Did I do the right thing?

[DrummerDeanna]

Ok - so I don't know if y'all remember but my sister and mom have major drama going on.

Well this weekend/early this week - they tried to sort of reconcile...sort of. My mom was invited to my nephew's piano recital - but she was nervous and sick the whole time - and did nothing but talk about herself the entire time...she was in high manic mode.

Anyway - at the crux of their problems is the fact that my dad is a convicted pedophile. My sister cut him off years ago - and my mom was supposed to to do the same. She has...but here's where I wonder..

She still runs into all sorts of people who have connections to him. We've told her not to tell them ANYTHING about us - especially my sister because she's absolutely terrified that he'll try and get to my nephew.

Ok - so my mom swears she doesn't discuss us with anyone, ever.

Ok - so this past weekend we're at a restaurant and we run into this woman who is the daughter of a guy that my dad is supposedly running drugs with currently.

I walk over and my mom is going on about how well I'm doing in Colorado etc...

This girl basically has a direct connection to my dad. My mom then added a "oh but don't say anything..." thing...like THAT's going to happen.

So here's where my "did I do the right thing" question comes in. I told my sister about the exchange. And it, of course, blew up in my face (on the mom side).

But I'm just as concerned about my nephew (and my sister has had some very weird things happening lately - like a mysterious car that followed her - then sat parked in front of her house for 20 minutes...). I just thought she ought to know that as well hidden as she thought she was - that might not be the case...

I also discussed my concern with my mom - she freaked out. I mean FREAKED out. My mom still claims she doesn't tell people about us, that I should have kept my mouth shut etc...

I'm starting to think I should have kept my mouth shut

I hate family drama...but I was just curious to see what others might think..did I overstep my boundaries?