A Seriously Messed Up Situation With My Friends. Some Advice please......

[xdreamsunwindx]

God, you guys are no fun.

Seriously though. Coming from someone who has been in and around bands for years, you have to be 100% in-control of your band if you wanna kick the bitches to the curb. They're not going to take you seriously if you're a pushover and you don't always call the shots. Sure, you may have gotten the band this new singer, but if you have a guitar player with his head up his ass (it's usually the guitarist, sorry), that's not going to matter. In reality, though, your exiled bandmates are just going to go on and form a better, more successful band, because nine times out of ten, that's the case. Sorry to burst your bubble.

In short, band bull**** is never ever going to be simple, and you really should lighten up a bit. You're what, 16, and you think your friends are bad people because they're drinking wine, which could possibly be more pansy-esque than a mai tai? Come on!