The Just Thought I'd Share Thread

daniellaaarisen · #1 08-12-2011, 10:14 AM

Nothing like waking up to the news that your own mother wants to sue you. Jesus Christ.

Silver Springs · #2 08-12-2011, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

Nothing like waking up to the news that your own mother wants to sue you. Jesus Christ.

Uhm. Wow.

Why on earth would she want to do that? Hardly sounds like something a loving Mother would do :s

daniellaaarisen · #3 08-12-2011, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Silver Springs

Uhm. Wow.

Why on earth would she want to do that? Hardly sounds like something a loving Mother would do :s

We don't speak. She's looking for money. She's claiming I stole a big chunk of money from her. The sad thing is that she's a smart **** and thought out every angle of this, so I may be forced to just pay her off for the sake of not having a legitimate court issue.

mezzoforte · #4 08-12-2011, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

We don't speak. She's looking for money. She's claiming I stole a big chunk of money from her. The sad thing is that she's a smart **** and thought out every angle of this, so I may be forced to just pay her off for the sake of not having a legitimate court issue.

I can't think of a thing to say, but I'm so sorry. I really can't imagine.

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HejiraNYC · #6 08-12-2011, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

We don't speak. She's looking for money. She's claiming I stole a big chunk of money from her. The sad thing is that she's a smart **** and thought out every angle of this, so I may be forced to just pay her off for the sake of not having a legitimate court issue.

Can you say "case dismissed?" Really? Can a parent come after their child for repayment? This is just awful. Your mother makes Cruella DeVille look charitable.

ButterCookie · #7 08-12-2011, 11:58 AM

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Kill. me. now. Please.

Please don't beat yourself up about this. It's not your fault! I don't walk around thinking "darn, better not say anything, just incase" 'cause if you do, someone might notice that you didn't say something and be even more upset. No one can win.

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

We don't speak. She's looking for money. She's claiming I stole a big chunk of money from her. The sad thing is that she's a smart **** and thought out every angle of this, so I may be forced to just pay her off for the sake of not having a legitimate court issue.

Ooh she sounds as despicable as my father. They'd probably get on well. I'm sorry you have to go through this s***. My mum keeps pressing me to sue my dad for the money for Uni (He's stopped giving maintenance blah blah) but I just don't see the point. All I'd probably gain from it would be the upset of having to see his arrogant face because he hasn't got a pot to piss in.

Bug hugs sweets

daniellaaarisen · #8 08-12-2011, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

Can you say "case dismissed?" Really? Can a parent come after their child for repayment? This is just awful. Your mother makes Cruella DeVille look charitable.

She's evil. She used to give me her debit card YEARS ago to withdraw money for myself (before I had my own) and she's claiming that she never gave me permission. My sister used to do it constantly too but of course, she's targeting me.

daniellaaarisen · #9 08-12-2011, 12:08 PM

Thanks for all the support guys. I'm glad my mom doesn't know about the Ledge so I have one place to rant!

fumidesigns · #10 08-12-2011, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

She's evil. She used to give me her debit card YEARS ago to withdraw money for myself (before I had my own) and she's claiming that she never gave me permission. My sister used to do it constantly too but of course, she's targeting me.

But how would u withdraw money with her giving you her pin!? Smmfh!!!!!!!

daniellaaarisen · #11 08-12-2011, 12:17 PM

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But how would u withdraw money with her giving you her pin!? Smmfh!!!!!!!

She did give me her pin, I was like 13 when this happened. She's only doing this because her attorney bills are all getting sent to my dad so she's suing whoever she wants, apparently. But that was her main way of giving me money for years so she could probably trace me to a few thousand dollars of she wanted to. Literally she'd drive me to the ATM and sit in the car because she was too lazy to withdrawal money herself.

fumidesigns · #12 08-12-2011, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

We don't speak. She's looking for money. She's claiming I stole a big chunk of money from her. The sad thing is that she's a smart **** and thought out every angle of this, so I may be forced to just pay her off for the sake of not having a legitimate court issue.

Boo lemme tell you this..........when people screw you over they get it back times TEN!!!!! Now I'm not gonna cuss her cuz that's your mom, and since I wuv woo I'm not gonna be disrespectful. But it sounds amazingly foul and ima pray for you.....HONEST!

YOU'RE IN MY THOUGHTS BOO! YOU CAN/WILL GET THRU ANYTHING!

camchristo · #13 08-12-2011, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

We don't speak. She's looking for money. She's claiming I stole a big chunk of money from her. The sad thing is that she's a smart **** and thought out every angle of this, so I may be forced to just pay her off for the sake of not having a legitimate court issue.

Anyone can sue anyone else for any reason they want as long as they pay the filing fee to file their suit. However, just because they can does not mean they have a legitimate claim. I don't see any way that your mom could win such a suit. The first thing that comes to mind is the statute of limitations. That was six years ago. Aside from that, you were her daughter, she gave you the pin code, she took you to the ATM (explicit consent), you were a minor.

I don't know what sort of evidence she claims to have but I don't buy it. She could end up having to pay your attorney fees if you go to court and she loses.

This is not legal advice, because I don't practice California law. It's mostly just common sense. I wouldn't cancel your school plans because of it.

louielouie2000 · #14 08-12-2011, 08:10 PM

Okay folks- ***consider this the final straw & last warning***

The 'Just Thought I'd Share Thread' is NOT a dumping ground for your personal grievances with other Ledgies. Personal attacks have no place here. If insults and accusations start flying in here again, I will lock this thread.

Y'all know I am about as lax as possible when it comes to content & moderation, but I will not tolerate further abuse of this thread. We all enjoy sharing our thoughts & experiences here tremendously, so let's please keep it civil.

Bottom line? Take any personal issues you have with another Ledgie to private messaging.

-Louie

SuperFleetwood · #15 08-12-2011, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by louielouie2000

Okay folks- ***consider this the final straw & last warning***

The 'Just Thought I'd Share Thread' is NOT a dumping ground for your personal grievances with other Ledgies. Personal attacks have no place here. If insults and accusations start flying in here again, I will lock this thread.

Y'all know I am about as lax as possible when it comes to content & moderation, but I will not tolerate further abuse of this thread. We all enjoy sharing our thoughts & experiences here tremendously, so let's please keep it civil.

Bottom line? Take any personal issues you have with another Ledgie to private messaging.

-Louie