TMI thread. Discussion of sensitive ADULT issues/triggers. Enter with awareness! - Page 125

fumidesigns · #**1861** 04-19-2011, 07:01 PM

great now im depressed! i was gonna look at porn...............but now..........i'm not up to it. fml!

daniellaaarisen · #**1862** 04-19-2011, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by LikeAWillow

TMI question--

Is it too forward to just ask someone if they think enough time has passed for y'all to hook up again as part of your friendship? I wrote him this big letter about ~feelings~ and what not, but let's not kid. That ish was never going to be delivered. We're not compatible in a relationship sense at all; I just want the sex back.

Do it. The only one worrying about the emotional component is you, so he should happily jump back into bed with you.

LikeAWillow · #**1863** 04-19-2011, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

Do it. The only one worrying about the emotional component is you, so he should happily jump back into bed with you.

Nervousssss. Ugh. So nervous. I'm so weird. With anyone else, this would be easy, but I'm so worried about making him uncomfortable. He's kind of awkward

And by kind of, I mean really.

ryguy2010 · #**1864** 04-19-2011, 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by fumidesigns

oh.........ummmmmmmmmmmmmm

good sex?

6 months easily and masturbated (today

)

fumidesigns · #**1865** 04-19-2011, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ryguy2010

6 months easily and masturbated (today

)

lol! lucky you.

i should go try............

WildHeart69 · #**1866** 04-19-2011, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by mylittledemon

my friend Adam was trying to shag this girl named Debbie. She was super cool and we all dug her. Anyway... a few weeks went by and I saw Deb at school and I said, "Hey Adam, did you two ever uhhh...?" And Adam went pale. He goes "yeah man, she's nuts! She was at my place and I kid you not, she goes - F*CK ME NOW in this demonic scary man-voice." I then laughed for about 5 minutes and Adam goes ... "I almost asked her... Are you the GateKeeper?" ROFL! So for the next year or so whenever we'd see Deb, I'd look at Adam and go "There is no Debbie, only Zuul!"

geektastic. love it!

ryguy2010 · #**1867** 04-19-2011, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by fumidesigns

lol! lucky you.

i should go try............

lol knock yourself out! At least clean up won't be that bad for you. Just realized I replied to your "good sex" post and not the "last time" so correction six mo's for last time. But I can handle my own business w/o drama or a call back

fumidesigns · #**1868** 04-19-2011, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by ryguy2010

lol knock yourself out! At least clean up won't be that bad for you. Just realized I replied to your "good sex" post and not the "last time" so correction six mo's for last time. But I can handle my own business w/o drama or a call back

true that.................

*finds batteries* lol j/k

Dodfather · #**1869** 04-19-2011, 08:23 PM

Sex: almost 2 months (and it had been about 9-10 months before that - sheeeeesh,,,!!)

Self-love: Earlier this evening! (I've had to get pretty damn good at it...)

cristochango · #**1870** 04-19-2011, 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by fumidesigns

true that.................

*finds batteries* lol j/k

But seriously

ryguy2010 · #**1871** 04-19-2011, 08:35 PM

hello Cris :waves: agreed

We should all give ourselves steamy.. passionate.. wild.. hair raising..
spine tingling hand or battery operated sex @ least 1x per week

fumidesigns · #**1872** 04-19-2011, 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by cristochango

But seriously

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Originally Posted by ryguy2010

hello Cris :waves: agreed

We should all give ourselves steamy.. passionate.. wild.. hair raising..
spine tingling hand or battery operated sex @ least 1x per week

oh i normally do. i've been treating myself badly lately i guess *lowers head in shame*

GypsySorcerer · #**1873** 04-19-2011, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

Oh lord, I just realized that it's been 5 weeks!!

I've had make out dates with the grad student, but that's it. I've had other offers, but I've really just not been in the mood, lately. I have sexted with my Ledgie sexter, but that's it. I guess I'm just frustrated, that things never seem to go down the road the way I'd like them too(i.e.- I've had too many one night stands, that haven't led to a relationship. I hate one night stands).

M-bated? This afternoon!

See, I can't bring myself to have a make-out date. I feel at my age (30) there is no territory between a little kissing and sex.... a few dates, and then bam: sex. I just can't see myself giving a guy a BJ, and then saying, "Okay! Well, that's it! Call me tomorrow!" :shurg: But I kind of miss the "anticipation" and intrigue of taking things in "steps." I hate dating sometimes.

daniellaaarisen · #**1874** 04-19-2011, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by GypsySorcerer

See, I can't bring myself to have a make-out date. I feel at my age (30) there is no territory between a little kissing and sex.... a few dates, and then bam: sex. I just can't see myself giving a guy a BJ, and then saying, "Okay! Well, that's it! Call me tomorrow!" :shurg: But I kind of miss the "anticipation" and intrigue of taking things in "steps." I hate dating sometimes.

Agreed completely, and I'm 19.

fumidesigns · #**1875** 04-19-2011, 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

Agreed completely, and I'm 19.

19?!

well dayum............i'm a fossil!