my dating rant....

[GypsyNomad]

Originally Posted by Janet

You shouldn't judge men just because they are of a different culture. I mean, you never know what could happen...men are men no matter where they are from!

But if you had nothing in common, you had nothing in common...just don't close the door because of age and looks. Sometimes getting to know someone can be the sexiest thing in the world. Most guys I dated were so casual and just friends at first, but later i developed feelings.

4 years isn't a big deal either, older men are more fun anyway!! ;-)

Good luck with it!

i understand what you're saying, but it didn't matter if this guy was black, white, brown, or purple.... i had a weird feeling about this before i even met him cause he was so insistent on meeting me just after IMing eachother within like 15min.... he basically contacted me out of the blue, so that made me a bit uncomfortable....but i'm a nice person & i wanted to be nice. Plus, we didn't have much in common (music, tv, movies, books,) he wasn't into art that much... what would we have talked about? The little things are just as important. American guys (regardless of skin color) are different from foreign guys (yet not any less special),.... I'm only 20 and still haven't completely grown up in some ways, so someone 24/25 is just not what i'm looking for i guess, i'd rather go out w/someone between 19 & 22... my friend who is 23, went out with a guy who was 32.... all he did was use her & then ignore her emails/calls If i were 30, & a guy was 35-40, it would be different....i dunno, maybe i'm wrong & maybe i'm foolish, but i always go with my first instincts. Thanks for your insight though

~Carei