Will came out. If she has a complaint about "Say You Will" (the song) my guess would be that the single version really amped up the guitar and she might not have been keen about that. I doubt it has anything to do with the childrens chorus that you don't like. |
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She works more stages, because she is more in demand and can tour more. But when he does tour, he works harder in and out of FM. What she does do more than he does is more P.R. If the press wanted to talk to Lindsey as much as Stevie I don't know whether he would make himself available or if he'd just do a set number of interviews and then no more. He's kind of a ham and he does like to talk to a certain extent, so maybe if they wanted him as much, he'd oblige. On the other hand . . . I know we have that one video where he doesn't want to do a press conference after a show and he leaves with Carol Ann. Christine is all bummed because she has to stay. Also, when they did that FM interview there was tension at the start, because Lindsey called in late, I think and all the others were there. So, in that respect, the press and publicity, maybe Stevie worked harder than all of them. Mick is willing to do tons of press too. Michele |
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^^^ They do say the definition of work is something you have to do when you'd rather be doing something else. So if you look at it like that, there aren't enough hours in the day to be playing with knobs in a studio, for LB, or nattering away endlessly to interviewers, for SN. I say they're equally lazy/industrious at the things they dislike/enjoy. In other words, just like me!
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Mick not only does press, but he'll stay in the studio all night as well and I think he's quite charismatic. If Mick had been a good looking guy, heaven help us. People would be going, Ringo who? [J/K you Beatles fans].
Mick is very unique. He's got an extraordinary bond with all of them. And I don't mean that in just a loving sense. I'm sure he's caused them all a lot of frustration as well. But if any of them had to do a list of the top 5 most influential people in their lives, whether influential for good or bad, I think Mick would make the cut for each of them. And I'm sure he'd have to be on Peter Green's list as well. Michele |
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And I personally think he is smokin'!!
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